I had just sat down at a table in the club when two dancers came over all excited and said, "We were just talking about you!" Now, I'd gotten dances and spent time with each dancer separately, but I don't recall seeing both of them in the club at the same time before, and I had no idea they were BFFs. One dancer then explained that they were talking about their favorite customers, and she started describing me to her friend (what I drink, how I dress, what I like to talk about, etc.) and the second dancer said, "OMG, I know him." Apparently right after this conversation I actually walked in, which is why they were all giddy when they came over.
I had a similar thing happen with two dancers in my old club, so that's two instances that I know of. How about your experiences?
Long, long ago in a land far away, a beautiful girl wished on a falling star that she may go to a ball the the Prince was having. When magically appeared her very own fairy godmother, she granted Cinderella her wish and sent Cinderella to the ball in a beautiful blue dress with crystal slippers, a glorious carriage with 6 white horses and 2 handsome coachmen. She had one warning for Cinderella, she said " Cinderella, you have to be home by midnight, That is when my magic spell will be broken. Oh and one more thing, I have put a curse on you if you do not return home by the appointed hour your pussy will turn into a pumpkin." "Ok" said Cinderella. And off she went to the ball. The fairy godmother waited and waited and waited but Cinderella did not come home by midnight, she didn't return until 9am the next morning. The fairy godmother asked her "where were you? You knew that you had to be home by midnight" Cinderella replied, "I met a man.....his name is Peter-Peter"
Yeah - all co-worker in any work-place talk and form cliques - but what dancers say to you and what they say to each other are often different things - in my professional PL-opinion they were yanking your PL-chain - dancers referring amongst each other w.r.t. a good customer usually means he's an easy-mark - 98% of what dancers tell us to make us feel good is bullshit that usually newbs or hopeless-romantics buy.
It must have been a good feeling - when the dancers told you about their conversation. I’d enjoy the feeling.
It could be SS. It’s probably a combination of truth and SS. I only say it’s SS as I think most of what’s said itc is done to separate us from our money.
Enjoy the feeling of being a popular customer. Just don’t let the feeling cause you to spend more $$$ on the dancers.
PeterEaster - no worries. It’s a learning process, as those techniques can be quite effective! You feel like a popular guy - two hot dancers chatting you up - and then your wallet is a lot lighter than you expected it to be...
I enjoy when they talk about me. I love when one of them messages me. That was the best thing, to get a girl messaging you occasionally...of course its usually, "I'm bored, why don't you come play with me?" I let them make small talk and then I usually tell them to convince me and get them to take pictures which is fun and I like having the pics to look at.
Taxi_driver - I agree. I wasn’t saying there was any ROB behavior. Its a good feeling, and with two dancers, a customer is more inclined to spend more. If they are sitting with you - and one wants a drink - you can’t buy a drink for just one dancer...
When buying dances - do you buy from just one dancer? So there are multiple ways to spend more when you have two dancers sitting there - talking you up - and looking sexy.
Taxi_driver - I see your strategy. That works well for you. Based on dance pricing - it can help in giving you a good set of dancers for spreading your dance money around.
When two dancers are around - I find it difficult to relax. It just seems easier to get taken for a lot more money. I don’t mind spending. I just don’t like getting hit with paying more than double after a few dances. It’s my own issue - as I’m not very trusting.
I had a similiar experience to yours once. I walked into a club I patronized once or twice a month, back before I was laid off/retired, and in which I had a couple of favorites. One of them walked over to greet me as she always did and said “Meagan and I were just talking about you”. I must have looked shocked or surprised because she immediately said “Nothing bad, you are one of our best customers.” I got my usual great dance and then continued with Meagan. She pretty told me the same thing and asked if the first dancer had told me they were talking about me. I said yes and asked if they talked about customers a lot. She said only the good ones, like me, and the bad ones and pointed to another customer. She then told me that the dancers often texted each other about customers while the dancers were in the club. I had an even better dance with Meagan after the conversation. On occasion, I have had other dancers tell me that they talked about me with other dancers, or had dancers that said other dancers told them that I was a good customer. Not sure if it got me any more than I would have gotten otherwise though. Now that I don’t go clubbing as often, this doesn’t happen.
I assume dancers do talk. But remember that dancers are often competitive if not cutthroat. A more savvy stripper won't share that a potential regular is a good customer to other strippers unless she strikes out first with that customer (doesn't convert him to a regular). Until he's a long established regular, she might not disclose much at all about him. On the other hand, if the PL is a timewaster, she might tell her friends that, but she'll more than let other dancers waste their precious time on him freeing up other PLs for herself.
Yes. If they are friends, they will talk about customers and compare notes. I have been privy to such conversations whilst sitting with my ATF DS and any of her stripper friends comes up to chat for a while. They will confirm how he is during dances, if he is a cheapskate or big spender, and overall how good/bad of a customer he is. Sometimes it is a positive conversation. Sometimes it is negative. It depends on the customer. For some customers they will have a nickname for him. I'm sure I have one.
