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15 years ago
I can easily stay 3 to 5 hours at a club if I'm having fun. Record is probably 6 to 7 hours not counting any time with dancers after they got off from work. Time can really fly by if lots of dancers are keeping you busy the whole time.
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15 years ago
I've met many dancers who had other jobs. Real estate agent, dental hygenist, massage therapist (in training), and some training to be veterinarians for animals. One hot dancer went from dancing nude, to doing some photo shoots for Penthouse or some other major magazine, to dancing again at various clubs, then a job at Hooters, then ended up as a bartender at the same club she used to dance nude in just 2 or 3 years earlier. She showed me her books she was studying when it wasn't busy. I don't remember all the other occupations dancers told me they were doing. One was an artist and drew paintings. I don't imagine that will pay well. I believe one club I visit seems to have a lot of dancers who moonlight from other occupations. If a dancer tells me her real occupation and it's not related to dancing, it does make an impression especially if she knows things to back it up.
I remember one quite intelligent dancer I met one night told me she graduated from college and mentioned a decent major but didn't see the point in working a regular job when she could easily make so much more dancing. She said later on, she would pursue what she majored in after accumulating some significant cash from dancing. I have to say that she was very unusual because I didn't remember ever meeting dancers who already graduated from college with a decent major that she could work in. This was years ago when strip clubs were making better money.
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15 years ago
I've heard about many people winning big lottery winnings and then being broke within a few years. They obviously didn't have any money management skills or thought they didn't need to work anymore and save.
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15 years ago
If I told someone that I won 1.9 million but was planning on continuing to work, they would likely think I was crazy. However based on the information I posted above, it would be in my best interest to continue working until my savings grew enough to support me without worrying about inflation eroding my yearly income. Of course that also depends how close you already are to retirement age. If you move to some place cheaper out of the US, I believe you could easily retire with only 1 million even at a young age.
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15 years ago
If she had won it in the US that 1.9 million would have likely been reduced to 0.95 million due to taxes almost immediately. I'm not sure of the exact tax rate but I imagine it would be the highest. Now if she lived off the interest of say 1 million dollars and it generated 3% a year, she would only be getting $30,000 a year and that would mean less and less per year if you factored in inflation. Obviously she didn't win enough money to continue living off in my opinion (without any money management or trading skills). Even Michael Jackson had money problems so I guess it doesn't matter how much money you make or have, if you don't manage it well, you'll go broke.
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15 years ago
It could have been 15 or 20 minutes. I may have been slightly sleepy myself. It seems like that can easily happen around 4 AM.
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15 years ago
I have dozed off before but usually not for very long. If someone spoke to me or touched me, that would easily snap me out of it. One night I actually was in a good spot to doze off and not be noticed. A dancer that liked me came over and curled up on my lap and went to sleep for a few minutes. She told me she wanted to do that before she did it. I couldn't really tell if she was sleeping or not but she wasn't moving for a few minutes. Only had that happen once that I remember anyway. That's what I call a power nap.
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15 years ago
I tried to remember when I wanted a particular dancer to come over to my table. I finally remembered one from a few years ago. I tipped her on stage and thought maybe she would eventually come by. However she instead kept sitting with what appeared to be a boyfriend. I wasn't going to interrupt them. I was occasionally distracted by other dancers. I do believe after tipping her on stage every time (she looked very nice) she finally came over and asked for a dance one night. I'm thinking it's possible I turned her down after all that time where she only sat with her boyfriend and a couple of regulars. That would be nice if there was a really hot dancer that I really wanted to get dances from. I imagine she would look like eye candy to me. It's been years since I've seen a dancer like that.
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15 years ago
Most of the time I don't mention online strip club sites like this one. In Columbia at PP was the only place I recall some dancers knew about this site. I've met a few dancers who were computer savvy. Some had their own web sites. I remember one dancer had a free web cam too. She was quite popular. It's no longer active and I don't remember her name.
