No I know. I know the men want what they're missing at home. I don't think they love their wives as much as they are used to them and feel trapped or obligated to be with them. A lot of the reasons Ive heard or know of aren't even sexual. Its about how they're made to feel.
I just wish my wife would take my comments about being skinny seriously. I dont want a fat wife, and thats what I have. I hate it but she is the most amazing woman in all other ways. So easy going, kind, loving, generous. She gives whatever I ask of her. So ya I am the skumbag but its getting harder and harder to get hard. I am just not attracted to fat at all. Been that way since I first started liking girls.
Why do we make sex such a bog deal in this country? Married men mess around with hoes if they have the means because they're men. Most cultures accept this.
had i even gone to a strip club my wife would have divorced me. fucking a stripper was a far distant thought.
oh yeah. i got divorced anyway.
and i now fuck strippers.
People generally ask, how do couples that stay happy and have a regular, fulfilling sex life, how to they do it? You keep it marriage like how it was back when the two of your were first dating. Those dynamics are how you keep the fire and the spark.
I could write paragraphs, but that's the gist. Sometimes one or more partners check out and it causes a feedback loop with other.
Also some women (like the French) have a fear of being alone, so they stay thin because of that. Absent that fear, she might gain weight. But that all goes back keeping the dynamic from when you are first dating.
Also with the OP premise, a man can be emotionally monogamous but not sexually monogamous. Sometimes sex just is sex.
Though for me, sex with a dancer just seems like it would be like sex with my wife, just with a different color wig on. So given that and a lack of funds, I don't really pursue it. Plus there was a lot of cheating and abandonment when I grew up. So I have a distaste for some of it.
One other possibility, though maybe less common, is that some couples may have sort of private deal. She's not interested in having sex, or if she is, it's not as often, or it's not the kind he wants, and therefore he has permission to visit a prostitute. Or she tells herself a white lie and looks away. No emotion that might threaten the marriage is allowed, but he can remain sexual. This might be on the condition that he practices safe sex and uses complete discretion.
I know our young dancers reading this in your 20s might not understand this. But as you get some life experience into your late 30s and early 40, you might.
we live in a society where all sexual preferences are accepted like being gay, transsexual, bi sexual ect...and why isnt the most natural form of sex acceptable? A married man having sex with a hoe (women)...
Men are hard wired to fuck as many different women as possible. That's why even though all porn is the same, watching a different girl doing the same thing the others have keeps the industry going.
How man define Love is different. Love is saying I'm providing for you, emotional support for you, but goddam woman my dick needs a great nut every once in a while. Can't be too much to ask.
Never forget the age old wisdom: "its cheaper to keep her"
That can go a long way to explaining why guys cheat, maybe they don't love them but they are stuck with them
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last commentHow can you post the same inane shit time and time again. Discuss!
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Asking married men who fuck hoes how they can love their wives and do this shit isn't inane.
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a man gotta fuck some other hoes every now and then even if he married, successful men always got a side bitch
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A hoe isn't a side bitch though
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they could spend that money on therapy to help their wives...
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No I know. I know the men want what they're missing at home. I don't think they love their wives as much as they are used to them and feel trapped or obligated to be with them. A lot of the reasons Ive heard or know of aren't even sexual. Its about how they're made to feel.
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"A lot of the reasons Ive heard or know of aren't even sexual."
Trust me, it's sexual. It's very, very sexual.
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I just wish my wife would take my comments about being skinny seriously. I dont want a fat wife, and thats what I have. I hate it but she is the most amazing woman in all other ways. So easy going, kind, loving, generous. She gives whatever I ask of her. So ya I am the skumbag but its getting harder and harder to get hard. I am just not attracted to fat at all. Been that way since I first started liking girls.
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Funny bits coming from someone who claims to be female and a dancer, sounds to me like you loath your life, otherwise why be so judgmental?
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Why do we make sex such a bog deal in this country? Married men mess around with hoes if they have the means because they're men. Most cultures accept this.
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"Funny bits coming from someone who claims to be female and a dancer"
twentyfive +10
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DC kinda sad you'll never have that cos you're too socially retarded
Galiziabob, just drill it into her. Being fat is repulsive!
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Tricks like you are repulsive and lack the social cues to get it. You are like a dancer's worst nightmare
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you embody everything negative about tricks
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and i dont hate you i couldnt care less about you. UGH YOU ARE PAYING THEM!!!!!!!!!!!!!! HOW SHOULD SOMEONE YOU'RE PAYING TREAT YOU??? ROTFLMFAO
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OMFG you just said they like you coz you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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had i even gone to a strip club my wife would have divorced me. fucking a stripper was a far distant thought.
oh yeah. i got divorced anyway.
and i now fuck strippers.
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at least you got divorced first
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People generally ask, how do couples that stay happy and have a regular, fulfilling sex life, how to they do it? You keep it marriage like how it was back when the two of your were first dating. Those dynamics are how you keep the fire and the spark.
I could write paragraphs, but that's the gist. Sometimes one or more partners check out and it causes a feedback loop with other.
Also some women (like the French) have a fear of being alone, so they stay thin because of that. Absent that fear, she might gain weight. But that all goes back keeping the dynamic from when you are first dating.
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Also with the OP premise, a man can be emotionally monogamous but not sexually monogamous. Sometimes sex just is sex.
Though for me, sex with a dancer just seems like it would be like sex with my wife, just with a different color wig on. So given that and a lack of funds, I don't really pursue it. Plus there was a lot of cheating and abandonment when I grew up. So I have a distaste for some of it.
One other possibility, though maybe less common, is that some couples may have sort of private deal. She's not interested in having sex, or if she is, it's not as often, or it's not the kind he wants, and therefore he has permission to visit a prostitute. Or she tells herself a white lie and looks away. No emotion that might threaten the marriage is allowed, but he can remain sexual. This might be on the condition that he practices safe sex and uses complete discretion.
I know our young dancers reading this in your 20s might not understand this. But as you get some life experience into your late 30s and early 40, you might.
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we live in a society where all sexual preferences are accepted like being gay, transsexual, bi sexual ect...and why isnt the most natural form of sex acceptable? A married man having sex with a hoe (women)...
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I'm still confused about what one has to do with the other.
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Men are hard wired to fuck as many different women as possible. That's why even though all porn is the same, watching a different girl doing the same thing the others have keeps the industry going.
How man define Love is different. Love is saying I'm providing for you, emotional support for you, but goddam woman my dick needs a great nut every once in a while. Can't be too much to ask.
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...and Trap Jump'n still ain't a real thing troll
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variety is the spice of life.
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You don't correlate emotional monogamy with sexual monogamy?
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^Most of the men here do not
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Never forget the age old wisdom: "its cheaper to keep her"
That can go a long way to explaining why guys cheat, maybe they don't love them but they are stuck with them
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There are definite mental problems at play. The marriages cant be healthy in other aspects
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