Yeah they talk about you. One dancer who I occasionally got dances with when most of my regular choices are not working, did a new a move that she never did before, but was done by quite a lot by one of my favorites, Ivy, at the start of my dance. Soon the dancer said, "Ivy was right that does get you hard quick." I told her I will have to thank Ivy the next time I see her.
Years ago this really hot looking black dancer, a spinner with a tight firm body and nearly perfect natural breasts, named Athena showed up in my favorite club at the time,. After observing her on stage and getting an idea on how well she worked the club, I asked her to stop by for a dance the next time she was on stage. When she got back to the table and sat down a bit she said, "wow I wasn't expecting you to ask me over. I was told not to bother, you don't get dances from black dancers." I told her that wasn't true, "I do, but until now none of the ones in this club have appealed to me." Athena was at the time one of the hottest dancers in Columbus, All the dancers who I rejected were either mostly overweight, with floppy saggy breasts and far too big asses, or had a major attitude problem, or were known ROBS.
Of course dancers talk about customers. What else are they going to talk about? Bitcoin and the stock market?
Many are more concerned with monthly bills.
On some past visits either I was the hottest new thing in the club or one time, I was undercover LE and everyone was careful around me and avoiding me. A couple dancers even hinted they knew I was undercover. They didn't know jack. I prefer to be the guy every dancer feels like they want to ask for a dance much better than to be thought of an undercover officer looking for something.
One time a dancer thought I was a porn star. Dancers are full of crazy ideas. I have it figured out though, in the future I believe time travel will be invented and then I will have the resources to time travel back into the past and visit strip clubs when they were better. Strippers seeing an older version of me will be confused thinking they just saw me and say all kinds of weird things to my younger self like weren't you just here yesterday etc?
Expanding on that time travel idea, if I sleep with a dancer but my younger self never did at the time, that will explain why so many dancers asked me, do you remember me? Of course my younger self will not. Sounds like a time question, would I have had sex with a dancer if she hadn't had sex with my younger self first? In the future I may time travel back and have sex with certain dancers for the first time before they had sex with my younger self. I guess it doesn't matter because some of my memories get fuzzy over time when you add alcohol to the mix.
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I might be on dancer's Amber Alert list - lol.
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Long, long ago in a land far away, a beautiful girl wished on a falling star that she may go to a ball the the Prince was having. When magically appeared her very own fairy godmother, she granted Cinderella her wish and sent Cinderella to the ball in a beautiful blue dress with crystal slippers, a glorious carriage with 6 white horses and 2 handsome coachmen. She had one warning for Cinderella, she said " Cinderella, you have to be home by midnight, That is when my magic spell will be broken. Oh and one more thing, I have put a curse on you if you do not return home by the appointed hour your pussy will turn into a pumpkin." "Ok" said Cinderella. And off she went to the ball. The fairy godmother waited and waited and waited but Cinderella did not come home by midnight, she didn't return until 9am the next morning. The fairy godmother asked her "where were you? You knew that you had to be home by midnight" Cinderella replied, "I met a man.....his name is Peter-Peter"
there is hope however. i am trying to think with my big head more.
Good thing TUSCLers are the 1% ;)
It could be SS. It’s probably a combination of truth and SS. I only say it’s SS as I think most of what’s said itc is done to separate us from our money.
Enjoy the feeling of being a popular customer. Just don’t let the feeling cause you to spend more $$$ on the dancers.
Too late! lol
i gotta do that next time.
When buying dances - do you buy from just one dancer? So there are multiple ways to spend more when you have two dancers sitting there - talking you up - and looking sexy.
When two dancers are around - I find it difficult to relax. It just seems easier to get taken for a lot more money. I don’t mind spending. I just don’t like getting hit with paying more than double after a few dances. It’s my own issue - as I’m not very trusting.
Years ago this really hot looking black dancer, a spinner with a tight firm body and nearly perfect natural breasts, named Athena showed up in my favorite club at the time,. After observing her on stage and getting an idea on how well she worked the club, I asked her to stop by for a dance the next time she was on stage. When she got back to the table and sat down a bit she said, "wow I wasn't expecting you to ask me over. I was told not to bother, you don't get dances from black dancers." I told her that wasn't true, "I do, but until now none of the ones in this club have appealed to me." Athena was at the time one of the hottest dancers in Columbus, All the dancers who I rejected were either mostly overweight, with floppy saggy breasts and far too big asses, or had a major attitude problem, or were known ROBS.
Many are more concerned with monthly bills.
On some past visits either I was the hottest new thing in the club or one time, I was undercover LE and everyone was careful around me and avoiding me. A couple dancers even hinted they knew I was undercover. They didn't know jack. I prefer to be the guy every dancer feels like they want to ask for a dance much better than to be thought of an undercover officer looking for something.
Why not? Those are good topics.