Comments by chandler (page 2)

Before you start calling providers, you should definitely spring for a TER membership in order to read the full reviews. Trying to cut corners is the best way to get ripped off or arrested. The $40/month or whatever it costs these days will pay for itself on your first date. The fact that an escort runs ads on Backpage shouldn't disqualify her. It's just an advertising site used by all kinds of escorts, good and bad. Many of my best experiences have been with girls who were on BP, although I may have first learned about them on TER or elsewhere. The main thing to avoid is browsing through BP ads for pics that turn you on, then throwing caution to the wind in pursuing the unverified person behind the hot pics. But don't get too freaked out by all the safeguards called for. With experience, you gain a feel for what's safe and what isn't, and there's less need to jump through quite so many hoops. To put things in perspective, compared the millions of escort dates that go down annually without any trouble, the number of arrests is so minuscule that it scarcely deserves consideration, statistically speaking. Most of the statistics were guys who did really dumb stuff rather than taking a few basic precautions.

My attitude is the same as Londonguy's. Strip clubs are my secret life. I like keeping my home life as a relatively placid refuge from all the craziness of strippers. IMO, if you're convinced that a stripper isn't batshit crazy, that just means you don't know her well enough, or else you haven't known her long enough. You have to keep in mind that strippers only let you know the part of themselves they want you to know. There have been too many who I could have sworn were "normal" before their dark side came out. I was just glad I didn't have the slightest worry about it coming into my house.

I was a contributor to the ASSC newsgroup whose reviews Founder copied when he started TUSCL in 1995 or 1996. I didn't follow TUSCL much for the first few years, not until after ASSC got spammed into oblivion.

Twentyfive, I didn't mean to say that's what you were doing. I was talking about all the times I've seen people direct complaints to management in their reviews. I always wonder why they couldn't have spoken up while they were in the club. I mean, they can't all be from the LA/OC area.

"Before you say I'm either lying or am naive, wait a day or two until I can post the full story to provide more context." No problem. I'll give you a chance to get your story together first.

Papi, I'm turned on by hot girls, clothed or nude, not by clothed guys in the club. Sorry :(

Not talking about money isn't the same as her saying it's free. If the unspoken understanding is that you'll pay her, I'd give her $200-$300 afterwards. If she says it's free, I'd take her at her word. Talking about price beforehand or giving her money anyway would be an incredible insult.

I agree with GMD. I go to strip clubs to have a good time in the club, not to collect phone numbers. If a stripper chooses to keep it in the club, that's fine. I'm not gonna take it as a personal rejection. Besides, most strippers offer me their number before I'm even thinking about asking for it. Or else, by the time I ask, it's pretty obvious that she'll want me to have it.

I see so many naked chicks walking around the club I hardly notice whether or not she's wearing anything.

Your best shot at persuading managers to change something is to complain face-to-face in person while you have the chance during your visit. They might be inclined to listen to you as a paying customer while you are there in the club. I've done this a few times. Sometimes it has helped, sometimes it hasn't. To keep silent, then go home and post your complaint online, saying "in case anyone from management is reading this" is a lame move and doesn't accomplish anything.

It's rare that I see 7 dancers in a club that I'd want to have intimate encounters with.

Definitely should get William Shatner for the ponderous audiobook reading. If he isn't available, Nicholas Cage could do it justice.

1) Poseable in a variety of positions. 2) Lifelike appearance. 3) Puncture resistant.

Yeah, let us know when TUSCL is acting unweird. That would mean something must be wrong.

It's probably okay, but I sure wouldn't pursue her if it's been 3 years since I've seen her. Three months is about the longest absence I'd still go for sight unseen.

Firm but not hard. Soft but not floppy.

You guys have to ASK for a blow job?

Goldmonger, that describes half my favorite dances at what I assume is the same club.

One of my very pretty young faves at my regular club was telling me about a seriously feeble old man who crept into the club one day recently just after the doors opened. She was hanging around near the entrance at the time, and was concerned about him falling over in the dark club and injuring himself. When she went up to ask if he needed any help, he gasped a request that she couldn't quite make out. On about the third repetition, she finally understood him to say, "I want a blow job." She told him she couldn't provide that for him, but she'd ask around. She went over to where a group of strippers were hanging out and said, "Who wants to blow some old geezer before he croaks?" Right away, one of the girls jumped up and said she'd do it. I asked my fave who'd been up for it. She started to describe her, then seeing her across the club, said, "Oh, there she is over there." It was probably the dumpiest looking girl in the club. Whenever she's on stage, I try not to look. The day I get so old she's my only option is the day I give up strippers.

I only think it's annoying when it's so bad that it seems they aren't even trying. It shows disrespect for others on the board. I don't blame the school system. It's just a matter of so many more people texting and posting so many more things nowadays then there ever used to be. Mostly from people whose writing never would have been seen in public 20 years ago. All self-edited, so to speak, with no gatekeeper to keep out the junk. For the most part, that's a good thing.

Mr. O sez, "Yes, it bothers me. Your and you're is one that irritates the most. Of course there are many others. Their and there, for example." But evidently, "to" and "too" isn't an issue for you. lol https://www.tuscl.net/postread.php?PID=37337#comment427913

No, I don't do VIPs often, but virtually every time I have, a bouncer has ducked his head in at least once. Probably because I'm usually in there for the full 30 minutes if not longer. I prefer the big room that has five couches, as long as it's not very full, and we can get the uppermost couch. The door is far enough away that bouncer peek-ins aren't very intrusive. The small one-couch rooms are brighter, and anytime somebody peeks in, they're right on top of your naked ass, so to speak.

Actually, she's a lot less skinny than back in 2012-13, although most of the change occurred last year with some lifestyle changes. As much as I like skinny chicks, she looks healthier now.

You're not as likely to get peeked at when your VIP lasts only as long as Shadowcat's 5 minutes. lol

What she didn't appreciate is that although sex happens between the legs, great sex happens between the ears.