Strip Club Bipolarism

We have to plan ahead. BUT, it is like a switch flips in mrs sea and one night we'll be sitting there and she'll just blurt out that she is needing some T&A in her face. seems like about every other week it happens.

It's called an addiction and it's more common than most people think

Hello, my name is WhoDey and I'm a strip club addict...

No. I'm in a somewhat fixed clubbing routine, so no unexpected bursts of desperately needing to hit a club RIGHT NOW. But I do notice that if my routine is thrown off for a long period of time I get very grumpy.

I had that happen just yesterday. I was out shopping at Target, I got my stuff, and instead of going straight home, I went to my bank's ATM, and then onward to my favorite club, for the first time in many months. Too bad that club seems like it's on an irreversible decline, but the one dancer who hung out with me, who I previously described as one of the worst dancers ever, isn't nearly so if she's drunk. She drank the whole giant bottle of Budweiser (no Bud Light for her) in our time together. Of course, the fact I hung out with her speaks poorly of the other dancers.

I also experience the exact opposite. I have plans to hit the clubs aggressively and end up choosing a boring night in the hotel room and going to bed early. I think that's just human nature.

You could be describing "addictive" behavior. Shrink would want to know how often you get the itch and act on it. If the switch is being thrown frequently or the behavior causes damage or interference with other important parts of your life, you are falling in the spectrum addiction. Disclaimer: "Bubba has no license to practice psychology, but once had a good night's rest at a hotel"

Damn bubba - I found you on youtube. :)

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Hadn't seen that one...funny stuff Shadow!

I’m a “spur of the moment” PL – if I plan on a visit then I may not be as horny for w/e reason for when I plan it – but I am single w/o kids so I can often pretty much come and go as I please.

And hell the fuck no it’s not “an addiction” – is just being fucking horny which is a NORMAL and a good thing – it’s fucking good to have a strong sex drive rather than being lukewarm or just “semi-interested” or have a “I can take it or leave it” feeling.

It’s just being horny like any healthy male often is (and should be IMO); especially the younger one is – is similar to when you have an S.O. that turns you on and you fuck whenever on the spur of the moment – it’s just being horny and having a sex drive which is normal – especially if you are on the young side.

Personally – I think it would be a bigger issue/problem if you didn’t feel like going.

I normally try to plan my trips but often times it turns out to be a spur of the moment thing. Especially if I'm just sitting around the house bored with nothing in particular to do. It has caused me to spend more than I should but I'm still within my financial means. I'm in the exact same boat as Papi. I'm also single without any kids and the only debt I currently have are student loans so I'm still straight.

Im so used to the itch ive learned to save up then once it hits i go. I've noticed if i plan my trips i dont have as good of a time as i do once the itch calls

Just learn to take care of yourself i to went broke and homless from this itch...be wise...take care of yourself and save up for this itch

Good thread and thank you for sharing

I think part of the fun of SC's, as opposed to making an appointment with an escort, is that you can just up and go spontaneously.

SJG

I'm definitely addicted to sex, of which strip clubs are my main outlet. Of course I'm also addicted to sleep and oxygen so I try to keep it in perspective.

Agree for the most part Papi- Funny JS69! Personally, I'm a combination of planning a general time when a I want to go and spur of the moment. Of course most of my comments about addictive behavior were tongue-in-cheek, however Iron Fox described "suddenly be overcome by "the itch." Everything else goes out the window, and I have to make my way to the club at all costs."

Me, I'm not addicted to SCs....just the sweet stuff that work there!