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15 years ago
I blurted out something about posting a review online about the club I was in and how the dances were. The dancer suddenly got paranoid so I tried to quickly change the subject. Dancers may or may not recall if they told you their real name or any other information and here you're talking about posting information online. I think they are paranoid by nature typically using fake names and one dancer didn't even want to mention what state she is from after she asked me where I was from. Most dancers I meet tell me where they are from if they bring up the subject. City or state. I assume it's usually true but I don't ever remember that information. One dancer I met at a nude club made me start thinking after she asked me "You don't remember me do you?" I kind of nodded no but she looked familar. Afterwards I believe I remember her from another club. It's not like I just sit in a club and watch the girls on stage so that I can remember everyone crystal clear. It's more like driving in a busy rush hour traffic with people and cars going every which way and names and girls flying all around like other street cars. Many I may see once and never again, or don't know when I may see again. I don't waste the effort trying to remember everyone.
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15 years ago
Usually the only time I think about offering advice or a tip is when a dancer I did not go to tip on stage comes by and asks for a dance and when I say no, she asks for a tip. There have been a few times when I thought about saying a few words as the tip but I must be in a generally good mood a lot of the time because usually I'm just ready to give them a dollar and get rid of them.
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15 years ago
Thanks for the comments. She also works at another club certain times of the year. I could ask her if she wears a different outfit there. I think I will stay away from any negative comments on the bottom half of her outfit and possibly just ask if she ever changes outfits if I even decide to make a comment. You guys are probably right, no matter how I say that, it might hurt her feelings especially if she felt more comfortable in that outfit. She can take that outfit off pretty fast which might be better than some other outfits.
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15 years ago
I saw all kinds of outfits on Halloween in the strip clubs instead of the normal strip club attire. I decided for many dancers, I like their normal strip club attire. I like to see the dancers bodies and they were more covered up than usual.
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15 years ago
They are lucky they didn't get shot and killed by the guards or the police. Hopefully the police will monitor them when they get out of prison in 25 to 30 years to see if they suddenly have a lot of cash. Hiding stolen money should be a crime punishable for another 30 to 40 years.
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15 years ago
I believe all the nude clubs in South Carolina are BYOB. Unfortunately I believe all of them charge a higher cover often because they provide a cooler and/or ice. I know not to bring so much that I could get drunk off of it, that really limits how much I bring. Some dancers may drink but it depends if they want to or if you have the type of beer they like or if they are even allowed. Beer is usually allowed but I'm not sure about harder drinks. It may be that only beer is allowed here. Some guys come in a group with an extremely large cooler looking like they are ready for a major party. I'm often by myself so I finish off my beer fairly early and let it wear off even though I barely even feel it. If everyone was like me, there would be zero drunk driving deaths. I'm actually a lot more nervous about falling asleep late at night on the road. I don't go on any long trips over 30 minutes long if I haven't slept good if I can avoid it at all. An hour long drive can put you to sleep especially if there are no other cars on the road.
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15 years ago
This occasionally happens to me in strip clubs with dancers. Sometimes I think they are female customers though so they can surprise me especially if they do something unexpected like suddenly hug me. More than once a dancer really wanted me to remember her so she flashed her tits and then they usually say "do you remember me now?" My typical response, "oh yeah!" One dancer claimed she knew me for years (she did remember me from several years ago) and wanted to hook up with me. She apparently wanted to real bad. I claimed I remembered her but never did. I do now though. There was another dancer I would have forgotten what she looked like except I noticed she walked into the picture when I was using my camcorder at the beach. If I took a picture of all the pretty girls I met, it would be a lot easier to remember.
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15 years ago
A lot of dancers in my area I don't believe are making very much money. How many times have you heard a dancer saying or happy that she has enough money to make tip out? I've heard that a few times even though one time the dancer said that after she was only there for an hour or two. In one club I believe a manager told me they were pulling in a few hundred a week but you have to remember some dancers work only 3 or 4 days those weeks. That was when things were better too. One of my current favorites was excited to tell me after she got back from the beach that at the beach during one busy week, she made $4000 that week. Things were booming back then and it was a busy beach weekend. At another club, a lot of the dancers were moonlighting from other real jobs and didn't even dance on a routine basis. I have to say I am more impressed by a dancer telling me what her real job is outside of the club and she's only moonlighting on the weekend or whenever the club allowed it. Now if a dancer has kids and no proper health insurance to help pay doctor bills etc. her costs are even higher. I believe dancers in some other areas are making more money with their better looks or living in an area with richer customers. I've cut back my spending and I believe many others have too so dancers aren't making as much most of the time like they once did.
