One of my pet-peeves
Papi_Chulo
Miami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
Someone bringing a dancer to me unsolicited or w/o asking - whether it's a custy/wingman, a staff-person, or another dancer - I like to pick out my own dancer on my own time w/o sorta being put on the spot similar to the "wanna buy the lady a drink" shit - I don't like being brought a dancer w/o asking me and me then having to tell the dancer I am not interested.
I was at a black-dive on Wed eve where most of the brothers don't buy a dance even if their lives depended on it (just the way it is at that club and similar clubs I hit) - anyway anyone buying dances sorta gets a bullseye on them.
Got some dances from a light-skinned AA after having gotten several dances from two other AAs (was pretty-much the only custy buying dances at the time w/ everyone else basically being spectators/hanger-outers which is common at the dives I hit) - as soon as I'm done w/ this light-skinned dancer she immediately comes-back to me w/ her buddy for her dancer-buddy to get her$, w/o having the courtesy to even ask me first; she just points at me w/o saying anything sorta like saying "here dancer-buddy; here's the ATM" - turned down her dancer-buddy b/c although cute she was not my type as I don't go for "cute" but go for the thick/voluptuous monsters.
What say you - does it bother you when anyone (custy, staff, other dancer) brings you a dancer unsolicited w/o you ever asking nor them asking you?
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A direct hand-off like you described sounds awkward... Only once can I say that I have encountered it. A dancer that I generally like was trying to interest me in giving a new girl a chance, even asking if she could "go get her for me"
Once, a bouncer kind of came to the rescue by bringing a dancer over without asking me first. A different dancer had sat down next to me and I bought her a drink. Then left her purse to mark my table as her territory and she went over to go talk to some other guys who had just walked in, carrying the drink with her.
The bouncer walked up with a dancer I found far more appealing than the one I had just bought the drink for, and he introduced us. I took the one he introduced straight for lap dances without even talking to her first (which wouldn't have been possible to gracefully execute without stripper-on-stripper drama under the circumstances)
I don’t appreciate it when attention is drawn to me - and the thought I am spending. Whether it’s other dancers or customers - as there are some rob dancers - and some customers might be down on their luck and I’m now the one with cash.
I use to go to this dive in North Carolina that was mostly a black club and I would notice that
I wonder if the first dancer (the one who gets it going) gets a cut of the dud’s money?
After about 20 minutes a fugly girl in basically pajamas approached the other dancer from behind and then gave her a big hug. The hot dancer turned around and then excitedly introduced me to "her bestie". The friend immediately started chatting at me like a schoolgirl and then asked if I was going to buy her a drink, at which point I excused myself and moved to a different club where I had an awesome time.
The hot dancer and I message on IG now and we'll visit next time I'm in town.
My biggest pet-peeve is when they ask you for a drink and the mother-fucker hasn't even danced for you yet. I can't stand that shit. Or when she is dancing and then she orders a drink and when the waitress comes back with the drink, she (waitress) looks at you like your fucking stupid.