OT: cheating on significant other hypothetical question
Tuesday, October 27, 2015 4:43 PM
I have a random hypothetical question and wonder what everyone thinks. When it comes to cheating, which (unless you consider them equal) do you consider worse when it comes to cheating for someone in a long term relationship/married?
1. Paying a stripper for sex
2. Paying the same stripper for sex on a somewhat regular basis, whether it's ITC or OTC
3. Having sex with a coworker on a somewhat regular basis
On one hand paying for sex with a stripper sounds worse. One reason is since you are paying, it's not necessarily a heat of the moment thing (such as going out to a bar with friends and having too much to drink and hooking up with someone). Its a very co axioms decision. But on the other hand, it's just sex, there's usually no emotional connection. Even if the PL likes the stripper, he knows that she only cares about the money and there is absolutely no chance of the relationship progressing (and in many cases the PL doesn't want a relationship out of it). So it's just about the sex.
As far as the sleeping with a coworker, on one hand you aren't paying for the sex so it doesn't seem as desperate or sleazy. On the other hand, you are still cheating and there is a much better chance of one (or both) parties of developing feelings down the road. There's definitely more of an emotional connection.
So what does everyone think, is one worse than the other?
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