The OFFICIAL SanJoseCreep "Woe is me my wife left me" thread
TheeOSU
FUCK IT!
This thread is here to help him come to terms with his loss and realize his shortcomings.
TUSCL, it is your duty to post here to help the creep get over the hump and get on with his pathetic life.
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SJG
Your official theme song...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XFkzRNyy…
Couldn't look you in the eye
You're just like an angel
Your skin makes me cry
You float like a feather
In a beautiful world
I wish I was special
You're so fuckin' special
But I'm a creep
I'm a weirdo
What the hell am I doing here?
I don't belong here
I don't care if it hurts
I want to have control
I want a perfect body
I want a perfect soul
I want you to notice
When I'm not around
You're so fuckin' special
I wish I was special
But I'm a creep
I'm a weirdo
What the hell am I doing here?
I don't belong here
She's running out the door
She's running out
She's run, run, run, run
Run
Whatever makes you happy
Whatever you want
You're so fuckin' special
I wish I was special
But I'm a creep
I'm a weirdo
What the hell am I doing here?
I don't belong here
I don't belong here
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SJG
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"SJG is a huge faggot"
SJG
SJG
Well if that helps you work through the fact that your wife left you for real men, go ahead get it all out.
SJG
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XFkzRNyy…
I think first and foremost, SJG must finally admit that it was his fault and his fault alone that his wife left him and his marriage failed. It is not the fault of the institution of marriage. It is not his wife's fault for whatever line of reason he puts forth. It is simply his fault and his fault alone. He cheated on her and spent both of their hard earned money on strippers and AMP whores, and this is the single and sole reason for their failed marriage.
If he cannot first pass this milestone, he will NEVER change.
That level of mental health issue isn't something that develops overnight. There probably had to be long term mental health issues.
@TheeOSU from what I have read back in the 90s SJG followed a black stripper into the New Century Theatre, a legit club in San Francisco (I've been there...had my first LDK there). From what I gather minus his embellishments he saw her DFK another stripper on stage and he had some convo with her. I don't know for sure if anything beyond this happened but I do believe he was inside the club and watched some strippers.
Also he has mentioned being in the Brass Rail which is a bikini bar in the South Bay and the Pink Poodle which is a San Jose club.
And he describes how both are inside fairly well, so he may have been in these two clubs too.
Out of all his blathering, I do believe he has been in strip clubs based on only these few accounts.
And since he has much more detailed threads on AMP whore visits, I do believe he has actually interacted with them and did what he said in his threads which is much more than anything with a stripper.
So I actually think his PL "game" and experience at DFKing was primarily developed from AMP whore interactions and he is just conveniently lumping these with his much more limited interactions with strippers but still claiming he has so much strip club experience IRL.
And seriously, if you really want to understand and psychoanalyze him, you really should read his threads where he tries to develop AMP whores to GFs. They are ROFLMAO funny but at the same time creepy as fuck. If you read them from both the perspective of being in his shoes and then from the "real" perspective of what likely happened in real life, you will gain perspective on how delusional he really is.
Just to summarize them, he basically is on a quest to make an AMP whore his GF. From his perspective he thinks they want to DFK with him and would have FS with if only it weren't for their periods. But the "real" perspective is that they all try to avoid him and DFKing with him and they use the excuse of being on their periods to avoid having FS with him. You have to read them to understand this but trust me in that they clearly show the level of his delusion about getting women to DFK with him.
Try this classic, "Pretty Girls Need to be Kissed": https://www.tuscl.net/discussion.php?id=…
That level of mental health issue isn't something that develops overnight. There probably had to be long term mental health issues."
@PaulDrake and the scary thing is, his whole crazy take on just only DFKing is really just a smaller subroutine of the bigger elaborate program of him failing at his marriage. With his failed marriage, he lost the only woman that ever loved and showed him affections like never before and losing that was a big loss. He cannot ever replace it, but he tries by living this delusional fantasy that he has a way to get some women to show him affection like that and will DFK with him and later give him wonderful passionate sex as a faithful and willing GF. It's all a lie of course, but he needs to repeat it over and over and over in his head until he's convinced himself that it is. It's classic denial on steroids.