If things get a lot worse, I wouldn't be surprised if some strip clubs start closing down due to the poor economy. I give it another year or two though before we get to that point.
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15 years ago
Just remembered, got into a big argument with my first ATF (wasn't expecting any of it) because she wanted me to give her money so she could get some contacts. I'm thinking WTF the whole time does she want or expect me to give her money for nothing? She actually got so pissed that she quit the club and stayed away for 3 months because she knew I would be there. She had a better attitude when she came back. Never even mentioned that argument though. I had no idea why she thought I would give her money for nothing. Maybe she thought I was some kind of sugar daddy even though I told her I was not. You never know when you might piss off a girl for doing nothing or not even knowing why she's angry.
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15 years ago
I saw one guy giving a dancer some gifts in the strip club. I don't believe he really knew her. It looked like she didn't even really want the gifts, maybe she thought he was trying to buy some favors with her. Almost as quick as she could get away, she was over at my table and looking happier after she got to my table. I wasn't giving her any gifts. She did say something about it feeling awkward at the other table. Some guy she didn't know.
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15 years ago
My first ATF got me to give her a little bit of money for her birthday, nothing more than want I might pay for a lap dance. Another time she wanted me to send her a couple of roses to her house. I had already been there before. I complied. I stopped doing all that after her. Although I wouldn't put token gifts out of the question. One of my current favorites gave me a calendar of the other club she works at part of the year. I figure buying extra dances is enough of a pay back so I won't be giving her anything extra except for the extra dances I bought. If a dancer gives me something, I do appreciate that and may tip her more on stage or something else if that is called an extra. One dancer in one club gave me some discount passes for admission. That was nice. I made sure to tip her on stage when I saw her.
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15 years ago
I must have missed something. Doesn't sound important though. Ignore button does work great.
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15 years ago
I just went ahhh, I looked for that the other day and could not see it when I wanted it. Now I see I would be dead if it was a deadly snake. Right underneath the name. I wanted to use it just so I didn't see a certain pic.
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15 years ago
Phone numbers can lead to meeting up later or discussions on the phone. Discussions could range from when someone is coming into the club (perhaps to make sure you are there to let's meet up later). Sometimes the meet up later could be a ruse or just to lead you on when she doesn't intend to follow through but think she needs to do that to keep you buying dances in the club. Other times she does want to meet up for something (often involves money but not always). If you want to go for it, just talk and see what comes out of it. If things seem to be going well and you want to do more. Then you can always ask later. If she doesn't want to do what you want, you can try again with another girl. It's like working out your muscles. If you haven't ever done it, it may seem scary but you just have to start somewhere and you get better with practice. Dancers can be fun to be around but many also seem to have problems with drugs, other people, or being a bit reckless in their personal lives or lacking self esteem in some cases. If you want to mess around with the wild and reckless, you may experience it. That's not to say that every dancer could be different and that your mileage and experience may vary.
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15 years ago
I had a long post and decided to delete it.
I'm going to side with the boyfriends. I think some others in the club have sometimes confused me as being a dancer's boyfriend. It's true that at times I've visited different dancers away from the clubs in different sorts of relationships. It's also true that I've had the same dancers talking and sitting with me in the club for long stretches of time without me spending much money but it was the dancers choice. I enjoyed their company so I wasn't going to get rid of them. One dancer one time did get all pissed off at me and was a true drama queen but she was the one apparently believing she was like a girlfriend after the one weekend we had together. I guess I never really defined what makes a girl a girlfriend. I made the mistake of not realizing she was watching me the whole time I was in the club and she could get pissed off if she suspected I might be doing any outside activities with another dancer. She sure was mad. Seems kind of funny now. I suspected her of sleeping around so I was really surprised she was watching me so much.
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15 years ago
DJ, several years experience
I know how to get the party going and the music rocking. I'm not afraid to turn up the volume to make it a party. I can talk customers into spending their money. Not too bad with the dancers either. I help give them some extra experience if you know what I mean haha....
To close out the evening and make sure everyone drives safely sometimes I remind them with a little joke about everyone driving 90 because there's no way they could catch us all. Just joking... I wouldn't say that. I just play some good music sometimes like "Can't Drive 55" right before closing.
Ok do I have the job now?
Did I say I can talk customers into spending money? I've had dancers comment on my talking ability.