Someone bringing a dancer to me unsolicited or w/o asking - whether it's a custy/wingman, a staff-person, or another dancer - I like to pick out my own dancer on my own time w/o sorta being put on the spot similar to the "wanna buy the lady a drink" shit - I don't like being brought a dancer w/o asking me and me then having to tell the dancer I am not interested.
I was at a black-dive on Wed eve where most of the brothers don't buy a dance even if their lives depended on it (just the way it is at that club and similar clubs I hit) - anyway anyone buying dances sorta gets a bullseye on them.
Got some dances from a light-skinned AA after having gotten several dances from two other AAs (was pretty-much the only custy buying dances at the time w/ everyone else basically being spectators/hanger-outers which is common at the dives I hit) - as soon as I'm done w/ this light-skinned dancer she immediately comes-back to me w/ her buddy for her dancer-buddy to get her$, w/o having the courtesy to even ask me first; she just points at me w/o saying anything sorta like saying "here dancer-buddy; here's the ATM" - turned down her dancer-buddy b/c although cute she was not my type as I don't go for "cute" but go for the thick/voluptuous monsters.
What say you - does it bother you when anyone (custy, staff, other dancer) brings you a dancer unsolicited w/o you ever asking nor them asking you?


Only when I would go with my GF who would bring over who she's attracted to. Your scenario, I would use my Fav line, "Where do I know you from".