Comments by lick-that (page 9)

Ok this is more embarrassing. Fucking in the club, she's bent over, my pants around my ankles. Finish, leave get halfway home, cash cards ID GONE from my pocket. Got robbed while she was bent over in my pockets. @ Upright. Ive seen a PL do something like that once, everyone there felt sorry for the dude. @Jack. Man, Pussy should be a controlled substance..SMH

@Joc13 That's the saddest thing I've heard in a while. Hope you never do that again

Hahaha. I'm with you tonight bro, cold as Fuck in NY Metro

If you're sitting at the bar you should tip, period. I tip at least $2 so my sympathy tip is a buck.

@Burl I hear you. We've all been there

Don't mind kissing, its when they're at work doing it with others I have a problem with.

@Ishmael +100

Only OTC after she's showered, if we're coming from the club. Same reason I don't suck nipples ITC also, no way you're the only one doing it, and I have no interest in my mouth being where other PL's have been.

@ Burlington. Good one. I Wish a Bitch would... try my phone with that? I'd use every single condom on her. She can use the wipes and mouthwash when I'm done.

$4-40-400-4000 it doesn't matter. Also at 5am?? WTF?? And she has someone with her you've never laid eyes on? You're lucky you're still with us and not the subject of a far grimmer thread. You just took your life into your own hands in a huge way, and for what? The HOPE of "better" treatment somewhere down the road with a Bitch you may never see again? Aren't you paying her for this ITC anyway? Don't let it happen again son...

Agree with Shailyn Also it depends on the time of day and circumstance. If its straight from the club late night, of course its dump n go. A date now, maybe we'll do more, spend more time. Regular chick, well you already know her and what to expect. I don't believe in prolonging a P4P situation though. If she can't move to the regular friend column, see ya. I'm just interested in trying them out, not becoming her regular ATM.

NJ & PHL not really. Clubs are kinda busy certain days, but the girls all complaining about guys not spending money. More people, not more money in the clubs. Prices...can't really say. OTC hasn't gone up, ITC not really my thing, but LD rooms where I go have crept up slightly. Girls are willing to deal though, so its not a sellers market by any stretch.

I know I'm dating one now. Let me tell you, dating just a stripper might be easier and less work. IG warps their perception of reality. Come to think everyone is wants them and is falling over themselves to get at her. Don't waste your time DMing. Whatever you can come up with, a 1k other dudes are in her DM with the same line. She is under 100k followers..

What you said was on point. Its a really co-dependent dysfunctional dynamic. That's why I take with a grain of salt many of tales of mongers about bad dealings with dancers, bc both low-life dancers and shady customers contribute feed of each other.

Aw Crap, it was this wind? I'd seen the billboard on Route 1, but I was away this wknd. Sounds like you enjoyed it enough for the both of us. Alexis Texas.... nothing more to say!!! I agree with you wholeheartedly about Strip Clubs and the scum of the earth who work/ manage there. If it wasn't for the ladies I would never set foot back in another one. Low-life's All around. Sorry, but that also goes for many of the customers also. One of the reasons it has always been my MO to take a break from the life from time to time. You really get to hate the people including strippers in general, only so much BS you can take before it becomes overwhelming.

Only when I would go with my GF who would bring over who she's attracted to. Your scenario, I would use my Fav line, "Where do I know you from".

Goop points Anonlvone. I would just play my position and dog her out for all my moneys worth.

Meant @ Dadillac That is some story. Serious money invested there bro to end up like that. Must have been hard.

@Houjack & Mdfmk888 Agree completely. Whatever works for you bro. Time, or jump back in, up to you. Hate to quote TLC but don't go chasing waterfalls..maybe stick with her and dog her out to get all you can get, and get her out your system. @. Wow! That's a tale brother. Must have eaten at you for a while, you should be totally cold now.

Idk about the $900 for $1k thing, that's just stupid. Never seen that before, but most people I know would laugh in that managers face, so that's kinda suspect. Sounds like journalistic liberty to me, in order to skew the story. But let me tell you this, the make it rain clubs I've been to, Mia mostly, the guys starting the "Shower", are there with the girls, the girls work for them. They're getting that $$ back so ease up on the judgment. That show is to get the ball players and celebrities and wannabes to do likewise and follow suit. And that is first hand info knowing the guys and dancers personally. Now a lot of fools follow the trend and do it to look like a boss, but they're the idiots you speak of.

Skibum put it quite well. Jives with my own exp as well, I have dated 2 girls who danced seriously. 1 I met in the SC. Both of them had family/abuse issues. Both had dysfunction issues growing up and carried into adulthood. Neither had serious drug or alcohol abuse though. Both had friends or family in the biz prior, so I also got to know them as well. Both were however true Gems, diamonds in the rough who maintained their humanity throughout their dance careers. @Sir LD agree up to the point about us PLs and prostitutes. I personally would never, especially the streetwalker variety, though I know guys who used to do that after the SC. Our switch is somewhat different, after all it's not what we do for a living, though it can have life changing consequences also.

Wow. The $1k question is.. did you respond, and if so lets hear it. Any takers with suggestions?

Idk. I usually don't believe em when they hit me with that "Oh I just started dancing line". Heard it too many times. Even when they look uncomfortable undressed I don't believe it. Most don't just show up to dance, they've been around it a while in some way, before taking the full plunge. I believe in virgins as much as I believe in fairies

@ Burl & Cash Fully agree about the experienced thing. If you wanted a good-girl you shouldn't be in the SC anyway. GFE doesn't mean she's your GF. PPWH makes a whole scale with diff levels, I'm not sure if he's being facetious, but sex work is sex work. The same as a SC bartender feeling superior to a stripper, b@%ch you work in a strip club, it's all in your own head! I love a slut. Experienced sluts also.

Wow, a loaded question. Don't forget about OTC esp this time of month, and the BF/BD/SD/side dude all the above. Wrap it up guys. Def no DATY.