Black vs. White
impala
The People's Republic of Pennsylvania
Now, first thing I'm gonna say is I'm not a racist, and I don't discriminate (I hate everybody equally). Got a question for the crew, though. Are generally black strip clubs higher mileage than white clubs. Not saying I haven't seen black dancers, just that I have primarily been to what would be considered "white" clubs? Just curious, as that I am always looking for new experiences.
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I think part of the equation beyond color is socio-economic. Most black clubs are small extra-divey clubs in the hood and these tend to be raunchier.
I’ve been to some upper scale black clubs and the mileage seems to be in line with most white/mixed clubs.
But then again – I’ve been to mixed clubs that are mid-tier and the black dancers seem to give better mileage than their white “colleagues”.
So IME; in general yes but not always.
Obviously you are not American LOL.
My experience – and the experience of most whiteys that I have heard/read commenting on this particular statement – is that white guys often get better treatment than the black customers at black clubs.
Whether correct or not – often times white guys are seen as having more $$$ and/or more willing to spend it – and white guys are often also seen as easier to deal with than many black customers.
Us Brits are as thick as two short planks.
But the reason I am replying to your post gets into something else. My experiences with White versus other colors of dancers in more casual situations is extensive. The Blacks and other colors are much more often going to be responsible and self aware people. When it comes to the Whites you are more likely going to find screwy people with serious chemical addiction and behavior disorders. Read some of Gawker's threads about his ATF. You are more likely to find that kind of stuff with White dancers than with any other color.
Also there is another issue, regional culture. I do plan to be in the South. I've been twice before to the South, though not to SC's. And I have online correspondence with a woman in the suburbs of Atlanta.
That Southern cultural stereotype is a White stereotype. And much of it is rooted in this idea of who is okay and who is not okay, and this is originally rooted race.
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Well, not everyone in the South is White. It may be that Blacks are disproportionately still disenfranchised at the ballot box. I know that this is true. The number of not registered but eligible Black voters is enough to turn any statewide contest by at least a factor of 8, in most of these places.
But the cultural representation of the South is still white. The Blacks are not going to be like this.
Then also the South has something else, something I have never experienced, a large Black middle class, in some places. From memory, Memphis is 62% and Atlanta is 54% Black. Now of course this is just the muni. The larger metro is not that way. Newt Gingich's district could not have had many Blacks. But I have never been in a place dominated by a Black middle class. I am looking forward to it.
So when I am in the South, most of the people I'll be dealing with, in all places, will be Black.
I used to read Black Strip Clubs .Net. Unfortunately it seems to be gone now. But they explained in detail in the reviews of the best of the Black dives how things go. The girls would just come up and sit themselves down on your lap, without asking. Then they would start licking your neck and nibbling on your ear, and in generally challenging you to start making out with them. These are the girls I'll be wanting to take into the VIP Room, and then be continuing to see outside.
How much better that is than say in some of these places where the girls just come up and verbally ask you if you wan'na dance, and until you pay you can't get any more rapport with her than that. I guess lots of guys go for it, but I sure wouldn't.
Now TUSCL members have affirmed that the front room makeout session type of approach is also used at the Mixed Race dives, but it still does seem like there has to be a large Black influence for it to be done that way.
So when I am in places with lots of Blacks and Latinas, and especially in the South, then that is who I will be with.
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An example: a fav of mine recently told her friend in the club what I do for a living. The friend, who until now has pretty much ignored me, suddenly realized that I earn a lot more than she had previously thought. The fav's friend has been much more friendly toward me since that revelation.
That's very true.
Many black guys, for whatever reason, just aren't that interested in getting dances, but I'm the exception to that. Just watching and tossing money is boring to me.
Maybe it's different for me - not necessarily because I'm black - but I actually find my mileage to be higher at white clubs.
Papi's comment about the difference in customer treatment is the absolute truth: I promise he and I could hit a club together and get dances from the same girls and he would get much higher mileage and better treatment than I would. Hmm, now I wonder if the reverse would be true and explain my relative success in white clubs.
PS - Listen to Papi, The Willy Wonka of strip clubs.
One dancer several years ago told me that she rarely did extras with black customers. Her rationale was as racist as I've ever heard - they smell bad, their dicks are too big, and all the regular claptrap.
Several years later she told me that she was banging a Puerto Rican guy for the best sex in her life. She talked about his smooth brown skin, his big dick, his athleticism, etc.
Then a couple of years later I saw her on two occasions with African American men who were as black as can be.
My conclusion: it's all about racism.
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There's another reason that I've heard -- "Are you a cop"
I'm a white guy and I seem to attract the black girls every time I'm in a club. I've never asked them why. I've always suspected it was for some of the reasons listed in that article. I'd also wondered why it was that most escorts blatantly state in their profiles that they refuse to meet black guys. That was a very interesting read and answered a lot of the questions I had.
For myself I am looking forward to getting out of the Bay Area some and partaking with Black dancers in these UHM Clubs.
SJG
I have known AAMP girls who are perfectly happy with blacks.
SJG