And as elaborate as he gets with his lies about DFK, he gets equally elaborate about his organization, the evil nature of the institution of marriage, how pathetic LDKing is, how SCs are nothing but clip joints. From his simple denial and refusal to acknowledge that he is the sole reason his marriage failed, he has built lie and excuse upon lie and excuse to the point now that they are all these ridiculous subroutines.
I get the feeling he is like an autistic idiot savant of some sort. And a narcissist on top of it all. So what you get from.this is a completely socially inept idiot that doesn't know this and thinks he is a master of getting women to want him and nobody else knows how but him And this is the only thing that matters, and, if they don't, it is an issue with them and not him. So he will create any logic or reasoning to support this as long as he never has to face the fact that he's not the problem.
If SJG had the ability to look introspectively - with an open mind - he’d realize that his current state is a result of his own actions. I did that - after I made a mess of my marriage. It’s not easy - and it’s very painful - but it’s necessary to move on and heal.
But - if any of us are here for psychological insight - that’s probably a bad idea!
More power to you for taking the time to read through his threads but I've seen enough just by reading little snippets of his comments and don't have the time, desire, or patience to extensively read his ramblings.
A little bit of the creep goes a long way and he's not hard to figure out.
And yeah, to confirm, it's just more and more of the same creepiness. It's not hard to figure out but wow if you dig into the details he is a nut job of epic proportions. Snippets of his stuff is just the tip of the iceberg.
I think he was a nut job even before his marriage and the loss of it just put it into overdrive and drove him to go into "defense mechanism" mode constantly. He's to the point now that his defense mechanisms define his (TUSCL) existence.
SJG
It would scare the shit out of me if he said “I like the way you think”...
To bad PaulDrake has no experience getting personal with young women. If he did, he could not post such stuff.
SJG
CREEP!
SJG
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You're lucky you're not FTF with anyone from TUSCL, that's the only reason you get away with the shit you post here.
One thing I was thinking that might work is to post a disclaimer every time he posts his diatribe. Not attacking him just making it clear to the casual reader of this site that his advice should not be taken too seriously.
And he uses TUSCL as a means to boost himself and feed his egomania. He wants DFK + FS with strippers and AMP whores because that returns him back to getting the (lost) affections from a woman. And so with TUSCL being full of PLs that like "lesser" things with strippers like LDs and LDKs, he can always play the "superior" card and prove to himself that he is so much better than most other TUSCLers. As you can see by his latest reply to you, you are clearly inferior to him. Again this is him just boosting his ego through TUSCL.
SJG
And LOL furthermore, seeing this thread is already driving him nuts. I guarantee if we keep it on page 1 of the discussions he will just keep coming into it with insults for as long as he sees it when he logs on.
I can talk about all kinds of things here, because I can and do deploy a privacy wall where I deem it necessary. You don't have to like it. I could not care less whether or not you like it. But that privacy wall is there.
SJG
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SJG
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Notice you can see right through it
You might notice all the carbonized squirrels on the ground around you.
That barbed wire at the top of the cinder blocks is at 5,000 volts.
If you had touched that, there would now be nothing I could do to help you.
But as it is, this should help stop your forehead cut from getting infected.
https://www.walmart.com/ip/Povidone-Iodi…
I can talk about many things here, because I can and do deploy my privacy wall exactly where it is needed. People use privacy walls when they have ongoing operations which require security. My methods are no different than those of the CIA. I am in effect, my own CIA.
SJG
But if you touch the 5kV barbed wire, I won't be able to offer you any help at all.
SJG
I’m pretty sure they’ve yet to manufacture a Huffy with WiFi!
I can even understand not wanting to post super specifics on a forum. But you are constantly spewing super specific PUA tactics and not willing to confirm that you have ever successfully used them yourself. The only reason not to confirm any degree of success is that you have had none.
I think the biggest problem with your delusion is that there is a tiny shred of truth to it. Strippers like to be treated like normal girls. They don't like to be treated like sex dolls, broken dolls, or helpless baby birds. But to think that a hot college girl will drop her panties from a little DFK is obvious nonsense. And you aren't just talking about getting college girls to go after similar age attractive guys, you are talking getting college girls to fuck crusty old broke ass ugly men.
