Comments by lolruned (page 10)

But I will say that getting LDs are probably a waste of money

I'm not a veteran but I'll chime in. I don't think SCing is a waste of money as long as you have a budget set aside and do your best to not go over it. I see it as money being well-spent as long as you are getting some form of satisfaction. Sure you can go eat out for dinner and spend $100 per visit-- or you can stay home and eat up some microwaveable food. It's alright to eat out every now and then as long as you are getting a certain satisfaction and experience you probably aren't going to get by eating at home. It's all about budgeting and being comfortable with treating yourself

I'll take the side that talking makes thing less awkward

Had a great time, liked the girls

"bbb23- By the time someone is 24, they should know how and when to tell someone to fuck off." In defense of noobie dancer, she's new to dancing and probably hasn't developed the real world sense to be able to do such a thing. Some people are also just too polite to tell someone off in front of their face

"I do not understand why these girls that work here get so angry at me when they sit with the guys way longer than I do. Of course I'm going to sell faster and more than you if I keep track of time to some extent.....it doesn't take that damn long to charm a guy into a lapdance or a string of dances...lol" Insecurity. They need to take way more time developing any potential patron for income when you can get it more efficiently (that is if you are telling the truth). At the same time, as a patron I'd prefer it if a dancer takes her time with conversation rather than rushing a sale

"Honestly I do keep to myself almost always. I feel like no matter what I do they just hate me, but I hear they do this same shit to every new or semi-new girl that's hot and can hustle." I think it's good that you keep to yourself but don't outcast yourself from your co-workers. There's a bad apple at almost every workplace but I would just try to keep things as neutral as possible. Your probably too young to care for this but I'd start developing de-escalation techniques rather than using avoidance

"She says I am basically fucking her out of money for private parties that she claims to do for $900-$2000" I think a good rule of thumb to follow is to never trust what a dancer tells you. She's trying to stroke her ego. I doubt a dancer that is "below average" in a small town would make that kind of money

UK is a prestigious basketball school but prestigious law school?

Work on your grammar (using correct punctuation) and focus on details. Anybody can write fan fiction but it takes a talented writer for that fan fiction to actually have an audience. Perhaps you can take a writing class if you are serious about it

Depends on management, dancer, and/or location. Generally, I think mileage is limited in a suburban SC. I think you can get a lot more mileage if you look like a huge spender and/or an attractive patron

I'm probably in the minority here but I don't know how you can qualify this as something to brag about

I'll be waiting for my bonus at the end of the month. Your welcome

It really depends on that specific SC but I really doubt that the talent is that much better afternoon vs evening. I recently visited a SC during the afternoon and I noted that I was impressed with the quality of the dancers. I can't really see how much better the quality would be later in the evening. More dancers does not mean more value in my perspective

Weekends I've found are poor value and less mileage. I want to provide some of my own insight on some of your bullet items. I have yet to have difficulty finding parking except for a SC I've visited during an afternoon and just has a very small parking lot. I've yet to have encountered much of a line for a cover charge. I agree on it being difficult to find a good seat (let alone just a seat). Drink prices aren't on happy hour prices for obvious reasons and really isn't good value for me. Dancers turn up the hustle as they know they can pull off a "wanna dance" with as many patron as they can. I see why this is the route most dancers go with but it just comes off as poor customer service from my perspective I think afternoon visits are probably the way to go for SCers who want value

I stopped reading SJG's posts on my 2nd day, so I don't know how you guys even do it

I can only speak of SCing in terms of now so I'll speak on my current experience. There's a lot of rap and EDM music played in SCs. SCs seem like more of a party atmosphere than what they probably were back then

I can see your reviews OP. By the way, I found this line from one of your past reviews and I thought it was really interesting: "All the dancers are 7's. If they each lost 10lbs they'd all be solid 9's." I don't think physical attractiveness works like that. You don't go from decently above average to supermodel by losing said 10 lbs but that's a story for another day

I can see your reviews OP. By the way, I found this line from one of your past reviews and I thought it was really interesting: "All the dancers are 7's. If they each lost 10lbs they'd all be solid 9's." I don't think physical attractiveness works like that. You don't go from decently above average to supermodel by losing said 10 lbs but that's a story for another day

Don't give VIP for helping reviews get published. That is silly

Had a great time, liked the girls

Don't pay no mind to it. There was a reason you decided not to publish a review and I think you have enough honor with the community to have a say in what the standard should be

Yes it is true that dancers are not objects. One's behavior and/or job does not define them as a person. I did think it was interesting how much you are spending at SCs. For the past year, you've been going to a SC every week or bi-weekly, spending anywhere from $300-700/visit. Your entertainment budget is quite high

I think she looks better now than when she was a cheerleader during the 1997-1998 season. She sort of looks like Linda Hamilton. Also, this is pretty much a non-story

If I did have a favorite, it wouldn't be a pre-planned one. I also have a disdain for those one-liner type of openings (same applies to anybody who uses a one-liner in the dating world). I have admiration for a dancer who is natural/comes off as natural