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5 years ago
I am curious, do any other bars allow you to stay when you aren't purchasing? I've seen a few reviews with guys surprised they can't stay if they aren't buying.
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5 years ago
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loganshardLogans Hard in NYC. Dreaming of Spinners Since, Well, Forever
The best approach is to ask the dancer. You should build some trust with her first. Get a few lap dances. Don't be coy. Come right out and ask her for what you want. Asking the manager is going to get you no where in any of the NJ clubs I can think of.
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5 years ago
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loganshardLogans Hard in NYC. Dreaming of Spinners Since, Well, Forever
Because of recent developments, cross the Playhouse off your list if you were considering it.
review comment
5 years ago
"It was packed and lot of Indian guys at this club surprisingly" The club is known to be packed with Indians on Friday and Saturday nights.
The token or take a number system has been explained on numerous other reviews. It helps when the club is crowded. You don't need to track down the dancer you want. But you can if you prefer. Go tell the DJ who you want a dance with. He will tell you how many are ahead of you if you ask him.
You don't like the spinners- cool, try Marilyn, Sapphire, June, Paris. Because you are heading to Irvington I assume you prefer WOC. I will agree with you that lately the club has few.
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5 years ago
I went to some years ago. They were quite common in the 80's and 90's. The most usual venues were after a club closed for the night or on Sundays when the club was closed. Permanently closed bars and firehouse and VFW halls weren't uncommon.
In NJ a nude club cannot serve alcohol. The UG clubs/parties provided nude dancers, alcohol and private lap dance areas. Sometimes futons would be available. One in a warehouse in South Amboy had an large office or conference room. The entire floor was covered with futons. Curtains made individual rooms. Out in the main warehouse 10 to 20 women would be dancing, putting on shows and selling lap dances or extras. Some would not even go for a room. No need to pay for it if you aren't shy.
The entertainment included full nude dancers on stage, lesbian shows, toy shows, BDSM shows and on a few occasions, live sex shows involving members of the audience and the dancers.
dancers got a cut of the door fee for each customer they brought. A few used funny money and the dancer might get a cut of whatever funny money a guy bought. A dancer might make more money this way than actually providing lap dances or extras.
I don't know if they died out, I just don't hang with the right people any more or I'm not the guy they want there but it is rare that I hear of one now.
discussion comment
5 years ago
Pm a trusted regular. He can notify the dancers he knows
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5 years ago
She has her profile open to everyone. These guys browse and search for attractive women.
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5 years ago
What is the most time you have spent with her? A few hours? Not smart to move in with someone you barely know. Yes, you barely know her. The idea behind dating and engagemen is to get to know a person in a variety for circumstances and for long enough that you know they arent faking it.
You should not leave one woman for another. You leave your partner because leaving is the right thing to do.
You may have serious trust issues if you do this. How does she know you will not want to trade up when the two of you have problems or she gets older? Will you trust she isnt hooking up with some other customer?
Leave your wife if it is the right thing to do. Date the new woman for a while and get to know each other before you move in with her.
discussion comment
5 years ago
Provide details if you want any sort of duscussion. As for your marriage, i hope it is based on more than sex.
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5 years ago
NJballa
I was at ggr last night. I had a better time than if I can gone to xxxv. A nice lesbian show on stage. No one hounding me for tips. An excellent timed lap dance with no upsell pressure. I will be back tonight.
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5 years ago
Is xxxv still charging for everything? Parking, entry, mandatory coat check, where you sit?
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5 years ago
"Brittany from 35 club. Doesnt matter what she look's like from the front lol. Thats what reverse cowgirl is for."
If you take her to the gallery motel you better worry about her front. There are mirrors in every wall.
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5 years ago
I havent been to xxxv in many months. I think there are better options in the area. It may be time to check it out. It may have gotten better
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5 years ago
It opens to their main feed. Which dancer do you mean?
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5 years ago
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rickduganVerified and Certifiable Super-Reviewer
"We don’t have any business paying them for sex - then telling them to get out of the lifestyle. It actually sounds bizarre."
I am sure others have similar experiences.
I never told any to get out of the business. Women do not need to be saved from being sex workers. There is nothing wrong with being a sex worker.
Many have told me they would like to finish a degree or whatever. what stops them? No Money. The bag she has would pay for at least six credits. That bmw costs as much as a four year degree. I pointed out that a few different choices would fix those problems and we could set up a schedule so she would have the money when she needed it. The answer was always No.
They would gladly set up a recurring session or skip meals if the goal was to buy drugs or more stuff.
I know several women that were using this business to get a degree or start a business. Those ladies did not buy expensive shoes, drove an economy car and always tried to set up the next date or lap dance. They did not need to be saved. Most of those women did get out of sex work and have good lives.
discussion comment
5 years ago
I am traveling for work this week and next. A dancer came with me becuase her family is down here. Her mom joined us for dinner. Even her mother isnt my own age, i'm six years older than mom.
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5 years ago
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rickduganVerified and Certifiable Super-Reviewer
I gave up on advice years ago unless they ask. I will give advice but i never expect them to take it. I do offer to work out some sort of recurring meetings if she says she is serious about school or some business venture. I suggest we meet once or twice a month to pay a significant portion of her tuition. Most say no but tell them twice a month will buy half of the drugs they use or fund their shoe addiction and they have their phone out open to their calendars.
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5 years ago
Have you considered google translate?
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5 years ago
I've been thing of you[r money]
I miss you[r money]
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5 years ago
"TUSCL Rule 1 for OTC: if you are interested in OTC, just ask."
I think you need to clarify ".. ask her"
Too many people think this is the place to find out.
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5 years ago
Club sights was an experience. The dancers weren't the best looking but they knew how to party and have a good time. I may be mistaken but I believe sights was the last of the after hours clubs. My favorite was in Sayreville. They were shut down around 92 or 93 if my memory serves me correctly.
Back to the OP. I am not counting after hours clubs. Several clubs close at 5 on the weekends and my over night work schedule occasionally has me stopping in around 4 AM. I've been to clubs that kicked me out at 6 AM when they closed but I got there several hours earlier. I've gotten to clubs between 7 and 8 am to try the legs and eggs events.
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5 years ago
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founderslip a dollar in her g-string for me
Agree with shadow on this.
discussion comment
6 years ago
Countryman, i wish. My client will fire me if i am not where i need to me
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6 years ago
I only have 16. He is bragging he has almost twice my trusts. Why else would he mention me in his post?
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6 years ago
She has heard of follies from other dancers and wants to see if it lives up to what she has heard. I think we may do follies and only follies. The rest of our trip will be more main stream activities.