Comments by lolruned (page 9)

"Because those girls use the basic "sex sells" technique. Usually the girls that are less reserved and more lewd on stage receive more stage-side attention than the girls that like to actually set up an extravagant show for their rotation because their argument is "Guys are simple. As long as they see a pussy, they'll throw money at you. Fuck the extra stuff"." This just tells me that they are more engaged with the audience, rather than lazily moving their body on stage and maybe getting someone to tip. And yes, sex does sell in our current society. That rings true to men and women

I usually tune out the music as it just becomes "background noise." Whenever a favorite song is played, I usually pay more attention to the set for whatever reason. That in itself could make the dancer a bit more attractive in my eyes (but nothing drastic like a 7 moving up to an 8). I think a tip I would offer a dancer is to play music you are comfortable with (whether that's a top song on the charts is irrelevant). Transition to music that are a bit unique and not as popular now. I say that because I do get tired of hearing all of the popular songs all day

"Biggest issue I have with clubs that serve food is that girls are generally told to keep away from you while you're eating." First time hearing this

Just watch the body language of a dancer. There seems to be a difference, in general, between afternoon and evening shifts. I've come to the conclusion that there is far less hustle in the afternoon. Things feel more laid back and lounge-like. That's just my own experience and it won't be the same for others

Reads like a club ad to me

The food itself is decent but I can't see myself paying for the food (other than tips)

I've felt sick from every free buffet/complimentary meal at a SC thus far. I'm sure the kitchen is no different than your average restaurant. Maybe it's something in the ingredients that makes me want to vomit

But that will probably be decades from now

There will probably be something of a mix between a phone, watch, and desktop that becomes our next portable machine

More picky. Looks are pretty important but I put more stock in personality

To even insinuate that SJG is a PUA is egregious. He's on a different level. By the way, the PUA community died a while back

Sounds like the dancer itself more than the club. I do have to question you rating this dancer a "perfect 10" but that's a story for another day

A body of 9.5 and face of a 6.5 averages out to a an 8 for that dancer.Perhaps you are exaggerating her body score. I wouldn't put the same stock in personality, but a personality score of a 2 is horrible. If you said that was a 5 or a 6 then that would be decent. For me, I would be looking at a personality score of a 7.5+ for me to have any desire to get a LD from an 8

Cable is very low value. YT TV is quite good and offers a la carte pricing. There's a good chance all of these 3rd party TV services go the route of cable years down the line but right now, they are better value than cable

And let's face it-- there are quite a few sleazy men at SCs (and any other place in general). It's like that Robin Hood mentality (except that money goes to yourself)

I have no doubt that there are quite a number of dancers who manipulate patrons, especially if they can sense patron has a good amount of wealth. I do believe NinaBambina perhaps manipulated the patron with the sob story but just put yourself in their shoes a bit. Don't tell me if you had the opportunity to get a good chunk of money for essentially doing nothing, that you wouldn't do it? I personally feel I have a pretty good moral compass and wouldn't think about pulling off such a scam but it would be very hard to turn down easy money

It has crossed my mind on whether to share TUSCL with a dancer. I think a lot of dancers do not care about websites such as these and wouldn't know what "PL" stands for

I'm conflicted on this since my go to answer would be to leave money for family. I think dancers prey on these sort of men that are lonely and sure they might be doing their job well, but I don't think that somehow gives them a right to one's inheritance. But at the end of the day, the patron "named her the beneficiary of his 401(k) account, retirement plan and life insurance policy"

It has a lot to do with a lack of innovation over the years. You need to be able to adapt and do it well in order to survive in a market saturated with tons of competitors

"Do they think the dancer will fall in love with them? Do they think the dancer will fuck them out of some obligation? If no OTC is involved they are already getting the best the dancer has to offer ITC." It's all relative. I'm sure for some of these guys, $2,400 is $24 or $240. I am very well aware that there are some patrons where that $2,400 could have been payment towards affording their children's tuition or something. In general, I would think a dancer would see that patron as weak and easy to manipulate since she now has his wallet and then some

Do they think the dancer will fall in love with them? Do they think the dancer will fuck them out of some obligation? If no OTC is involved they are already getting the best the dancer has to offer ITC.

"It’s the connection, conversation, and seeing another side of someone that really turns me on. Ideally, I want a fuck buddy I'm genuinely friends with, and find interesting. I always wind up liking friends way more than my boyfriends. After my last relationship. I just wanna enjoy liking someone, and not worry ab “love,” and all of the burdens that come w it." I think this is an interesting perspective because I've usually heard the opposite. They usually look for people who are physically attractive and are decent enough to spend time with

Unless you're looking to invest in a home gym and start meal prepping, I don't think you can fit SCing into your expenses. I think you can't approach your situation with "if I cancel my gym member and live off cereal, I'll have more money for SCing"

I rarely sit by the stage anymore. The atmosphere goes down the drain whenever I do

I haven't been to a SC with multiple stages off in each area of the building except for a couple (but there were in very close proximity to one another). With that said, I do find it pathetic to follow a dancer from stage to stage. I have seen patrons go up to a dancer when on stage and monopolize their time a bit. They're usually standing when doing this