Fuck Buds
twentyfive
Living well and enjoying my retirement
With all of these threads popping up lately, I was wondering do any of you guys or gals have a friend that you like and likes you either stripper or civvie that is available for an unpaid booty call. I have two both are way hot and yes I have helped them financially on occasion but the basis for our relationship is fun not money?
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I've never gone down that path either. Too risky to me. I'm married and want to stay that way.
I'm working on something with another dancer as well. Not sure what that will grow into, as it's still pretty early. We'll see.
But to answer your question, yes I’ve had a fuck buddy and it worked really well but her ability to handle it was top notch and I would consider that rare. Ended when she moved away.
On average, guys are willing / eager to have 'fuck buddy' relationships going far later in life than women. And, young women generally prefer a fuck buddy who is closer to their own age and vigor if money is removed from the equation. So, there's a growing mismatch over time.
That's not universal, but prevalent in my opinion.
How do you feel about one-night stands?
I'm cursed with eliciting those pesky feelings when they go to the well too many times (generally the third encounter or the 4th round of the first encounter).
Yay for girls with daddy issues that had a grouchy dad. ;)))
It’s the connection, conversation, and seeing another side of someone that really turns me on. Ideally, I want a fuck buddy I'm genuinely friends with, and find interesting. I always wind up liking friends way more than my boyfriends. After my last relationship. I just wanna enjoy liking someone, and not worry ab “love,” and all of the burdens that come w it.
I just don’t see it happening. Girls are used to being pursued, and it’s too much energy to put into on a very long shot to find a girl like Bj99 to conveniently hook up. It’s why strip clubs are a wonderful place. You know what she wants, and vice versa. At least she pretends to like me.
It’s a slippery slope, literally, to find great sex and try to keep it superficial. That’s why we have one night stands. I have a hot 40 year old who says she wants to have sex with me, this is OTC meeting up for drinks, but the ITC is so convenient that I can’t pull the trigger. My life is in such a rut that I don’t want anyone upsetting my apple cart. I think o need help getting out of that rut after reading these comments. Life is too short.
I would think an outside sales position would be ideal for you to work on finding somebody that fits what you’re looking for. Those sales guys are lonely and looking for companionship, and if you were a coworker it would make things easier. I have a younger coworker, but she is in the looking for a man to be a husband and father. If she was someone like you, I’d get cozy talking about life and work which could lead into convenient FWBs.
Where are you fishing for men, ITC?
Maybe I’m reading it wrong - but did I read Bj wants more dick pics? She mentioned something about wanting one of us to be her fuck buddy - right?
then again i probably wouldn’t make the cut... aside from a one night stand... me as a fb would not work.
i’m too unfaithfull. i enjoy good sex with many pretty young ladies too much.
I think this is an interesting perspective because I've usually heard the opposite. They usually look for people who are physically attractive and are decent enough to spend time with
So after a while the girls burn-out on fuck buddies because the guys all forget about the being-friends-part on the remaining days you two aren't fucking. After enough bad experiences with enough guys, some girls stop it altogether. Which is unfortunate.
So there you go.
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DFK GFE in the front room is a chump's game. In most clubs, you are better off HJing the bouncer and then doing front-room DATY
If by 'ruined' you mean 'ecstatic', then you are correct.
I wasn't that old the first time this happened, but having the attention of a beautiful older woman was great! I tried it with a couple of additional ones, even, just to make sure it wasn't just her. The hardest part back then was convincing her that I was the aggressor.
What fucked me right up was when I dated a 19 yo nympho whose family dropped a couple of hints about marriage. The nice thing about older women was that it could just be about whatever it was about and every word we exchanged wasn't life-altering.
American women are all about being pursued with dinner, gifts, and being pampered. The only thing I had to offer as a college kid was my freedom and fun. She recognized that, had a good job, and little time raising a child. As for me, I had no money and working the local college scene with girls who acted more like high school cheerleaders. I’ve had maybe 7-10 different women for sex partners at this point in my life, and the older lady was a divorcee. The one thing I remember about her was it was the First Lady i has been with that squirted. She literally hit the wall one time while I was eating her out and pulled my face away. Ever since then I’ve been wondering g if I will ever find another girl with that capability. It left a long time impression on me. The relationship did go south when her age drastically started to show with sagging breasts that seemed to droop every time we meet up. Then I found a smart and healthy sexy volleyball player to have fun with, and soon I moved on. This I believe is the kind of thing that usually happens when older ladies fuck younger guys.
This is adorbs, but there is really nothing wrong with pursing anything with any man, especially if it's Juice.
People are sentient and he can just like you as a person. I remember being 21 with an ex-stripper and her affection was more of a factor in keeping away from the club rather than driving me to it.
> Strippers can become a life long addiction that can destroy a guy’s ability to just be happy w what he has.
I'm just going to leave this here. I expect that the punchbowl has been well-maintained and looked after by our hosts.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4Vjn63YE…
Strippers can become a life long addiction that can destroy a stripper's ability to just be happy w what she has.
mind=blown. are you seriously telling us that strippers are actually hustling their own selves?
I am going to have to consult L. Ron about this development. It sounds potentially suppressive.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Mm7muPje…
I love that guy!
YES!!! Now could you hit trust after clicking my avatar? I'm competing with Juice and he's winning pretty badly.
Shameless plug for trust, I would never!!!!