Have you ever thought some part of a dancer outfit sucked but you didn't want to

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• shadowcat

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  15 years ago

  If I like it, I compliment her. If I don't like it, I keep my mouth [view link] point in pissing off a perfectly good dancer because of her attire.
• lopaw

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  15 years ago

  Say something negative to a dancer about what she's wearing? Oh HELL NO. No matter how delicately you think you've said it, it will come out completely wrong and she'll either be pissed off or hurt. Not worth it.
• Clubber

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  15 years ago

  One thing my ATF used to wear was sort of an old fashioned corset. It took so long to get it off on stage, but I did enjoy helping her put it back on at our table.
• gk

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  15 years ago

  Here's myh take on this issue--Went to a seminar many years ago and the leader had a truism he was pushing--'everyboddy wants to be conned.' In other words, in most instances, we prefer the glosssed over compliment rather than the bare truth. (Yea, it looks great on you..no it's not my favorite color but it works for you...is that new, where did you find it, etc.) If an outfit is really something bad and it bothers you that much why would we be with her anyway? If we're with her for other reasons, to hell with the clothes. And if we are really close to her, we can afford to give her constructive advice that will help her eaarm more money with other customers. Getting less preachy, if I['m at astrange club, is IS the outfit that first gets my attention--but then the stuffing has to go with it!
• gatorfan

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  15 years ago

  I like it when some part of the dancer sucks, but I dont pay much attention to the outfits.
• Player11

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  15 years ago

  Yes, but I would never tell one she sucked in an outfit.
• DandyDan

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  15 years ago

  Of course, I keep quiet if something like that happens. One of more embarrassing moments from early in my stripmongering days was telling a dancer she was wearing the wrong color outfit. That made me persona non grata at that club the rest of the night there, and I had to go to the other club in town then. It comes up once in a while. One of my old ATF's used to make her own outfits, and I'm not sure I agreed with her fashion sense.
• txtittyfan

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  15 years ago

  If the outfit is that bad I would not get dances. Dancers dress for themselves and their customers. Just because I don't like it, doesn't mean everyone dislikes it.
• BaddJack

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  15 years ago

  I tend to be more critical of the music she chooses. My clothes look crappy on me, too. I constantly look like an unmade bed, even if in a jacket and tie, and I seriously dress for comfort at a SC. If she asks what you think, that is a whole different ball game. I tend to tell her the truth, and if it pisses her off, well, she asked.
• casualguy

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  15 years ago

  Thanks for the comments. She also works at another club certain times of the year. I could ask her if she wears a different outfit there. I think I will stay away from any negative comments on the bottom half of her outfit and possibly just ask if she ever changes outfits if I even decide to make a comment. You guys are probably right, no matter how I say that, it might hurt her feelings especially if she felt more comfortable in that outfit. She can take that outfit off pretty fast which might be better than some other outfits.