There are thousands of professional PUAs out there getting paid to give advice on picking up women and none of them have figured out your system...? FUCKING DELUSIONAL
It makes no difference to me whether or not you like this. But I do know that if you keep bashing your head against my privacy wall, then those cuts on your forehead are never going to get a chance to heal.
SJG
Reading his last few responses here it seems he's really off his rocker now. Talking about 5000 volts and vaporized squirrels?? Whatever medication he was taking before has clearly ran out and now he's really out of his fucking mind.
Whenever SJG does not have a good answer to something he deflects it.
I know, if nothing else, that he logs out to read my posts because he has cited very specific topics that I've brought up.
I also suspect that he might actually have no one on ignore (except for the SJG spoof trolls maybe). He just wants to be able to pretend that he's not seeing posts from people who really frustrate him.
https://www.tuscl.net/discussion.php?id=…
Getting ignored by the creep is akin to entering the Hall Of Fame.
If hypocrisy was an Olympic event, you’d win the gold by a country mile.
There’s a lot more of your shit in this dog park, Fido.
SJG couldn’t compete intellectually, and he had to block you - so he could be assured of getting the last word.
"it really is pointless trying to converse with this guy"
TFP, no one online submits to interrogation. If you want to be able to interrogate people, you need to go to a bar, or a church. What part of privacy do you not understand?
You keep bashing your head into my privacy wall because you want it to not be there. But it is there, so you keep reopening those cuts on your forehead.
They are going to get infected. They could even get gangrene!
https://c8.alamy.com/comp/D12M9F/gangren…
And we know the doctors can't exactly amputate your head to save you.
So here:
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SJG
https://www.tuscl.net/discussion.php?id=…
To quote him:
"I got into some debt, going GFE-FS with 3 counties worth of AMP girls.
Then I realized that it was all silly, controlled by the simple fact that I was married. I realized that I need to do what it would take to make he marriage work, or just end it.
So I had to clean up my act and make the marriage work, or I would have to end it.
SJG"
Ishmael once again summed it up best: "There is a wall, but less for privacy and more to block out reason, logic, and sanity.". Another KO of SJG by Ismael.
Ishmael once again summed it up best: "There is a wall, but less for privacy and more to block out reason, logic, and sanity.". Another KO of SJG by Ismael."
^ Therein lies the problem with living a lie or rather living numerous lies. It becomes cumbersome and difficult to sustain them. SJG would not look so stupid and hypocritical had he simply just told the truth in both threads.
And then his narcissism exacerbates everything and makes his hypocrisy look even worse. He looks bad in this thread by admitting his infidelities with AMP whores so he claims "privacy wall" in order to deflect the issue rather than paint himself in a negative light by admitting his experiences. But by contrast in that other thread since the topic is about wasting money he freely shares the "private" information because it makes him look "good" under the context of the thread topic.
Good read.
His pointless and redundant "SJG" at the end of every one of his posts is another example of his way of declaring how "original" and "important" he is. Also along this same line are the numerous useless and pointless links to music and politics and other threads that are also at the end of his posts.
He's simply making himself out to be more "important" than he really is.
If you are unable to understand privacy, that is not my problem.
But if you keep bashing your heads against my privacy wall, eventually you will get concussions.
SJG
CREEP
Regardless of your own privacy concerns can you see how others find incongruency in posting details about most topics but never about your PUA system?
It looks to me that the community as a whole tends to post comments disparaging you and trying to get you to leave. Do you see it some other way? Why keep posting the same things over and over, or in your own language why keep "bashing your head against a wall"?
Can you point to any examples at all of forum members here thanking you for your PUA system or any useful advice you have given out?
If you keep basing your head into it, you are going to get a concussion.
SJG
I had a buddy in offline life who was apparently an internet troll. He was definitely a weirdo but not an asshole at all in person. We shared a hobby and he wasn't secret about his online troll persona. It was really strange seeing this twisted second side of a person.
Look at the ground around you, see all the carbonized squirrels?
If its just cuts on our forehead, there are things I can do to help.
But if you ever touch the electrified barbed wire on the top of the wall, then there will be absolutely nothing I can do to help.
If I had to deal with you f2f, if you were some place you should not be, I already would have placed you under citizen's arrest and ordered you to lie face down on the ground, and place your hands behind your neck, and interlace your fingers.
If you still seemed to pose some kind of threat, and if you were not complying with my commands, then things would escalate.
