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6 years ago
SJG - I have never been to either of the latina clubs. You are looking at the right PTs, and I have also never been there. Where all of the other clubs are clustered together PTs is all off on it's own. I do plan on checking it out at some point due to it being well regarded.
As far as where to get reliable FS, remember I am a chump by your definition so I don't have a ton of intel. I tend to hit the ultra high volume clubs which have 30ish girls during the day and as high as 70 at peak night. Even at those clubs which have a reputation for extras I would keep in mind a large portion of the hotter girls don't do them or are always busy with regulars. At Baby Dolls Dallas (don't bother with Fort Worth) during peak times some of the hotter girls don't even seem to be interested in selling dances at all, they sit in the corner with their backs to the crowd, they make enough from stage and regulars.
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6 years ago
@IntheCut - If literally everyone is telling you something is a bad idea... it's a bad idea. Just because you think it's cool it is probably hurting other people's experience and causing drama.
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6 years ago
My CF is totally like this. She frequently counts down one on the number of dances and is generally super generous with me. I always pay the higher amount. It works really well, I get to feel like she is being generous with me and that I am being generous with her. Good feeling to end the visit on.
Early on her dances sucked (as far as what I like) so she may have picked up on the fact that I was not satisfied and decided to be generous. I decided that because of her generosity I owed her another couple of tries. I don't think there is anything to it past that, I am not delusional thinking she liked me or was attracted to me, simply she wanted me as a regular.
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6 years ago
Going up to a stripper and customer who are clearly with each other seems like a terrible idea to me. Just because no one has punched you yet doesn't mean it is acceptable behavior.
As far as the statement:
"if some dude is getting in the way of her making money then she needs a new dude"
It really isn't your place to dictate how a dancer spends her time.
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6 years ago
@Liwet - That would mean we would have a veritable mountain of reviews. Already there are a lot, adding more would mean less people would do them. If you have too many I know personally I wouldn't have the time to make it through the list and making it to the end gives a sense of satisfaction.
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6 years ago
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lolrunedYour Friendly Neighborhood Average Guy
@SJG - Yeah you would like the club here. Oddly enough I am fairly certain it is owned by deja vu. And yes, no rules as to DFK, all up to the dancer. There is a standard dance price but with my CF I just pay her $100 and that is all inclusive for the hour or two I am there.
Also I am proud of you buddy for having actually posting an on topic response! You worked in your point but didn't just scream it at everyone like you normally do. That is pretty awesome!
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6 years ago
Dude for that just read the reviews of clubs in Dallas with "chicas" in the name or other sounding latina words. I think there are two or three to choose from.
One thing to keep in mind is that any club in DFW is not going to have much privacy. Generally stage tipping is non-urban clubs is really low compared to other places in the country.
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6 years ago
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lolrunedYour Friendly Neighborhood Average Guy
The club I have been a regular at (bucks cabaret) is high enough volume that they can set low prices and basically stay out of the way. Rental of a cabana or vip is $25-50 to the club, cheap cover, $2 drinks. And even for dancers the fees are low, from what I have heard as low as $10 with zero percentage taken of whatever the girl makes. Then the mileage rules are pretty much left to the dancers. Basically as stated before the club pretty much stays out of the way!
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6 years ago
@abqspencer - The rain pants I mentioned are REALLY thin single layer. Almost the texture of thin track shorts. I also use bit of baby powder (Pinaud Clubman Talc available at your local drug store) which helps reduce friction and absorbs moisture.
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6 years ago
He's too easy to play.
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6 years ago
What you want to get are walter hagan golf rain pants:
ultra thin material
no zipper
the pockets have a passthrough so you can stick you arm inside the pants
totally waterproof so no issues with getting fluids on dancer
they look just like slacks
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6 years ago
That is really not specific. The Texas clubs have both mixed, urban, and also latina clubs. Extras or not? What sort of experience are you looking for?
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6 years ago
Like him or hate him, one thing I thought was interesting from Jordan Peterson was the idea that modern women have pressure to get their lives sorted out fast. They have pressure to get their family and careers on track before 30 where a lot of modern guys are happy to live at home and play video games until 40.
SJG - Doesn't seem like the community has a problem with me? But if they did I would definitely quit the forum. I am NOT the kind of person that would stick around to be continually shit on by a community of people.
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6 years ago
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azddOn the prowl in Tucson and Phoenix
I can confirm that site is accessible as of not from a Canadian VPN. I use private internet access and here is a tutorial on setting it up for windows:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=39w6uv_cmZU
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6 years ago
I personally am not a big fan of it almost at all. Easy enough to say "Hey I really appreciate you trying to make things more intense for me but I would actually prefer less of that"
It is worth asking the question if she actually would go for the golden shower. Even just out of curiosity as to how much she would charge?
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6 years ago
Seems better to offer her some travel expenses on top of the OTC money to fly her to you. Massively less chance of flaking.
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6 years ago
I generally ask more directly when tipping:
"Hey I would love to get a few dances with you when you get off stage. Do you have anything lined up?" If she says she is free then "Awesome, I will wait on you then, it's a date!"
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6 years ago
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So I went to go see my CF again and I think a lot of my frustration is down to two areas:
1. Specific frustration with my CF's conversation ability. I have been seeing her every week for a few months now. Generally our conversations are me asking about what is new with her life drama and then no reciprocation on her part. If I told her I was going to rob a bank this weekend she would not think to ask me how my bank robbery went next week.
So here is the rub: this girl is a 9, works dayshift, generally doesn't make over $200, and has never successfully kept a regular (besides me) for than a few weeks. Basically spending $100 weekly with her is enough to get "whale" treatment. I guess I just need to accept that putting up with lopsided conversation is worth the upsides.
2. I don't do "strip club conversation" well. I think most strippers are used to listening to guys talk about stuff they don't actually care about. Personally I don't want to talk to a girl about cars if I know she isn't actually interested.
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6 years ago
@rogertex - totally agree with your statement on magic and charisma
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6 years ago
@SJG - Come on buddy! We need you to start posting on their forum! What are you doing wasting your amazing talent on tuscl! Be a hero, this is your calling!
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6 years ago
Boner fees are the new best joke of tuscl!
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6 years ago
I would agree with you guys that I hate the "Why don't you like me" tactic. I bet it only works on really weak guys.
My home club has an awesome rule that girls have to ask if you want company the first time they meet you. That club generally has really positive dancer/customer interactions and I think a lot of it comes down to that rule.
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6 years ago
@Bj99 - So are you planning on doing more night shifts? How did you do compared to a normal dayshift? Was the hustle and bustle draining or exhilarating?
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6 years ago
@AmeliaSmith - I like your "center of someone's arousal", that is a good way of putting it.
@Warrenboy75 - I personally thing trying to understand the mind of dancers through places that they vent is a bad idea. When I first started SCing I read a lot on the pink forum and got a really bad impression of dancers that way. If you just read someones venting it makes them look at lot worse than they actually are. I have found the best place to peer into the mind of a dancer is on youtube. Here is a stripper who posts insightful videos:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kwjwh-XADLg
That girl is a total dream stripper BTW both in terms of looks, personality and intelligence. Would love to be a regular of hers!
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6 years ago
Thanks for the insight and tips Bj99! Very useful!