How often?
Careless_kevin4405
How many times do u go to the stripclub? Every week? Once a month? Did u stop going? And what is a good budget to set? I go once or twice a week , only cash (less than $80). I wait for one girl I like and spend the budget getting dances if I dislike the dance I go for girl B. Any advice?
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Maybe save that $80 per weekly visit and save it for a monthly visit. You might have a better time.
I agree with Ishmael. It may be best to save the $320/month for 1-2 visits per month, to allow for a better time each visit. Of course, if you need a more frequent fix, I can understand the benefit of going more frequently, while spending less each time, as at least you get your weekly access to tits and ass. I know I don't have the willpower to stay away for more than a few days at a time.
I commend your willpower. I'm not sure I could go with only $80 and not be in the street before I was ready to leave.
Every person has a different financial situation, either because of the amount of money they have/earn, or because they have differing financial goals. Some people have lots of cash, but are diligent about saving/investing it. Others have less cash, but are okay with spending lots of it at clubs, as it provides a valued experience.
While I don't like the phrase "you do you", that is appropriate in the case of PL lifestyle. Every person has different interests/goals, and they change over time. I'm currently in a phase of visiting clubs far more than is normal. However, as in the past, I will tire of the activity eventually, and move on to another activity. I will then repeat the cycle at some point in the future.
As with any vice/addiction, strip clubbing can get a grip on you. I'm not sure of the impact of $80/week for you. If it's discretionary spending that has no detrimental impact on your life, spend away. If you're at risk or not making rent/buying food, then get it under control before it becomes a death spiral.
The activity has both financial and emotional risks that can have bad consequences if not approached cautiously. As long as you go into it clear-eyed, it's a great activity. Once you see yourself being sucked into it and regretting choices, back away for a bit.
It's a great activity, but only to the extent that it stays fun.
One point of advice if you do not wish to become more active. Do not engage in phone number exchanges. Texts from girls reminding you they are working today will not help in limiting visits. Also operate under the mindset that the girls are to be treated the same as other service providers. Don't get emotionally connected to them.
I believe that, when doing business with people, win-win works better than win-lose in the long run. Looks aren't enough for a good dance, she has to take her work seriously. That means she is focused on $ per unit of time she has to expend . So I don't seek free chatting time, I decide quickly if I want a dance with her. I think you're right to not get just one dance with several dancers. Strippers don't have a very good shift if it's mostly single dances with each PL. If you want to have a chance with your favs on a busy night, build a reputation for going right to the couch room when she rolls up, and giving a cheerful "thanks, see you next time" when your $ is gone.
Wrt $$, mostly in the $200 - $300 range. I try not to bust the daily single ATM withdrawal limit which for the most part is $500.
But in my mind, twice a day!
Overall anything from 2x a week to once a month.
During those times when I'm not "dating" someone, I'll go much more often, maybe 5-6 times per month, sometimes even more often.