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8 years ago
Hey I haven't checked in in a long time but I was a freak at the start. Got very suburban, for lack of a better term and then got a bit bored, as you guys do. I think we ALL get bored to some extent. How everyone handles it is different. However it can go south pretty quick if she goes and decides she's not really into it. Almost happened to me first time out. The swing party was too freaky (not in a good way) and I decided then and there if I was doing this, the 3rd wheel was going to be a pro. So OP your wife might be bored. And it can go EITHER way. She might love it and she might be shocked at what you can getaway with in s club. I agree 85 percent of the population has no idea. I had. NO idea!
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9 years ago
I think it's pretty risky anywhere to go uncovered but it is mire risky for the girls. We never ask for cards in clubs, trusting the clubs are doing their jobs. Outcall, at the risk of sounding stupid, we have never asked. Lots on backpage type ads do offer to show them in their ads. I don't know that I have ever seen a street girl in a club. That's the competitions playground
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9 years ago
Mucho tiempo in TJ. It's legal and regulated. All dancers and female personall in the clubs have a health card Renewable with testing once a month. Street girls get checked up on. No card for the cops? No work. How much it's enforced I don't know. But we are both std free.
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9 years ago
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ItsmytimeI’ve had enough and I can’t take it any more
Lots of fun, very intense. But stay away from my butt (and I will pass on the toys thank you)
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9 years ago
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san_jose_guymoney was invented for handing to women, but buying dances is a chump's game
Maybe during sex. Not in real life. Lopaw said it. I second it.
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9 years ago
You guys know that nothing really happens at nudist resorts right? Unless you are there for a "lifestyle" event.
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9 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
Papi. Turn about is fair play so I wish I could slay u with a comeback. But I am Too tired. Me? Not gay and I would not even describe myself as bi, even though it sounds cool. I am attracted to men exclusively IRL (yet have had sex with two women who are civvies, years ago) and don't fantasize or even imagine myself with a woman for anything more than fun. I think being gay or bi must go far deeper than sex.
It's very strange. I can easily have sex with a professional girl but I need to be VERY attracted to a guy to have sex with him. I need chemistry, respect, gonzo attraction and to almost swoon. But with a professional girl? No problems 90 percent of the time. Of course the gene pool of pros is a pretty nice gene pool.
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9 years ago
She might have been flirting but as someone else said she won't be catering to your whims, not more than once. She's a grown up and I believe you that she was hot. I swear to god I met a woman this week in her 60s that would rock your socks right off. It was unbelievable.
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9 years ago
Your boyfriend sounds like a jerk. A narcissist or a coward. He was not testing his attraction to you. He wanted to get laid. My spouse and I go to strip clubs together and hire professionals together. Neither of us are allowed to go alone nSomeone here said it exactly right. "You can't be variety" and that's why a lot of men step out. . They can throw 80 different reasons why they do it at YOU and blame YOU and it's not You. Lo paw said it. If he's "wired differently" he may not stop despite how great your sex life is He might lie or he might give it up. It's all on him. How much can you put up with? You are upset that he paid one time? Imagine if you knew the truth. If you are ok with it let him do what he wants. But be very honest with yourself. You are not ok with it are you? At least your not married. You're young, 36 is nothing (except to the pervs here) . :)
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9 years ago
Doesn't matter how beautiful you are. There is always someone who will cheat on you. (Haley Berry or fill in the blank) work is hard. Life is hard. Raising kids is hard. Staying in shape is hard. But we do all those things. Staying monogamous is hard too. But I do it anyway
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9 years ago
Made me realize there is such a thing as "back-side boob"
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9 years ago
@nina. Pools of lube is right! And go slow for crying out loud. Slower than you think you have to. Try putting two fingers in your OWN butt first TO START to get an idea of the amount of pressure happening down der. Time lube time lube time time lube lube LUBE
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9 years ago
Rockstar WTF what? I only personally consider it cheating if your wife/gf/partner doesn't know. Swinging, swapping, open relationships "for me" equal "not" cheating. Lying is cheating. It does not sound like you are cheating.
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9 years ago
RH and SKI Wives rule !
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9 years ago
Agreeing with the guys in the thread. It's nice to see no one is sneaking around. Horrible to sneak. Complete hell if you are found out. Yes for you but a thousand times worse for your woman.
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9 years ago
Agreeing with the guys in the thread. It's nice to see no one is sneaking around. Horrible to sneak. Complete hell if you are found out. Yes for you but a thousand times worse for your woman.
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9 years ago
Micro. I agree you can get sex anywhere. So I am asking why people got married. I ask because as a couple I did not expect to find many couples here. I did expect to find a ton of single guys. I did not expect to find this many married guys. So I just wonder if you are married if she knows, if she doesn't, and what she would do if she did. Oops . That's on my own thread. A not as exciting discussion.
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9 years ago
Why do guys get married knowing, you had to know right? that things are going to level off? Why do that? Sadly the number of guys who would do it despite promising not to is very high. I might post a different question, as the responses have peaked my interest and I don't want to high jack your thread
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9 years ago
I'm with Atadawg. Girl is playing you but you won't listen to the guys. Youre sure not going to listen to a civvie girl like me.
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9 years ago
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san_jose_guymoney was invented for handing to women, but buying dances is a chump's game
SJG. Did your wife ever find out about the AMPs? Or was that never discovered?
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9 years ago
Me? Avid reader. Love the brain of the man we rarely see in real life. I just keep rolling back until I find something I have to say thinking no one will read it. Now I'm just embarrassed. Unless it's not me
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9 years ago
if a wife only had to show up, look good, have sex and get paid for it it would be a yes every time.
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9 years ago
Honest question--if you are legally separated, why does it matter if you are dating? If you are separated and both parties agreed to it, why is it her business? Is it possible the best friend doesn't know you are separated or has been lead to believe you are thinking of reconciling? Best friends will always tell. That's just the way it is, with us chicks.
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9 years ago
Obviously you haven't seen my marriage. haha.
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9 years ago
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san_jose_guymoney was invented for handing to women, but buying dances is a chump's game
SJG I'm going to tell you right now, very very few women, older or not, would agree to be part of the structure that sends their husbands into the arms of a younger women because she's not in the mood, at least in the US.
I know I would not survive the wife/mistress scenario in France for five minutes, no matter what biology says about how men and women's sex drives differ in the long run. There is no way I'm going to be put out to pasture doing the dishes while said husband is off doing the deed with a younger hotter version of me. I'm not by nature jealous, but if he gets to have an adventure. I get to have an adventure. he will always get more out of the threesomes than I will, and that's fine. I just want to be there for the fun of it, not hear about it later.