Dancers' Music.
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But this question would apply to a club where dancers set their own playlists and song requests. Have you ever tipped or got a dance from a girl because she danced to that one song that just happened to be your all time favorite song or you just really dig the genre of music she dances to? Have you ever flat out refused to tip a girl because her music taste was far from your liking? Does it have the slightest influence at all as to how much you like her?
There have been plenty of times where girls have been tipped due to the customer liking their songs or even being taken back for a dance or two, even if they're not the type of girl they're looking for or remotely pretty. And there have been plenty of times where customers (usually younger groups or even geezer groups) wouldn't tip a cent on stage - even to the most attractive girl the club had to offer - or sometimes refuse a dance from a dancer they like, because they were so put off by the music that they couldn't get in the 'mood' so to speak.
What are your monger thoughts?
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In my case, there are two factors. Some music just puts me in sort of a chill trance and life is good and I can't stop tipping just because.
The other part of it is if the song that plays into our current stage of CFdom.
If they won't stop playing non-music like butt rock, it's hard to get in a vibe, but if the DJ plays something amazing to mix it up from the buttrock, that's tip-worthy, and I'll walk away from the dancer and tip him to make sure he knows that he's doing a good job.
I have asked dancers if they would dance to certain music such as Lady Gaga. They have asked the DJ and the DJ will usually comply.
I once had a CF where we had fun picking her song routine while I was seeing her. That was fun and set the mood nicely. I think it helps if the girl gets to pick her set in general vs the DJ.
My only beef is when I am in VIP and some mood killing song comes on we both dont like and its like wtf is that?!?! Not much to do about that except grease the DJ before going in VIP and I have never done that.
Having a DJ who picks up on her vibe can be even better. For example, it happened where I was tipping the DJ all night one night and he came up with some original shit that I was into.
> My personal preference to music is classic rock. But I don't think very many 20 something year old girls are going to get into AC/DC, Van Halen, or Motley Crue.
Except when they are bebe. Did you wash your balls before coming in?
I've also had a dancer get especially motivated by certain songs/genres of music. One young blonde young MILF was brand new to dancing when I met her. I was planning to wrap up our LD session when a country soung came on for another girl's stage set. She was so excited to hear country music I felt obliged to get another dance. It was clear from the performance comparison that she was a true fan. :-)
As a side note, I also like it when the strippers pick their own music. They will probably be more into it and that makes it more fun. Plus, it creates a talking point as far as what kind of music they like and why. Music is one of the few topics that is easy to discuss for both parties and tends to bring out a little bit of honesty and personality because it is fairly non threatening.
So it may be a half and half split between the general customers that do take music into account of their experience mongering and the guys that just simply tune it out and make the girls their main priority.
I was so enthralled with this dancer that I did 10, $20 lap dancers with her 4 weeks in a row. The music and the dance were different and made her far more attractive.
I looked hard for the cultural reference of "Miami Florida, like a dick in the water", I think it was 2 live crew, but the internet has forgotten about it.
She didn't say "just the tip" so, I'm thinking it's that.
Lol. What?
Look at a geographical map of America and say that Florida is not the dick of the continent.
Yea Florida is Americas cock.
Because those girls use the basic "sex sells" technique. Usually the girls that are less reserved and more lewd on stage receive more stage-side attention than the girls that like to actually set up an extravagant show for their rotation because their argument is "Guys are simple. As long as they see a pussy, they'll throw money at you. Fuck the extra stuff".
I never said it was a big cock!
This just tells me that they are more engaged with the audience, rather than lazily moving their body on stage and maybe getting someone to tip. And yes, sex does sell in our current society. That rings true to men and women
I kind of miss the old stage shows and I tip accordingly when I see a stage show I like but I understand sex sells with most guys. It's just the way it is.
Can you elaborate on what old stage shows were like from your experience?
I'm not expecting fire tricks or feather boas .. but I wouldn't say no either.
As an analogy - if a restaurant is super-fancy but the food sucks, I personally don't wanna visit that restaurant; for me it's about the food first-and-foremost.
Similarly - for me it's all about the dancer's look and if she's my type - if she's my type and they're playing polka I'll still want to get dances w/ her just as much - if she's not my type I won't get dances w/ her b/c I'm really digging the song.
I like getting lots of dances from many different dancers, thus that's what I use my SC $$$ for - i.e. I do very little if any stage-tipping - in essence "good-music" does not really get me spending more - it might get me in a bit of a better mood, but unlikely it will dictate my spending.
And actually - if it's a song that I really like, I actually prefer not to get a dance to it so I can enjoy listening to it (if I'm getting a dance then I'd be distracted).
Also - if it's a song a girl really likes at times I've had the issue that she's more into the song than me as the custy paying for the dance.
She got fired for being STUPID - you don't get into it w/ a customer in any business - you let those in charge (boss, etc) handle-it - she escalated the situation and put the club in a bad-spot and drew LE attention to the club getting her lowlife crew involved.