SJG
I think the biggest problem with your delusion is that there is a tiny shred of truth to it. Strippers like to be treated like normal girls. They don't like to be treated like sex dolls, broken dolls, or helpless baby birds. But to think that a hot college girl will drop her panties from a little DFK is obvious nonsense. And you aren't just talking about getting college girls to go after similar age attractive guys, you are talking getting college girls to fuck crusty old broke ass ugly men.
There are thousands of professional PUAs out there getting paid to give advice on picking up women and none of them have figured out your system...?
You know nothing about my f2f life.
You are also sounding like a suicidal person who likes to felicitate shotgun muzzles.
No one would ever allow you to go on like this f2f. I certainly wouldn't. The consequences for you if you tried would start out at the severe level, and then escalate as needed.
You are the one who is a troll.
SJG
^ As an extreme narcissist, he will NEVER answer a question that he seems the answer would put him in a negative light. He only answers questions if it makes him look good in his own eyes.
Everything with SJG is all about him. EVERYTHING.
Which is weird because he constantly asks other members here questions.
@SJG - You fell for my trap because I am smarter than you. If you want to post specific examples of your accusation that I am a troll I am willing to have a dialog at any time. Additionally if you want to discuss the concerns I raised about your PUA system I am again willing to discuss in a civil manner.
Check mate
You may have earned yourself a place on SJG's ignore list with all that.
It's funny because I do think there was a tiny bit of truth to his system at least at one time. And I am the only one giving him that olive branch. I think over the years of trolling combined with some likely mental health issues it ballooned into the weirdness we are at today.
Felicitate... lol. What a nitwit.
http://www.dictionary.com/browse/felicit…
Regardless, his own personal experience IRL on his "system" was only with AMP whores that ended up avoiding him because they quickly realized how creepy he was trying to kiss them all the time when they didn't really want to.
If you keep bashing your heads against my privacy wall, then you be beyond the point where medical attention can be effective.
No one would allow either of you to go on like this in public. If you were some place you should not be, and causing a problem, then they would either have the proper authorities remove you, or they would make it more personal by removing you themselves.
I would certainly do it that latter way.
SJG
Guys, I'm pretty sure there was just a huge misunderstanding on this thread. I think he meant fellate.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YR5ApYxk…
We don't need no front room DFK, we don't need no waking up with her in the morning at our home.
DATY in the front room, I'm all right Jack, keep your hands off my stack.
Dammit, of course I meant sack. Only the bouncer, manager, bathroom troll, parking lot attendant, the guy who services the ATM, the beer delivery guy, the after-closing cleanup guy, and the mail delivery guy get to touch me there
I am going to make SJG do what I tell him to do. Remember he won't stay silent as that would concede him to be the inferior mind. And he is unwilling to debate me. So now I will remove the third option:
@SJG - I demand you reply to this thread again. Don't concede anything or express any willingness to proceed with a civil discourse. Keep evading all of the simple logical questions I have posed to you. Make an excuse about privacy. Mention your imaginary enchanted border fence. And throw in one or two other nonsensical additions.
And PaulDrake for sure you can bait him into admitting anything. LOL it's fun! Play upon his ego and use his own logic against him. Like shooting fish in a barrel.
Strippers best not fall asleep with san_jose_creep.
***End PSA***
+1, ladies. Don't pass out when a man shares his chloroform with you. That is very unbecoming in a professional environment.
She does not know that on other nights of the week, he is seeing another student girl. And he does not know that she will soon also be fucking a guy her own age.
https://www.amazon.com/Cats-Eye-Margaret…
My own experience with this is that women love it and seem to expect it. It is never to fuck them while they sleep. I don't think that is possible. It is simply a very bold method of awakening them.
Judgement as to its appropriateness has to be used.
There was also long ago a very sexualized GF of mine who presented me with a box of ginseng tea, saying, "So you can go more times."
I did not need chemical enhancement, but I just needed a kick in the ass to tell me that when she was lying asleep next to me I did not need to be such a gentleman.
I think about this girl much today, post failed marriage.
SJG
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Yeah i bet your ex-wife loved and expected it so much that she was boldly awakened to leave your creepy ass. Lol
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XFkzRNyy…
Also he always must downplay the money as much as possible. He really needs to believe that the woman is doing everything he wants her to do because she wants to be his GF IRL.
