Stage Leeches
JohnSmith69
layin low but staying high
At clubs with multiple stages that the girls rotate through, you sometimes find PLs following a dancer from stage to stage through the room. Sometimes they tip at each stage and sometimes not. They may go with their dancer to just some stages, or they may accompany her to all of the stages. Baby Dolls is where I have seen this most often but I’ve seen it at other clubs too.
I assume that these stage leeches are either regulars who want to stay with their girl, or guys who are claiming their pussy in advance so others don’t try to grab her for dances after her stage rotation is over. But I don’t think these guys are usually whales. Many don’t seem to spend too much at the stages, and I’ve sometimes seen a dancer who tries to ignore them or seems irritated with them.
Stages leeches irritate the crap out of me since stage sets are when I often try to get a very attractive dancer to leave her current customer and come to experience my charms. Yes I could do that right under the stage leeches’ nose, but that is uncomfortable and Mary Jane does not like it.
Does anybody else have any experiences with stage leeches? Have you ever been a stage leech?
I assume that these stage leeches are either regulars who want to stay with their girl, or guys who are claiming their pussy in advance so others don’t try to grab her for dances after her stage rotation is over. But I don’t think these guys are usually whales. Many don’t seem to spend too much at the stages, and I’ve sometimes seen a dancer who tries to ignore them or seems irritated with them.
Stages leeches irritate the crap out of me since stage sets are when I often try to get a very attractive dancer to leave her current customer and come to experience my charms. Yes I could do that right under the stage leeches’ nose, but that is uncomfortable and Mary Jane does not like it.
Does anybody else have any experiences with stage leeches? Have you ever been a stage leech?
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When I used to visit BDs in the 2000s, there was a 50 y/o or so salt-and-pepper haired PL w/ mustache and glasses which stage-following seemed to be all that he did - he did not look like he had $$$ to do much else and I would see him often @ BDs.
i’m trying to get her favor...
I've never done it either. I almost never go to stage at all, for that matter, except for the specific purpose of getting the girl on stage back to my table. But, whether it's pathetic or not, you have to admit JS justified it in the same post where he complained about them -- after all, if the stage leaches are intent on saving that stripper for themselves, the stage is *exactly* where JS (and I, for that matter) intercept the girls to steal them away.
Well played, RIL, well played. Next time I'll have to catch your girl on her way out of the bathroom instead :)
I admit I've done it. Not to cockblock, but bc some asshole was harassing my fave on stage. Sure, I could've knocked him the fuck out,,, but he was a pretty big guy. So I did the next best thing, and drew attention away from him to me.
I think the stage-leeches are the ones that don't have the $$$ to keep a dancer so the only-way to get time w/ her is when she can't go anywhere but be on stage.
It’s a dead night at the club, and a particular dancer is on the A team. Say the club has 4 stages to rotate on even though the main stage is the only one getting action.
I’ve gone to the 2nd stage and maybe 3rd or 4th and tipper her - kinda reminding her “come see me when you’re done.” Do I stand there the entire time? Hell no, stuff $5 or $10 in her g-string, smile and walk back to my seat. Instead of stuffing a $20 in her g-string once, I stuff $5 three times. After all going to 4 stages for some strippers, that first stage was like a lifetime ago by the time 4 songs pass. I mean how many times have you tipped a stripper and she comes over 30 minutes later saying “oh I’ve been looking for you but I couldn’t find you.” I think “ho this club floor is like 3,000 square feet I’m not that hard to find!!!”
60% of the time it works every time.
I don’t consider what I explained a leech, and yes I’ve seen what you describe. It’s usually some PL that has a headlock on his dancer all night. It’s very pathetic.
Most I usually see is a guy get up as soon as a dancer gets on stage to tip her. I personally have never done the stage leeching myself. I usually tip at whatever stage and ask that she come by when she's done.
In the Baby Dolls setup (as at any club, really), seems to me the girl needs to take care of her own business and happily collect a low-tipping leach's money while circulating on the multiple stages and then move on from the leach and spend time with a better paying / less annoying customer. Her choice to let herself be cockblocked or not.
I have followed a girl to main stage when she got called up from where we were sitting and before we had moved to more private area as planned, so that I didn't lose her to a stage tipper. This thread makes me feel pathetic for even doing that; thanks TUSCL, another lesson learned.
Granted, I did see them go to VIP for quite a while more than once, so she was taken care of. But it looked desperate.
It does happen A LOT at Baby Dolls Dallas.
Sometimes a club will have a connected dual stage like a dumbbell shape, where the girl will leave one side and go to the other side at the next song. I've followed a girl to the other side when i wanted to see more of her stage show and not the girl before or after her. One time, many years ago, i was at a club that had three levels of stages (like top/mezzanine, main, lower level) where they danced for one song at each level, and one of the girls noticed i was tipping her well or at least a little more than the other PLs and suggested i should move to the lower stages to see her again (and give her more money). She was one of the better looking girls, so i followed her advice.
I've also stage hopped when there are multiple stages and i see a better looking girl on a different stage and the girl at the stage i'm at is one i don't want to tip. I'm not sure what you would call that. At any rate, i don't really know how any of these behaviors could prevent someone from communicating their interest in a girl. In fact, with some popular girls, it did take multiple stage visits just for me to finally talk to the girl. I'm trying to figure out how you could possibly monopolize a girl by going to all of her stage sets, especially larger stages, say 5+ seats. I mean the girl picks who she wants to interact with for whatever reason (usually anticipating a better tipper or someone that came to the stage just for her and try to close the deal on dances).
What i find more annoying is the guy who treats the stage like the front room and tries to hog a girl, just feeding her money (little or a lot, doesn't really matter, but it's usually not that much), talking to her and often loudly complaining when she tries to move on, in the hope that she won't go to anyone else. If they're not spending much at all, then they're just wasting everyone else's time.
You know you're a PL when...
you stalk a dancer from stage to stage
The other guys tipping ones become invisible to the dancer and she eventually walks past them to me when she's done. I can't recall a time that didn't work.
As far as me doing it, I've never gone and sat at the stage with her, then moved to the next, etc. But, I have gone up and tipped her on one stage, gone back to my seat, then got up again and tipped her on the other. If that counts, I'm guilty. When I've done it there's been two motivations, if its a fave I'm not doing it in an attempt to keep her from stripper vultures, I'll do it as an excuse to give her a few extra bucks. Otherwise, I might just be bored/enamored. If a stripper is hot and I'm sitting at my table staring, it feels like I should throw her a few bucks. If that means looking a bit like a tool getting up more than once to do it, so be it.
JS69 has lots of very narrow judgemental categories he boxes people into.
Our Brass Rail has 4 stages, and no private dances. Also, often very few people. So following a girl from stage to stage is a way of recognizing her, giving her money, and having some fun with her. If one wants to be dating her, that method could work well.
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