Earned my Mobile ATM star

Her driver = her boyfriend or pimp

$40 you paid for diapers = $40 she can spend on drugs instead

I am not criticizing. I have bought strippers all kinds of crap like this.

$40? Sounds like a CBJ to me.

Also, he HAND-delivered the money, if you gentlemen catch my drift.

The dancers who have my number know better than to try this with me.

Ditto on what Gamma number said.
Let her earn it.

It's a slippery slope, often times it starts small and next thing you know they are asking for the whole rent $$$ b/c after all you wouldn't want her and her baby homeless would you.

Most ot us like to help people, the problem with helping many a strippers is:

1) you can't really help them, no matter how much $$$ you throw at the problem they are often in the same predicament, so one ie not really fixing anything

2) they lie - you will never be sure if her requests are legit or her wanting $$$ to party, get a new handbag, or take her BF to a nice dinner for his birtday

Yeah I presume she was simultaneously texting other more gullible PLs to send cash to cover other things. I mainly agreed for my own amusement, and some small chance she will treat me well if I cross paths in the club again. At least it is a step above giving money to a panhandler in the roadway median.

Guys, it's no different than tipping her on-stage: you don't get a CBJ for a stage tip, do you? It's $40. I mean if it were 400 or 4,000, that would be something else.

> At least it is a step above giving money to a panhandler in the roadway median.

In what sense?

^ LOL

1. When I read the headline, my immediate thought was that you'd gotten ass-to-mouth in a car. I'm not sure if I'm disappointed or relieved you meant automatic teller machine.

2. Tough crowd, man! $40 is chump change for most of us, so if it works out for you, great. Like many of the guys above, I might have handled it differently -- even though $40 isn't a ton of money, I'm still not particularly inclined to give away money for free to strippers, "her driver" = "her boyfriend" and I'm not at all interested in any interaction there, and damn, at 5am I'm not about to do anything other than concentrate on softening my morning wood so I can go pee, much less check up on my stripper to see what she's spending her money on :) But again, if this was a mistake, it's a relatively cheap one on your part.

My CF told me she needed $30 before leaving. I said, sure, let's go. I gave her the $30 bucks after 2 dances, a $10 tip. She was appreciative too.

I wouldn't be surprised if she returned the diapers and wipes for a cash refund.

Subra is right, it strikes me as funny as a stripper asked for $40 and everyone on here is going batsht crazy. You know how many times I’ve blown way more than $40 on shit I can’t even remember?

The main issue would be the inconvenience of the drive to Walmart. As long as this isn’t a weekly habit for the OP small things like this could create some good will with the stripper which may pay off down the road.

The most I ever bought outside the club (drinks inside) for a dancer was a box of band-aides. She (my ATF) had blisters so left the club, bought some and brought them back.

For me it's not the $40 - it's the setting of a precedent and the escalation after that where every time she needs or wants $$$ she'll go to old-reliable

A stripper once texted me and asked if I could pick up some mouthwash, condoms, baby wipes, and a cup of coffee and bring them to the club. And I did it. I'm a sucke...er, I mean, team player. We all need to pitch in to keep these girls happy and they'll continue keeping us happy.

I'm a cheap bastard, to me it's about both the precedent and the $40.

It’s all good with the way you handled things. Who knows what she did with the shit you bought. You took the extra step to actually verify your money was being spent on what she said it would be.

Funny that her bf drove her there. Maybe her license is suspended? I’d expect her bf to be fast asleep at 5am.

It’s $40 so it’s no loss. Maybe the precedent isn’t good - but it’s not as if you wired the money to her - and never found what it went to.

$4-40-400-4000 it doesn't matter. Also at 5am?? WTF?? And she has someone with her you've never laid eyes on?
You're lucky you're still with us and not the subject of a far grimmer thread. You just took your life into your own hands in a huge way, and for what? The HOPE of "better" treatment somewhere down the road with a Bitch you may never see again? Aren't you paying her for this ITC anyway?
Don't let it happen again son...

@ Burlington. Good one.

I Wish a Bitch would... try my phone with that? I'd use every single condom on her. She can use the wipes and mouthwash when I'm done.

@lick-that,

I really was a total bitch for that girl. It was pathetic. Basically followed her around like a whipped little puppy. She was a total extras slob, too, but I really liked her nonetheless. Come to think of it, her being a total slut was one of the reasons why I liked her. I think she moved to Vegas, got married, and had a kid a few years ago. Probably doesn't give me or any of the other PLs from her past a second thought nowadays.

@Burl
I hear you. We've all been there