Comments by JC2003 (page 5)

I was using airport TLA's (three letter abbreviations). FLL = Fort Lauderdale, PBI = West Palm Beach. CZI is Czestochowa Poland? I've never been to that airport.

Try calling the club?

I appreciate the feedback and sentiment in this thread. I promise not to pull an RL on you guys. I have decided to stop going to the club. As much as I enjoy going, everytime I see this girl, the wheels start turning, and I have a hard time enjoying myself. Talking to the other girls who I have casually befriended at the club helps, but the other girls are there to work. Anyways, I was getting weird signals from her. You know like when dancers start walking by you and looking in your direction a lot but never ask you for dances? And when you try to make eye contact or get their attention, they suddenly act like you don't exist? When I tip her on the stage, she puts on a big fake smile, takes the dollar, loses the smile, and moves away quickly, avoiding eye contact with you for the rest of her set. I must be creeping her out something fierce, I guess. Ah well.

I'm curious: he hasn't posted a review as far as I can tell (click his ID for his profile), yet he has the ability to post on the Discussion Board, which is a privilege that I thought only VIP members (paying members or members with posted reviews) had. Is he actually paying for the privilege to post here?

bighands00: Good decision on your part.

Self-help books are not a good way to find confidence. Try finding better reasons to be confident by doing something worth being confident about.

Kissing with tongue is just asking to catch a disease but is kissing on the lips a bad risk too?

If your favorites are too busy, try another girl. The longer you go to these clubs, the better idea you get for what kind of girl you're looking for. If a suitable alternate isn't available, call it a night or try another club.

I don't care if it's good or bad. I just remember it being more of a spectacle in the past, that's all. The last time I saw women in the club, they were complaining to their boyfriends/husbands/whatever how boring the club was (it was early) and then they started making out with each other. All the dancers avoided them after that scene, and the club manager bitched at them about smoking in the club (no smoking club) so they left.

Just one more reason to like all-nude clubs though every now and then I hear dancers talk about other dancers being post-op TS. I always pegged that for jealous backstabbing talk but never completely discounted the possibility.

I'm not into dancers sucking my fingers or putting their tongues in my ears. I've seen both happen to other guys on occasion.

So the West Coast is where to go? I've been an East Coaster my whole life, and I haven't really seen many Asian dancers anywhere I've been (southeastern US from Virginia to Florida).

I agree about young women getting better looking the older you get though sometimes I wonder if young women look better these days because they are getting sexually active earlier and have more confidence in themselves sexually.

I was thinking a poll instead of a post would have been an better idea for this subject, but I wasn't sure if that was possible here. I usually bring $200 to a club where dances cost $20 each and leave with half or less. I try to avoid the ATM's if possible, but sometimes a dancer entrances me, and I'm pretty much her ATM for the evening, heh.

The high school cheerleaders in Florida used to wear bikinis for their car washes, but the religious folk got upset about that in a hurry. I tend to avoid those, because I can't think of anything creepier than being that guy if you know what I mean.

The clubs I usually frequent don't serve alcohol so I will get a bottled water. If the club I'm at is serving, I'll get a beer or two.

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davids seems to be a master of ad hominen argument.

davids, there's wisdom in knowing when to shut up.

davids, try not to be such an asshole the next time you come back.

FONDL, that makes sense. Thanks for clearing that up.

Not a whole lot of imports in my neck of the woods (Central Florida), but there are a few -- mostly Latinas with a few Eastern Europeans. As far as I can tell, their dances and attitudes aren't much better or worse. They become Americanized rather quickly, too, except for their accents.

Is it OK to give strippers your number? I always assumed that clubs didn't encourage this in their dancers because that encouraged customer-dancer interaction outside the club, not inside. I've never given my number to a dancer, and the couple times a dancer has given her number to me (unasked -- I'm not interested in dating strippers or seeing them OTC), it was always done surreptitiously. I understand that if you want to give a dancer your number, you're going to find a way even if it isn't encouraged. I was just curious if it was accepted practice or even encouraged in the clubs.

Most cities have some sort of adult entertainment magazine at the clubs that describe upcoming events. Pick up a copy, and you should get a decent idea of what's going to happen. Some of these magazines have on-line versions too if you're not in the area. I don't know the ones in NY, but the ones in Florida I've seen are Nightmoves and V2 magazine. Some clubs have Web sites, but it's hit or miss as far as how well they keep them up to date. You can always give them a call to find out what their featured entertainer schedule is.

I go to local clubs all the time. The way I figure it, anyone who sees me there has to admit that they were there themselves to spread the news. Double jeopardy.