I know how to date and fuck strippers so well that I could do it in my sleep. But I've spent most of my life married, and except for strippers I haven't dated a woman other than my wife for decades. So at this point I have very little instinct for dating and fucking civilian women. Thus the following question. Was this woman hitting on me?
I'm in day long business meetings with a half dozen people. One person there is a mid 50s woman who works for a different company but was working with me today. She was one of those rare over 50 women who is still very attractive. I'd say she's an 8.5 without any age adjustment. And she had a low cut shirt that generously showed off her natural b cups. I tried not to stare, but when you frequent strip clubs it's hard not to stare at a woman's natural breasts on display. She caught me looking a few times I think. Didn't seem to mind although she did hold her shirt a couple of times when she leaned all the way over to avoid a complete view.
So we had maybe a half hour alone together and talked about all kinds of stuff. She mentioned that she's divorced as did I (although of course I have no wedding ring on so my status is obvious). She also briefly mentioned a boyfriend in passing but only once.
So half way through the meeting she gives me her business card. Nothing unusual about that cause it's possible that I may need to contact her regarding follow up work issues. However, before she gives me her card she writes her cell number on it. She says I'm giving you my cell so you can contact me about a certain work issue between us. I said thanks.
Upon reflection there is zero business reason for me to have her cell number. I've dealt with people similarly situated hundreds of times in business. They almost always give me their business card but never a cell number. Most communications are via email, and I can't think of any business reason to need or use her cell. We could easily address the business issue between us with a quick email.
So was this woman coming on to me by giving me her cell number? She knows that I live far away from her so a relationship seems unlikely. But she does know that I'm sometimes in her town for work.
As she left I told her that I would arrange things so that we could work together the next time I'm in her town. She said that would be great. I wanted to say that I'd like to get together with her for a date next time too. But I was worried that I was misreading the situation, and it would turn very awkward. Things are so much easier with strippers. But I would love to fuck this one.
Was she coming on to me by giving me her cell no. If so, what should I text her to set the stage for the next time I'm in town? Or should I just wait until I see her next time. If she's wearing the same or a similar top, I'll know cause she could no doubt tell how much I liked it.
Of course 'dating' strippers is easy - you pay them money, they give you what you want, they leave. The only issue with this is when SS shows up. Strippers need to remember you're paying them which is supposed to alleviate SS, if you wanted drama you could get GS (girlfriend shit) or WS (wife shit) for free at home. I guess most strippers would defend themselves and say you're paying for their beauty (as they are hotter than any girlfriend or wife you could snag) and SS is just part of the territory. That's some left wing vs right wing stuff right there.
Since you may see her on one or more occasion totally work related again I wouldn't do shit until I see her again. Actually if I was in your shoes, I'd probably wait and not even think of saying anything until the 3rd time you've seen her work related unless she gives you some sort of obvious clue in your next meeting. A good situation after you get to know her more is saying something like "can you recommend somewhere good to eat or somewhere cool to go," and she may say "oh I love this restaurant, you need to go there," then ask "if you like it so much would you like to join me there for dinner?"