Comments by PeterEaster (page 4)

"Just don’t let the feeling cause you to spend more $$$ on the dancers." Too late! lol

"98% of what dancers tell us to make us feel good is bullshit that usually newbs or hopeless-romantics buy" Good thing TUSCLers are the 1% ;)

Same as SirLapdancealot

Although I prefer natural, the newer fake titties can feel quite nice.

"To get extras, you preferably need to be with an extras girl at an extras club." Truer words were never spoken.

"at what point do you get some cred as a regular?" A dancer may or may not remember you after one visit. After the second visit, she will likely seek you out the next time you're in the club. After the third visit, she will likely consider you a regular. If DFK is gonna happen, it should happen by then. You may be able to speed up the process if you have time for an extended stay, by breaking up your dances. Get some dances, take a break, chat, have a drink, etc., then get some more dances, rinse, repeat, maybe ending up with a VIP. Just my random thoughts.

"They tried to get more dances after the 1st but I said no." With a dancer that's new to you, generally the first dance is more of a feeling each other out (figuratively and literally) and getting a good rapport going. As you get more comfortable with each other, the follow-on dances should get better.

"My goal was to get front room DFK or backroom DFK as San Jose Guy recommends but was shot down by "let's see where it goes" and "I'd get fired". LOL. Probably the typical dancer reaction to any PL trying to use SJG's system. Either that, or "SECURITY!" lol Don't know about getting fired, but depending on how strict the club is, she might get fined, or at the very least, yelled at by a manager/bouncer.

"I needed a chisel to dislodge them!" Ah, yeah, I don't really want to pick up anything off the floor of a SC, especially in VIP, lol

Gisele has never done anything for me, I just don't find her very attractive.

If I'm heading to the club, then I only eat the green ones, lol https://www.snopes.com/risque/aphrodisiacs/mandms.asp

I assume PAWG = Phat Ass White Girl? Back in my day, we would've called them a Whooty - White girl with a booty, lol

@mdb2203 - Sounds good. Seems like this board can get rough at times, glad you're taking it in stride.

As she passes to collect her $1 tip, she leans over, and chastely kisses you on the cheek. That's when you know, dude

I envy your guys that have lots of available strip club possibilities nearby. Sometimes a chump's game is (literally) the only game in town.

"To me, at least, this conversation is about: when a stripper puts on a lapdance performance, what do you like?" And I think the more successful strippers are pretty good at picking up on what customers like and adapting accordingly. "I do NOT particularly like her facing away from me and grinding on my dick; I do like her facing me and doing some nuzzling." Same for me, and if a dancer picks up on this, she will get more dances from me and likely become a fav. So some self-selection/sorting is going on with customers and dancers.

Didn’t Bob Kraft start dating some young hottie after his wife died?

@ Paul Drake - I do this all the time, and not just in the lap dance room. I'll gently touch/stroke a dancer's neck, shoulders, ears, face, & hair while sitting with her on the main floor, never had a issue. Some dancers tell me it's very relaxing, but they also say I have really soft hands. (Maybe you have rough hands from all that gumshoeing you do?) I can only really think of one time a dancer pushed my hand away from her neck - maybe she thought I was trying to choke her?

"Do they have Asian Norwegian chicks?" Yes, the Laplanders...

I would expect her to remember me by sight, and to come over when I came in. I think dancers meet so many customers over a week's time, I wouldn't expect her to remember my name, but it would be a nice touch if she did.

Knew a dancer that was a dead ringer for Tiger Woods ex-wife. She was Norwegian wasn't she? Or maybe Swedish?

I'll echo what Papi and Subraman said about making your interest known when she goes on stage. At my local club there are several dancers that I don't get dances from, but they will still come and sit with me when I'm there. They say they enjoy talking to me* and know I'll buy them drinks and maybe slip them some cash for their time if they stay awhile. Really it's just another form of taking a break. If another customer expresses interest during her stage set, she'll come by my table, excuse herself, and go to him. *I used to think it was because I'm so charming, but know I find out I'm just club furniture, lol