Question about civilian woman
JohnSmith69
layin low but staying high
I know how to date and fuck strippers so well that I could do it in my sleep. But I've spent most of my life married, and except for strippers I haven't dated a woman other than my wife for decades. So at this point I have very little instinct for dating and fucking civilian women. Thus the following question. Was this woman hitting on me?
I'm in day long business meetings with a half dozen people. One person there is a mid 50s woman who works for a different company but was working with me today. She was one of those rare over 50 women who is still very attractive. I'd say she's an 8.5 without any age adjustment. And she had a low cut shirt that generously showed off her natural b cups. I tried not to stare, but when you frequent strip clubs it's hard not to stare at a woman's natural breasts on display. She caught me looking a few times I think. Didn't seem to mind although she did hold her shirt a couple of times when she leaned all the way over to avoid a complete view.
So we had maybe a half hour alone together and talked about all kinds of stuff. She mentioned that she's divorced as did I (although of course I have no wedding ring on so my status is obvious). She also briefly mentioned a boyfriend in passing but only once.
So half way through the meeting she gives me her business card. Nothing unusual about that cause it's possible that I may need to contact her regarding follow up work issues. However, before she gives me her card she writes her cell number on it. She says I'm giving you my cell so you can contact me about a certain work issue between us. I said thanks.
Upon reflection there is zero business reason for me to have her cell number. I've dealt with people similarly situated hundreds of times in business. They almost always give me their business card but never a cell number. Most communications are via email, and I can't think of any business reason to need or use her cell. We could easily address the business issue between us with a quick email.
So was this woman coming on to me by giving me her cell number? She knows that I live far away from her so a relationship seems unlikely. But she does know that I'm sometimes in her town for work.
As she left I told her that I would arrange things so that we could work together the next time I'm in her town. She said that would be great. I wanted to say that I'd like to get together with her for a date next time too. But I was worried that I was misreading the situation, and it would turn very awkward. Things are so much easier with strippers. But I would love to fuck this one.
Was she coming on to me by giving me her cell no. If so, what should I text her to set the stage for the next time I'm in town? Or should I just wait until I see her next time. If she's wearing the same or a similar top, I'll know cause she could no doubt tell how much I liked it.
I'm in day long business meetings with a half dozen people. One person there is a mid 50s woman who works for a different company but was working with me today. She was one of those rare over 50 women who is still very attractive. I'd say she's an 8.5 without any age adjustment. And she had a low cut shirt that generously showed off her natural b cups. I tried not to stare, but when you frequent strip clubs it's hard not to stare at a woman's natural breasts on display. She caught me looking a few times I think. Didn't seem to mind although she did hold her shirt a couple of times when she leaned all the way over to avoid a complete view.
So we had maybe a half hour alone together and talked about all kinds of stuff. She mentioned that she's divorced as did I (although of course I have no wedding ring on so my status is obvious). She also briefly mentioned a boyfriend in passing but only once.
So half way through the meeting she gives me her business card. Nothing unusual about that cause it's possible that I may need to contact her regarding follow up work issues. However, before she gives me her card she writes her cell number on it. She says I'm giving you my cell so you can contact me about a certain work issue between us. I said thanks.
Upon reflection there is zero business reason for me to have her cell number. I've dealt with people similarly situated hundreds of times in business. They almost always give me their business card but never a cell number. Most communications are via email, and I can't think of any business reason to need or use her cell. We could easily address the business issue between us with a quick email.
So was this woman coming on to me by giving me her cell number? She knows that I live far away from her so a relationship seems unlikely. But she does know that I'm sometimes in her town for work.
As she left I told her that I would arrange things so that we could work together the next time I'm in her town. She said that would be great. I wanted to say that I'd like to get together with her for a date next time too. But I was worried that I was misreading the situation, and it would turn very awkward. Things are so much easier with strippers. But I would love to fuck this one.
Was she coming on to me by giving me her cell no. If so, what should I text her to set the stage for the next time I'm in town? Or should I just wait until I see her next time. If she's wearing the same or a similar top, I'll know cause she could no doubt tell how much I liked it.
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Since you may see her on one or more occasion totally work related again I wouldn't do shit until I see her again. Actually if I was in your shoes, I'd probably wait and not even think of saying anything until the 3rd time you've seen her work related unless she gives you some sort of obvious clue in your next meeting. A good situation after you get to know her more is saying something like "can you recommend somewhere good to eat or somewhere cool to go," and she may say "oh I love this restaurant, you need to go there," then ask "if you like it so much would you like to join me there for dinner?"
Amen brother! Well said, I sure wish they realized that shit!
Whatever direction it takes would be a waste of time. No chance in hell you're ever going to give up fucking young honeys for a woman in her 50's.
On the naughty business side, any possibility that she might be lining you up as a client to help pay her rent and other bills?
On the strictly personal and off-the-clock side, is it possible she's seen you out and about in her town, particularly at any strip joints?
On the goddamn legal side, is it possible she's entertaining the idea of hostile work environment? I don't know if there might be any gossip about you around there hitting the strip joints, something that could make her a little uncomfortable. I also don't know if she felt uncomfortable with you ogling her goodies. Sure, she probably should've been dressing a bit more conservatively, but if she's making a point to close up the shirt when she's leaning over around you, she might've been a bit more than uncomfortable.
No matter what, good luck and happy hunting with this cougar.
You could wait until a few days before you were going to be in town to text or call. I'd ask her for drinks, not dinner. You're looking to seduce her, not romance her.
I'm glad to see your interests moving towards civilians.
SJG