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6 years ago
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steeldog65I swear, it's just shrinkage due the cold
^This
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6 years ago
Waiting for gawker to chime in with his $ amount...
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6 years ago
^great new avatar 25
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6 years ago
The first ^ in my post above relates to jack's and flag's lawsuit comment
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6 years ago
^ Yes indeed, assuming he doesn't have an SO he's hiding clubbing from and making up a story about how his head got cut open!
@Cashman: "It was surreal - and a lesson learned -"
^What lesson would that be?
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6 years ago
“How about bald Fridays?“
This would be all weekdays mid day shift
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6 years ago
Happens to me on desktop using MS explorer. Doesn’t happen w chrome or Firefox on desktop or on phone
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6 years ago
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ItsmytimeI’ve had enough and I can’t take it any more
#1
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6 years ago
Thighs ain’t bad
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6 years ago
@NJBalla: “I think id see her twice a week is she danced.”
Well NJB, you may have to go West young man. Last night was in a room at a non extras club and girl did the move that starts at 13::22 on video of your initial post. Took her less than 2 sec to get in position and she held it in form that starts at 14:05 in the vid. But she did it sitting straight up on couch w back against the wall. Was super sexy.
I asked if she’d had sex in that position, she said yes but ankles get detached easy from behind head and so not easy to hold position during sex. I said lemme guess, that’s cuz guy is ramming you and not in rhythm to enable you to hold it. She said “exactly.”
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6 years ago
I think you're right PD that the allure is fast cash especially as to cash tips non-taxed.
As for the lack of "strong set of morals from the beginning," though I know a few dancers pretty well I don't know high number well enough to reach conclusions on that one. I know extras and non extras girls, and I know girls who work in TL clubs that will not work FN clubs even if FN clubs meant less travel and higher income. I'd be interested in your thoughts on what're the primary factors that govern decisions on extras versus non extras girls and girls who will work TL but not FN.
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6 years ago
Pedestrian.
Thanks for the info and that web link
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6 years ago
^Not staying overnight in TJ, that is.
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steeldog65I swear, it's just shrinkage due the cold
@jssully 63 said above the clubs in Boston suck.
That's true. There's 2 clubs in Boston. Centerfolds Boston is for alcohol and eye candy only - pretty girls and no mileage - if you're in Boston with no ability to travel it's worth it but for spectator purposes only. The adjacent FN club Glass Slipper is gross and gross girls.
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6 years ago
Every time I’ve been asked for a tip, it was preceded by subpar service.
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GeneraI All your base are belong to us.
Reminds me of Christopher Walken's character in Pulp Fiction:
"This watch. This watch was on your daddy’s wrist when he was shot down over Hanoi. He was captured, put in a Vietnamese prison camp. He knew if the gooks ever saw the watch it’d be confiscated, taken away. The way your dad looked at it, that watch was your birthright. He’d be damned if any slopes were gonna put their greasy yellow hands on his boy’s birthright. So he hid it in the one place he knew he could hide something. His ass. Five long years, he wore this watch up his ass. Then he died of dysentery, he gave me the watch. I hid this uncomfortable hunk of metal up my ass two years. Then, after seven years, I was sent home to my family. And now, little man, I give the watch to you."
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6 years ago
^LOL
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6 years ago
-->"get his plate number; run it through the dmv"
Ever heard of Rebecca Schaeffer? I hadn't until someone told me. Actress murdered by stalker in West Hollywood in 1989 who got her address from DMV. 5 years later federal law banned general public from getting addresses through DMV but there's plenty of exceptions and you know anyone with access to law enforcement or PI databases it's pretty easy to get.
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6 years ago
Based on me getting a whiff of cigarette scent on skin or breath during dances, my guess is about 70% smoke cigs.
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flagoonerEverything written by this member is a fact.
-->"what would you propose we do about illegal Immigration"
Adopt sensible migrant worker visa programs in industries where labor is in short supply (agriculture definitely, don't know enough about other industries to comment) in the hope of disincentiving illegal crossings and overstays.
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6 years ago
But I think you're right PSD that most customers and regulars "are going to eventually find some tiny pea under a stack of 20 mattresses." And the peas will likely include the customer seeking higher mileage than the dancer's boundaries ITC, the customer wanting OTC and the dancer declining it, and the customer getting bored or seeking variety.
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6 years ago
Stripping is a mix of retail business and service business. Retail in that the dance and room costs are what they are per club pricing, and retail as to extras where the girl gets to set and maintain the prices at the level she chooses. Service in that if the girl is looking to develop and maintain a regular, or working it to sell more dances to new customer, there's most definitely a service component. So to me PSD's Shell gas station retail analogy falls short except as to the dancer who can and does make her living at retail only.
When I'm a regular to a dancer, I don't try to pay her less over time and I don't tip less over course of time where there's sustained excellent service - in other words, I don't seek discount on retail or services. I do like the benefits that accompany being a decent regular, which for my faves tends to include mileage getting better over course of time, experience getting better or at least not dropping, and her hanging out a bit before we do dances or room - and, if benefits decrease then I have and will move on.
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6 years ago
Ya, the don't be an asshole, don't be a little bitch article is an excellent strip club PL behavior Cliff Notes, and if you haven't seen it TimJo, here it is: https://www.tuscl.net/article.php5?id=49689.
My personal MO is:
1. If I know upon her approach that I'm not attracted and not gonna get dances, it's a polite no thank you and if she persists it's more polite no thank yous and that does the trick 90%+ of the time. I'm not gonna waste her time and I'm not gonna let her waste mine.
2. If upon her approach I've got some level of interest but not certain I'm into her for getting dances, I let it play out for 5 minutes of chit chat while reaching my own conclusion. This doesn't happen often because I'm typically pretty sure re dances or not upon approach. If my decision is no, it's still a polite and some form of: it was nice to meet you, you're adorable but I'm not gonna get dances and I don't be a time waster for you. Since this happens so infrequently, I can't remember if I've ever tipped out minor $ for the 5 min spent but I'm not opposed to it.
3. I never use "I'm waiting for someone else" as pretext to get her to go away, and say it only if I'm actually waiting for someone else. There's lots of lying going on in SCs but I'm disinclined to be the one doing the lying. Using the I'm waiting for someone else lie could result in the rejected dancer telling other dancers hey that guy's a douchebag liar and I don't want that label because who knows those other dancers could be future CF candidates.
The one I struggle with (though it's pretty rare) is the girl who jumps in my lap uninvited - for me, no thank you is so much easier when the girl is standing or seated next to me and I haven't developed the perfect polite response for no thank you and please depart my lap. Who knows, maybe some dancers on this forum will say hey, good strategy to jump in lap uninvited cuz some PLs have a hard time dismissing such tactics.
My MO #s 1 and 2 sometimes result in an obnoxious dancer response, but it's rare. Occasionally I'll get the passive aggressive dancer response but dealing with that one is addressed in the no asshole / no bitch article. One time - despite my politeness - the dancer response was: "I don't need you I'm a successful dancer and I've already made $800 tonight." I found that humorous.