Comments by wellhungsac420

Agree 100% that these girls talk. It can be intimidating and they do it intentionally for that reason. But remember that two can play that game and you would do well to try some trash talking to stoke their egos and to get their competitive juices flowing. I find that I can get the desired outcome by saying something like "X always does this for me but you are so much prettier than her... can you do it too?"

I agree about the variety! I wish they'd bring in even more flavors, Thai dancers in from Bangkok, Indian Kama Sutra experts, corn fed Midwest farm girls, Geishas, Jamaican rasta babes... etc. ;)

Taboo and XO are 4 minutes away

A bad tattoo can ruin a perfect breast or ass. Tattoos never make a bad ass or droopy tits look any better no matter how good and arty they are. For those reason alone I'm not a huge fan. I definitely think there is a generational aspect to it. I'm in my mid 40's and strippers in my age group, 35+ usually don't have ink like the younger girls. I had a 20-something friend with a few terrible tattoos. She had a pot leaf tat on her outer ankle that looked like a 13 year old drew it, I hated it, but I never saw it in any position we had sex in, even when her ankles were up on my shoulders, it was out of sight out of mind when it mattered. She also had a horrible lower back tattoo which was off center, too big, and too black, it ruined what would have been a perfect the view during doggy style but it never kept me from finishing all over it... So I guess the point I'm making is that while they might not look great, once you get past the visual aspect they don't change the physical experience.

Ever watch the "In the VIP Room" porn where they basically have an orgy in the private room. I don't think it will happen unless I win the Powerball

Do you give a heads up first? I never did, then one time I mentioned the impending eruption and the dancer quickly took matters into her own hands and directed the mess on to her cleavage. When I thanked her she said it easily wiped up so no reason not to. Ever since I've had similar experiences, boobs, bellies, asses, even my own belly, girls seem to enjoy watching and don't mind using a wipe for a quick clean-up so you don't have to sit in a sticky wet pair of jeans. Give it a try.

I'd hesitate in the front room if she is on stage, even if she makes full contact first. It's a PL move, IMHO she's looking to make a chump of you in front of everyone. If it happens in the back during a LD, and if you're up for it, munch away, there's plausible deniability. But you can bet the house you aren't the only one DATY so at best you are swapping spit with some other dude, hopefully that's the only man fluid you're dining on.

She said she had a PhD in Classics and Comparative Literature and was translating the ancient Greek text of Heraclitus into Portuguese, she was Brazilian. Her quotes all checked out on Google!

she may be a squirter?

buyers remorse, like when you find out someone else got the same car for less

I don't know about anyone but myself however there is no pretend going on. Mongers/PL's pay dancers to do very real things to them without having the unnecessary female baggage that other guys put up with to get the same services for "free"

no tracking needed it would be a reverse police badge ensuring the staff and dancers that the holder of the card is a legit PL perv and can be trusted with extras. it would take the place of saying "I'm not a cop trying to entrap you into incriminating yourself by discussing the exchange of $$ for sexual acts, in fact I have been confirmed as a monger by numerous clubs and by countless ladies/dancers/hoes as being harmless and pathetic"

I wonder if we could arrange for a NJ TUSCL preferred member card... featuring discounted dance rates, dancer drink specials, extended VIP room time, special bar front seating...

I think a dollar is a go-away tip. If I enjoyed any part of the interaction I give two minimum and suggest she shake it a little more if she wants to see me get generous. That puts the incentive to perform back on her.

@NJBALLA, good job, the gauntlet has been thrown and I accept the challenge! I promise to get one next time I'm out and will report back. I think everyone else here should do the same.

deep sea fishing: when she tries to empty your wallet by reaching down your pants 0-60-0 time: time from LDK to out the club door going in sideways: when you rub pussy or nipples over the clothes while gradually sliding it over to see if she's down for more

@NJ here in the land of vacant store fronts that idea sounds great. the best thing would be to pick a an empty strip mall and actually make it a Strip Mall put in a bunch of clubs, one nude club, a low end extras place, a high end club, an AMP, porn theater, sex toy store, liquor store, and diner. Make it a one stop perv haven

I hope its not too far off, there's a lot of angry guys out there that would benefit from smoking a joint and banging a pro

Most of the upscale clubs in NYC look like a Victoria's Secret fashion show. NJ and the NY boroughs are more inclusive of other body types

wear a toga, super easy access, that's my plan tonight

I was getting a lap dance a few months ago, when the dancer whispered in my ear, "What do you like?" I responded, "Everything." Well she stripped me naked, put a condom on my cock, and jumped on it so fast I didn't have time to say No. I guess you could say I was asking for it, being there and acting like that.

Dining At The Y If you scroll down to the bottom of the page there's a Glossary

you let her lead by example whats good for the goose is good for the gander if all she does is flash a nip you can't do more than that if she flashes the kitty you should reciprocate in a similar fashion then if she's not doubled over laughing and still is showing interest you can whip out the beast :)

OP is on the money! I do the same thing, usually during a private LD. But in a couple bars where I'm recognized, it happens in the front room. The girls seem to enjoy it... so much that they do it unprompted, often as a group, and make a point of calling over any new girls so they can watch too.

Never forget the age old wisdom: "its cheaper to keep her" That can go a long way to explaining why guys cheat, maybe they don't love them but they are stuck with them