First time with a dancer. You spend a couple hours sitting and chatting with her, buy her drinks, tip her generously on stage, get multiple dances, she walks you to the door and gives you a hug when you leave.
When you return to the club a week later, do you expect her to remember your name?
I would expect her to remember me by sight, and to come over when I came in. I think dancers meet so many customers over a week's time, I wouldn't expect her to remember my name, but it would be a nice touch if she did.
I don't expect anyone ever to remember my name. But, if they do, they get a big smile from me...I of course will remember anyone's name that's worth it.
The vast majority of time they remember my name, because after we've done the full treatment that you mentioned, 80% of the time I got her number, sent her a thank you text right afterwards (that included my strip club name, plus some fun quirky detail of our time together), and then before I went the next time I texted her to let her know I was on my way, and when she looked at the text string, she saw my name there.
The other 20%, where I haven't primed the system by sending her a text beforehand -- I don't expect her to remember my name. But I am incredibly shocked and impressed how many do. Again, keep in mind I usually do slow dayshifts, so it's not like a busy nightshift girl who has literally run into scores of guys in the intervening time
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Andrew Jackson
I’ve had dancers act annoyed when I don’t recall their names. They seem to perk up nicely when they get a peek at my wad (of cash!)
The other 20%, where I haven't primed the system by sending her a text beforehand -- I don't expect her to remember my name. But I am incredibly shocked and impressed how many do. Again, keep in mind I usually do slow dayshifts, so it's not like a busy nightshift girl who has literally run into scores of guys in the intervening time
I go by George, occasionally Abe.