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6 years ago
I forgot to add, She will be pissed if she only gets an air dance.
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6 years ago
papi- I don't think we are a couple. We met in a full nude club. she was working. We end most nights of culture with a hot tub party. Last week I watched her try out her collection of vibrators with her friend. I don't think seedy is going to bother her too much.
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6 years ago
A very long time ago, my friends and I were making fun of a guy doing magic in a night club attached to a hotel. We stopped laughing in a few minutes when we realized the women were coming to him and calling him over to their tables. We bowed to him when he went upstairs with one of the hottest pieces of ass we had seen. My room mate ordered a magic kit and took some magic books from the library. He never got beyond a few simple ones but they did break the ice when he needed an ice breaker.
On future trips we saw that guy score every time including getting two ladies to go up with him.
I never learned magic but I learned an important lesson. Women like and reward men that show them a good time.
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6 years ago
That is a flawed experiment. It would be home men act towards a new stripper. To know how we treat strippers would require you to become a seasoned pro.
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6 years ago
Nidan111, i think she was talking to me
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6 years ago
Njballa, i sent you a private message on one of your items.
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6 years ago
Why wonder? Go for it. Based on your photos I think you would do very well . Come up to NJ and test the waters.
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6 years ago
The former bartender at a near by hotel was self recruited with help from two ladies that attend the hotel bar with me. She now dances when she is on summer break in addition to bartending. We meet up when her work and school schedule allows.
How often do I have to convert a civilian?
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6 years ago
If I did, it would only so I could tell people I did.
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6 years ago
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steeldog65I swear, it's just shrinkage due the cold
"...unless you're timing it for right after her shift."
I am sure a few of us have stories of getting a confirmation from her in the hotel parking lot but she never made it inside.
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6 years ago
There is a selection bias. What is there to post about if things went well? We post about the bad experiences and bad strippers because they are interesting.
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6 years ago
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steeldog65I swear, it's just shrinkage due the cold
A new girl? Possibly only one. No more than two. An established lady with an excellent track record? Two maybe three. Much depends on their reasons, how quickly they notify me and follow up.
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6 years ago
No thank you. I can imagine to many things going wrong.
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6 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
You dont think this is a jab "apparently NJ PLs can't bring themselves to say no to dancers in g-strings:"
Perhaps you have no concept of trash talk, fans of one team or residents of one state go back and forth with the fans or residents of another trading jabs and barbs.
Why are new yorkers so depressed? Because the light at the end of the tunnel is new jersey.
Eskimos put the weak and feeble minded on an ice sheet and set them adrift. We in nj arent as kind, we send ours to florida.
my comment should make it obvious i say no. I take my business elsewhere. I do this with every business with crappy product or service. I consider the tip parade to be crappy service.
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6 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
Show where i posted this was not up for discussion.
You took a jab at us but you cant take one back? Thin skin.
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6 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
I take my business elsewhere. I cant think of a better way to to say no. What is your issue with that?
Are you feeling insecure and need to knock others down to stoke your ego? Go ahead if it makes you feel good about yourself.
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6 years ago
kick off the next 30 years with 30 days of clubbing.
If I could pick an age to be and stay at that age, it would be 33 or 35. My 30's were awesome.
I was old enough to have experience in all aspects of life. There was more success and I made far fewer mistakes. Money wasn't the problem it was in my twenties. Older more experienced coworkers and clients did not think of me as a young punk. I still had the energy to do most anything I wanted and my body was not my enemy.
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6 years ago
I can't name one song of hers. Are they common in the clubs?
What she did was criminal. It should be investigated but I don't see how. She will say she made it up to help her rap image.
I don't believe she isn't proud of it. She brought it up but did not apologize and did not do anything to make amends. Donate some of those millions to help men. There are many worthy causes.
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6 years ago
Always assume that everything a stripper says or does is an attempt to separate you from your money. Keeping that in mind it is easy to see Nidan111 is correct. She thinks you will come back soon, get extra dances and tip her well to "fix" your relationship. My advice is don't do that.
There is no need to drop her. tell her you took a break from clubbing. Life got in the way. You were disappointed in your last dance but you are willing to try another one to see if the magic is back. Remind her you tip based on how well you enjoy the dance.
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6 years ago
Strip club managers are not known for being bright but it isn't hard to do. These clubs could spend a few hundred on a one or two hour meeting with a lawyer and set things up so they would never have to deal with this crap. It is more than a signed contract but not much more. The club will not lose a penny other than what they spent on the lawyer
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6 years ago
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rickduganVerified and Certifiable Super-Reviewer
"...most/least likely to ask questions if they suspected what you were up to."
Suspect? they know what you are up to. They don't care unless they have reason to believe there will be a problem.
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6 years ago
I did a very quick online search. A New York club and the Mitchell Brothers had lap dances in the 70's. The first known use of the phrase lap dance in an article was in 1986.
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6 years ago
Cc99
It is possible. I know a few old timers that might be able to shed some light on this.
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6 years ago
"But lap dances in 1980 were mostly air. They were nothing like what you get in 2019" That may be true in some areas but I was not getting air dances in 1980. I think a new topic instead of derailing this one...
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6 years ago
" I dont think there is any other states where patrons can get FS or extras at the bar and in plainview of customers." Irvington is an interesting place and I believe every monger should visit a club or two just for the experience and to see just how unsexy sex can be.