Overmanaging expectations
dallas702
Wandering
Recently I was in a club not known for extra activities. The weekday, late afternoon, visit was more a break from a long drive than a PL prowl. The club was not deserted, but definitely slow. I got a beer from the bar and sat down at a table as an attractive, tat free, brunette dancer was doing a three song set. By the time I was settled, she was finishing her last song. Several minutes later, she was in my lap and revealed a quick mind as well as her more tangible assets.
During my second beer the discussion moved on to lap dances and she started asking about what I “really” wanted. I do like to be clear - before going to - VIP what I expect, but I seldom encounter dancers as willing, the first time we meet, to discuss details. This young woman wanted details, specifics, sequences and timing. She asserted limits, based on camera locations and occasional bouncers walking thru, but generally claiming to be up for just about anything (she said FS was off the menu due to the bouncers random visits in VIP). I began to believe that this talk was her version of verbal foreplay. I was mistaken.
When we moved to VIP, she first wanted to summarize what we would do – in detail - before we sat down. Then she pointed out the cameras and the “blind spot” that was most of the cubicle we would use. After skinning off everything except a tiny thong she snuggled up to me and said, “We’ll wait for the next song,” then proceeded to NOT wait.
This very cute dancer did everything we discussed, in EXACTLY the same order she named in her summary. While she was not mechanical, and she was certainly very, very good with her mouth, I was a little put off by the exacting “planned” encounter.
Has anyone else encountered dancers obsessed with planning to this level of detail?
During my second beer the discussion moved on to lap dances and she started asking about what I “really” wanted. I do like to be clear - before going to - VIP what I expect, but I seldom encounter dancers as willing, the first time we meet, to discuss details. This young woman wanted details, specifics, sequences and timing. She asserted limits, based on camera locations and occasional bouncers walking thru, but generally claiming to be up for just about anything (she said FS was off the menu due to the bouncers random visits in VIP). I began to believe that this talk was her version of verbal foreplay. I was mistaken.
When we moved to VIP, she first wanted to summarize what we would do – in detail - before we sat down. Then she pointed out the cameras and the “blind spot” that was most of the cubicle we would use. After skinning off everything except a tiny thong she snuggled up to me and said, “We’ll wait for the next song,” then proceeded to NOT wait.
This very cute dancer did everything we discussed, in EXACTLY the same order she named in her summary. While she was not mechanical, and she was certainly very, very good with her mouth, I was a little put off by the exacting “planned” encounter.
Has anyone else encountered dancers obsessed with planning to this level of detail?
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I can certainly see your frustration with this if you're more of a "what ever happens naturally" type of person.
Then, one of us meets a dancer with absolutely no stripper shit, follows through with her promises and even helps us avoid the "eye in the sky". And he complains about it! Sheesh. :-)
Was she carrying a clipboard?
Meursault, I think the club, in Savannah, GA, is a little out of your home turf. Plus, it is known as a "no extras" club - (usually) Better you should travel to ESL or Detriot.
Also - "arare" should have been, 'aware'.
Luckily we found our routine and it worked as long as the relationship did