Thank you for all of your input! My instinct definitely said that he was not telling me the whole truth. Just as everyone stated, there is no way a man would visit those types of places without any expectation of having a sexual service done to him. I'm hurt more about being lied to and being treated as if I was stupid than about him getting a handjob or others.
Since I can't be 'variety' to him, I am going to agree on us bringing in a 'third person'. However, we can only do things as a couple, no solo actions. Somehow I doubt he'd stick and be able to commit to it. If he can't, we'll just have to have an open relationship, which I know he would refuse, as he doesn't want any man to touch me. But fair is fair, right?
BTW, to answer the above question, he has a fair share of women - probably more than many in a lifetime - since he used to be in the bar business. DRUGS AND SEX were plenty. However, I has never been with an Asian unti me.....the more I think I more I wonder what I'm doing with him. Everything he does points to characteristic of a narcissist. I guess it is his good side that has kept me with him this whole time. :(
seaboardrr, I thought I would try to understand point of view of men who frequent strip clubs and massage parlors. By posting on this type of place, my expectation would be to gain some sort of an insight to WHY a man, who is seemingly content about his partner, needs to look for sexual connection elsewhere.
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