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10 years ago
@GoVikings - getting married in today's world is hardly a dream for most women. Maybe back in the day it was, but that isn't the case anymore. It sure as hell was NEVER my dream, that's for sure.
Many women today either don't want to get married, or want to delay it as long as possible to be able to establish themselves in careers before they decide that they want to pop out some puppies, and usually that's when they decide if they want to get married, or just live with someone, or even to go it alone as a single parent. Keep in mind that societal brainwashing has a great deal of influence on the decisions that we ultimately make, especially when we are young and impressionable. As society's views change & evolve, so does alot of the subtle and not-so-subtle affects that it has on both women & men...especially in things like marriage & having kids.
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10 years ago
Marriage ain't good for anyone, male or female. Most of my straight female friends have no desire to tie the knot. Humans really aren't monogamous by nature. Although I consider myself fairly happily married, if I had to do it all over I wouldn't have done it.
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10 years ago
I went to 3 different clubs today during the hours of 2pm - 5pm. They were all pretty dead. I did get alot of quality time with some good looking dancers that were otherwise bored out of their skulls.
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10 years ago
Why are you shocked, seaboardrr?
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10 years ago
No. I'm in a somewhat fixed clubbing routine, so no unexpected bursts of desperately needing to hit a club RIGHT NOW. But I do notice that if my routine is thrown off for a long period of time I get very grumpy.
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10 years ago
Some topless clubs in my area offer drink & dance specials on Tuesday's & Wednesday's, and they're packed.
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10 years ago
I am happily married and even MORE happily married with separate checking accounts. What she don't see, she don't miss.
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10 years ago
1. Yes
2. Yes
3. Yes
Practice makes perfect.
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10 years ago
@govikings- I disagree with the notion that women aren't very visual when it comes to sexual attraction, which is what some of you mentioned here. Sexual attraction sure isnt black & white, especially nowadays. Some old sexual stereotypes just dont hold as much water as maybe some think. Nothing too confusing about that.
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10 years ago
^^Nah I ain't buying that. I have always been very visual in my attraction, as have most of the women, both gay & straight, that I know. Keep in mind that women tell you what they want you to hear & know, not necessarily the truth (duh). As women in society's roles change, so do a lot of the mores and disciplines imposed on us so that we can be more honest about how we really view things sexually, not just the beliefs & morals that society had imposed on us and wanted us to suppress for centuries. We are sexual creatures, and respond accordingly.
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10 years ago
I have always sought my-age-or-younger sex partners, even when I was in my late teens and early twenties. For me to even consider having a sexual relationship with anyone (of either gender) well into their 40's or (eek!) 50's when I was that age would have been unthinkable. I have to agree that I can't see the attraction of someone in their 50's to someone in their teens or twenties...or thirties for that matter. Who really knows what people's true motive is when it comes down to affairs of the heart (or wallet). Just enjoy what you have because you never know how long you will have it. Life's too short to psychoanalyze everything. Just live it!
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10 years ago
That kind of poor customer service sucks anytime, but is that much worse having to endure on your birthday. So sorry that you had to deal with that.
If you ever find yourself in LA I'd be honored to buy you a b-day drink and a LD of your choice from a very pleasing assortment of Asian cuties!
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10 years ago
I've never really trusted Santa.
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10 years ago
That she loves the taste of my pussy.
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10 years ago
I agree with impala. Management typically doesn't care about anything except the mighty dollar. And couples offer the potential for twice the income per dance. Cha-ching!
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10 years ago
What Diva said. Also a dancer never knows what kind of drama she might be walking into.....does the female of the couple really want to be there? Will she get all jealous or threatened? It also takes alot more work to deal with a couple. Many dancers can't be bothered with the uncertainty and likely low payoff, since apparently couples aren't known to be big spenders. That's what I've been told by dancers, though I think that's BS.
We need seaboadrr to chime in here.
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10 years ago
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Book GuyI write it like I mean it, but mostly they just want my money.
Hey Book Guy. Nice to hear that you are doing well. I know in the past that you & I often didn't see eye-to-eye on some things, but that was then. Good luck to you on your new endeavors!
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10 years ago
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impalaThe People's Republic of Pennsylvania
Hell, yes. At least that's been my experience.
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10 years ago
I notice that when I reject a dancer she seems to take it worse than if a guy does it. If it's a dancer that I have danced with before, I'll tell her "next time for sure" in a very perky voice. If it's a dancer that I just have no interest in, I'll politely tell her "some other time, perhaps", in that same annoyingly perky voice. So far, so good.
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10 years ago
A "a no extras club"? What is this madness of which you speak?
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10 years ago
Yeah. But that's just me.
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10 years ago
@seaboardrr- its very very different. All of the dynamics are different. Typically a couple is there to feed off of each other in regards to their interaction with the dancers. Also couples tend to get a lot of dances together, not separately. The dancers definitely deal with couples differently than solo patrons. Of course if the female part of a couple ventures off and gets dances on her own then her experience would be more similar to that of a lone custie, male or female. Is that what you two do? Does your missus get her own private dances? Or are you two more like the traditional couples that does everything together in a SC?
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10 years ago
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impalaThe People's Republic of Pennsylvania
Escort.
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10 years ago
Didn't read the article because I don't care what men (or women for that matter) think. All I care about is what I think. And I can't tell you exactly IMO what makes a woman beautiful.....but I know's it when I see's it.
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10 years ago
Have you danced for any women yet? And not a fellow dancer, or the woman part of a couple - a paying female customer?