I know a dancer with a killer body and nobody would complain about the mileage in her dances but the dirty talk just continues to get worse and worse. In her latest outburst she said that she wanted me to piss in her mouth. I know, at least I hope, that she is just talking dirty in hopes that it will turn me on enough to spend more money on her. I asked her where she came up with all of this shit she says and she said from watching porn. I felt like asking her if she wanted me to shit in her mouth too but figured that would just be encouraging her. I think I need to take her off my dance list.
I personally am not a big fan of it almost at all. Easy enough to say "Hey I really appreciate you trying to make things more intense for me but I would actually prefer less of that"
It is worth asking the question if she actually would go for the golden shower. Even just out of curiosity as to how much she would charge?
I'm not a huge fan of dirty talk since it's easy to tell if it's real or not, both with civvies and dancers. For me, the real truth to how much they're turned on is the temperature of the kiss...when the mouth goes cold, the blood is diverted somewhere else.
As an odor-sensitive patron, pissing/shitting fetishes irrevocably turn bone to gelatin, as does general BO.
I’m the odd perv out here. I love filthy talk - the filthier the better. However, if it’s just going through the motions - with no actual desire to make it believable - then it’s almost comical (and it doesn’t work).
I had a fuck buddy who was into being pissed on (and in) - and it was amazing how aroused she would get. We would also chat on the phone - and she loved hearing how I wanted to use her as a human urinal. That would get me highly aroused too. I’m not into shit play - but I’ve had a few filthy fuck buddies ask me about it - while I fucked their asses. But - these are civilian freaks - so maybe p4p girls aren’t that filthy in reality?
It depends. If she wants to tell me how she will worship my penis and bring me to heights of oral delight that I’ve only dreamed about in the past, then yeah I like it. But if it’s about pissing in her mouth, or any other vulgar disgusting shit, then I would send her away promptly.
I'm a "action speaks louder than words" PL - whether it's doing dances or extras I rather let her body do the talking - I don't need conversation when performing a physical task and actually often find it distracts from the task at hand - IME many a dancer does not follow-thru/measure-up to her dirty-talk, some do but more the exception than the norm, IME - I think many use dirty-talk as a way to try to turn-on the custy w/o having to do too-much physically
There are certain things dancers do that I think they think is sexy but I don't like - these days I just tell them I don't like 'X' vs enduring something I don't like - most of the time they oblige with no issues.
e.g. some girls wanna do that move where she kinda lays her back on my lap with her cooch in my face, I like looking at cooch but find that position uncomfortable and awkward and put a stop to it - I also don't like-it when they put their hands on the floor and legs on top of you facing away from you like in a pushup-position, find it uncomfortable and not a turn-on - also hate when they're on-stage and they wrap a leg around your neck and pull on it, hate that shit and find it very-annoying and won't let them do it.
I love a dirty bird. At least she's trying to turn your crank, even if it is the wrong direction for you. I'd put her on my dance list (especially since the mileage is good).
I only do it if asked, or if he is doing it, I’ll play along. Usually stuff like, “I want to feel your cock cumming in me.” Or “my pussy is aching for that dick.” Even tho it’s just lap dances. It’s not uncommon for guys to like that.
Most guys like simple stuff like, “I love how you touch me.” Or “this spot feels so good for me.”
doctorevil - Yes and I have not done VIP with her because I don't believe a word she says. I do know 2 posters on here that have and they say she doesn't deliver.
That's a whole different type of "dirty". Never heard that from a stripper or a civvie.
Under the right circumstances it can be nice but yeah, mentioning urine would be a show stopper for me. Same for violence, I did have a stripper get a little graphic about choking her and I bluntly told her that was turn-off.
How about the opposite - a girl who talks all innocent, like she's a little girl who needs a daddy (Shadow - I think you know to whom I'm referring). In her best little girl voice, she says stuff like she's just looking for a big strong man to take care of her. Or maybe she's been a bad girl and needs her daddy to punish her.
I'm not a fan of over-the-top dirty talk, but that daddy stuff doesn't work on me at all.
Meh. Once in a while I find a dancer who does it right and it works. 90% of the time it sounds like dialogue from 70s porn. I usually tell them that dirty talk isn't my thing.
Wildbourbon - I’ve not seen that girl yet. I’ll check her out.
I think it’s arousing when a dancer is kinky and filthy - and submissive.
The choking thing works too. I love feeling my hands around a girls throat. The ones that fully submit are the best - as they love the loss of control. They are giving control fully over to their dom. That’s not the usual club encounter - it requires trust and experience. (No chloroform is needed SJG)
Sometimes during sex I like to have my partner tell me stories like the old Penthouse Forum. When she describes in detail what she does to the imaginary guy ( wait. That was so good, is he imaginary?) or what he’s doing to her I find that it’s a window to her fantasies.
Gawker - that’s a good point. It can be a challenge itc sometimes - to get a dancer to relax and open up. But I agree - it can provide good insight to her fantasies and what she enjoys.
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It is worth asking the question if she actually would go for the golden shower. Even just out of curiosity as to how much she would charge?
As an odor-sensitive patron, pissing/shitting fetishes irrevocably turn bone to gelatin, as does general BO.
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I had a fuck buddy who was into being pissed on (and in) - and it was amazing how aroused she would get. We would also chat on the phone - and she loved hearing how I wanted to use her as a human urinal. That would get me highly aroused too. I’m not into shit play - but I’ve had a few filthy fuck buddies ask me about it - while I fucked their asses. But - these are civilian freaks - so maybe p4p girls aren’t that filthy in reality?
In general, dirty talk that’s in line with either her or my desires, or both, is a turn on. Otherwise, not so much.
https://youtu.be/qKKTF9mBX-g
e.g. some girls wanna do that move where she kinda lays her back on my lap with her cooch in my face, I like looking at cooch but find that position uncomfortable and awkward and put a stop to it - I also don't like-it when they put their hands on the floor and legs on top of you facing away from you like in a pushup-position, find it uncomfortable and not a turn-on - also hate when they're on-stage and they wrap a leg around your neck and pull on it, hate that shit and find it very-annoying and won't let them do it.
Most guys like simple stuff like, “I love how you touch me.” Or “this spot feels so good for me.”
Under the right circumstances it can be nice but yeah, mentioning urine would be a show stopper for me. Same for violence, I did have a stripper get a little graphic about choking her and I bluntly told her that was turn-off.
I'm not a fan of over-the-top dirty talk, but that daddy stuff doesn't work on me at all.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E7mw6chl…
I think it’s arousing when a dancer is kinky and filthy - and submissive.
The choking thing works too. I love feeling my hands around a girls throat. The ones that fully submit are the best - as they love the loss of control. They are giving control fully over to their dom. That’s not the usual club encounter - it requires trust and experience. (No chloroform is needed SJG)
And by the way: they're real, and they're spectacular.