Nothing exemplifies all of this better than his first post in this thread about visiting one of his AMP whore GF prospects:
https://www.tuscl.net/discussion.php?id=…
In it he has to believe that she really wanted him to DATY her because she wanted it so bad, but LOL the reality was that she did it to avoid having to have sex with him. Then as he pays her, he again has to convince himself that she didn't care about the money because she didn't count it. These things are so important to him.
The dude needs a woman IRL in a bad way.
It is also interesting how open he was before the enchanted privacy fence was constructed.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LiSXi4vc…
The first time he was just interacting with me as a new member. He said his idol was King Herod the Great and he likened himself to him. Translation: he wants everyone to worship him like a king and he wants to be in power over everyone else.
The second time was in response to a post I had made (in response to one of his about DFK and LDs are a chump's game) about how I LDKed with my ATF DS and I had mind (and load) blowing DFK + FS with my hot wife on back to back days. And to this he replied with sincere jealousy and told me that I didn't have to be such a braggart. And just for context, SJG despises me and up to that point had always looked down upon me because I'm an LDK PL. But wow when I said I was also getting mind blowing DFK + FS with my wife he turned all jelly on me. Translation: he's desperate for a woman's sincere affections.
https://www.tuscl.net/discussion.php?id=…
SJG
I want you to know I do have some real sympathy for you. And it also makes me extremely grateful for how well my own life has been.
It is also really strange to me how you don't really seem self aware. You mentioned in another thread how you don't attack those until after they attack you. I am sure that is totally true. But why not stop to ask why you are getting attacked all the time? And as I asked in the other thread can you find any example of that sort of negativity between 2 members here that didn't involve you?
As always I am sure you won't reply or at least legitimately. You are really predictable so it's easy for me to put you in a situation where there is no response that makes you look like the winner.
No one would let you go on like this f2f, they would deal with you.
It would be no different with me.
So for the meanwhile:
http://www.cherrys.com/pedpics/L326b.jpg
You aren't allowed to use IGNORE, not allowed to scroll past, not allowed to looks away. All day long you can't do anything except read my posts.
SJG
"Thanks again to Founder for re-opening our old threads."
Thanks Founder!
Overview
Narcissistic personality disorder — one of several types of personality disorders — is a mental condition in which people have an inflated sense of their own importance, a deep need for excessive attention and admiration, troubled relationships, and a lack of empathy for others. But behind this mask of extreme confidence lies a fragile self-esteem that's vulnerable to the slightest criticism.
A narcissistic personality disorder causes problems in many areas of life, such as relationships, work, school or financial affairs. People with narcissistic personality disorder may be generally unhappy and disappointed when they're not given the special favors or admiration they believe they deserve. They may find their relationships unfulfilling, and others may not enjoy being around them.
Treatment for narcissistic personality disorder centers around talk therapy (psychotherapy).
Symptoms
Signs and symptoms of narcissistic personality disorder and the severity of symptoms vary. People with the disorder can:
-Have an exaggerated sense of self-importance
-Have a sense of entitlement and require constant, excessive admiration
-Expect to be recognized as superior even without achievements that warrant it
-Exaggerate achievements and talents
-Be preoccupied with fantasies about success, power, brilliance, beauty or the perfect mate
-Believe they are superior and can only associate with equally special people
-Monopolize conversations and belittle or look down on people they perceive as inferior
-Expect special favors and unquestioning compliance with their expectations
-Take advantage of others to get what they want
-Have an inability or unwillingness to recognize the needs and feelings of others
-Be envious of others and believe others envy them
-Behave in an arrogant or haughty manner, coming across as conceited, boastful and pretentious
-Insist on having the best of everything — for instance, the best car or office
At the same time, people with narcissistic personality disorder have trouble handling anything they perceive as criticism, and they can:
-Become impatient or angry when they don't receive special treatment
-Have significant interpersonal problems and easily feel slighted
-React with rage or contempt and try to belittle the other person to make themselves appear superior
-Have difficulty regulating emotions and behavior
-Experience major problems dealing with stress and adapting to change
-Feel depressed and moody because they fall short of perfection
-Have secret feelings of insecurity, shame, vulnerability and humiliation