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6 years ago
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founderslip a dollar in her g-string for me
-->@Papi: "Yes it would be interesting to eavesdrop on the dancer section but pretty-good chance some of those comments would subsequently be flamed in the custy section."
Unfortunate, but true. Oh well.
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6 years ago
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founderslip a dollar in her g-string for me
@Warrior and @founder - yes, that would be outstanding for non-dancer VIP males to be able to eavesdrop in the Dressing Room without ability to post. Yes I get it that it might cause dancers to self moderate a tad, but still, it would be nice...
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6 years ago
@Papi: “Custies often get compliments, it's part of the salesmanship ("wow you have a big dick")”
This one cracks me up every time due to the SS nature of it. And by far majority of times its been said to me has been by AA dancers.
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6 years ago
Outstanding. Keep em coming jackslash
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6 years ago
Lots of good responses here.
@GMD: +1 for accuracy as to what he’s “heard” or experienced
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6 years ago
Pats to win it all at 9:1? For $20, sure, for the heck of it with little at risk. For $200, nah, I hate losing money.
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6 years ago
-->@DC: "If guys here don't like being called mongers, how do you think sex workers feel about being called whores?"
Good point
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6 years ago
^Correcting my error. Michael Scott version would be" World's Best Verified Monger
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6 years ago
^Or, the Michael Scott version: Best Verified Monger Ever
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6 years ago
-->@CJKent: "Do not drink, you are in unknown territory and need to be stone cold sober to deal with any situation and enjoy and remember all the nice things you will have access to."
To each their own of course, but for me clubbing and an alcohol buzz go together. Best to not get shitfaced, Mexico or elsewhere, but to me drinking makes clubbing makes more fun and is why I don't typically hit FN clubs in USA in states where FN is juice only unless I have some drinks before entry
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6 years ago
Hey founder, your user page says you joined in Jan 1994. Next month is your 25th birthday. Happy Birthday you pervert!
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6 years ago
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founderslip a dollar in her g-string for me
@founder - light moderation would be a welcome thing to achieve your stated goals to "increase the stripper participation and quiet the trolls." That'd be preference as alternative to your idea of creating a ""verified member" discussion board" and at same time keep board open to all who don't merit the light moderation.
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6 years ago
And the no's have it.
No way. Had the opportunity and purposefully stayed away from that club that night.
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6 years ago
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aham5I've got a bad feeling about this.
Tipping bouncer to recommend a girl to send over in a club I've never been to? Nope. I don't see the upside - I'll find for myself the girl I want instead of relying on recommendations from a bouncer I've never met. I've never had to tip a bouncer to get a table, but if I was dying for one and there weren't any available I suppose I would.
Tipping bouncers at a club where I'm a regular (and I know that's not OP's question). You bet - bouncers and door guys I'm friendly with - all the time, and the tipping has its perks (no license scan, waved in with no cover charge, looking the other way during VIP chair dances, no surveillance in closed rooms, and extended time in rooms). Win-win.
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6 years ago
This is all just BS and I shouldn't have fallen for it. New member, no reviews, and this discussion post is user's first ever post.
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6 years ago
If what @JeffTUSCL describes is accurate - and, I don't doubt its accuracy, I just have no point of reference - that's just truly tragic.
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6 years ago
This has to be BS. Dude refuses to tip cocktail waitresses, but without objection he pays 2x room cost when manager doubles it from $150 to $300 per hour. Ya right.
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6 years ago
-->@rickdugan: "But nothing good ever comes from getting too sucked into stripper's lives, regardless of your circumstances."
Based on one of her recent discussion topics, strippercutie404 may get all bent out of shape about the truth of this statement.
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6 years ago
-->@rickdugan: "Similarly, if she is out of your league due to an age difference or other factors, yet she chooses to date you anyway, you should assume that there is a financial element to her motives. Wealthy guys still get hot young wives for a reason."
That's for damn sure. Was in Beverly Hills a few weeks ago and the restaurants and shops were loaded with real life examples of this.
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6 years ago
-->@DC9428: "We have several people on here who have dated dancers and most of them agree that starting out as a customer is actually the best route to go if you're trying to do that. Some of them don't want to date dancers anymore, but most of them started out as P4P and then became real. Examples of guys who've done this would be, Countryman, Subraman, GACA, Juicebox, and Shailynn for example."
^Of course, spending $ on a stripper first ITC is good method of getting them OTC for sex - dating or not dating. What you might not be taking into account here is the OP's talk of the custy and the dancer catching reciprocal feelings. These Masters of the Universe you've cited here - my reading is they're getting OTC sex and having a blast doing it with fun girls they like, but not necessarily getting all caught up in feelings as per OP post - but perhaps I just haven't read their posts closely enough.
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6 years ago
So far the responses seem to be advice or observations without the back"stories" or history the original post seems to be soliciting.
No stories here either, but my takes are:
--Being a paying customer is a huge strike against you for her developing reciprocal feelings - once a custy, almost always just a custy. (Ever tried to ask a dancer out for civvie date? Even inclined to say yes, before you get your answer, you'll probably first get the question: "Will you still spend $ in club?") No idea who on this board coined the phrase "Strip clubs are not girlfriend factories," but whoever did is highly insightful or experienced or both.
--Increasing spending ITC with goal of increasing chance of her developing feelings is total waste of $.
--If you're seeing her OTC for $ and not just ITC, there's a chance of developing FWB OTC for no $ (as in drinks and dinner etc. but no cash $ or gifts), but don't count on it. And don't count on her catching feelings even if she finds you fun to hang out with or if you're FWB OTC.
--Call.Me.Ishmael is spot on here: "Most dancers can find "funny dudes" who aren't customers."
And, agree with Che that: rare occasion of stipper and custy making a connection with reciprocal feelings "isn’t ever going to be dependent on following a set of guidelines on how you should act."
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6 years ago
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founderslip a dollar in her g-string for me
B - enlarge. Unanimous winner. Like it used to be before a few days ago
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6 years ago
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CristobalI give in to sin because you have to make this life livable
—>@LDK82: “I believe that a quick walk-by touch would be acceptable.”
^This and make eye contact is exactly what I do