Hustled Again
jackslash
Detroit strip clubs
I arrived at the club at 6:45 and sat at a small table beside the stage. An old fav was on stage dancing, and she saw me and came over to talk. She told me how glad she was to see me and asked me to buy her a drink.
As soon as she got off stage she sat down with me and acted very affection. Her shift ended at 7PM, and she asked to borrow $50 to pay the club so she could stay later with me. She said she would take the $50 off our VIP fun. I was hesitant (Never Pay in Advance), but I have known this girl for years and have had her both ITC and OTC. What could go wrong?
Off she goes to pay the club. I watch the 7 o'clock review, where all the dancers go on stage, and wait for Bambi to return. And wait. And wait. About 7:25 I text her:
Me: You still here?
Bambi: They won’t let me work over. What are you doing tonight? Do you maybe want me to come over later?
Me: Come see me. So if you're not working over you don't need the $50 I gave you
Bambi: I tipped the dj and Housemom. Was gonna use it for staying over. I want to come over when you want me to.
Me: Can we talk [I wanted a conversation face to face about what was happening)
Bambi: I'm heading out. Are you gonna b home later?
This made no sense. Bambi lives far from the club and not in the direction of my house. Where was she going rather than staying with me?
Needless to say, Bambi did not come to my house. I'm surprised at how easily she hustled me out of $50.
As soon as she got off stage she sat down with me and acted very affection. Her shift ended at 7PM, and she asked to borrow $50 to pay the club so she could stay later with me. She said she would take the $50 off our VIP fun. I was hesitant (Never Pay in Advance), but I have known this girl for years and have had her both ITC and OTC. What could go wrong?
Off she goes to pay the club. I watch the 7 o'clock review, where all the dancers go on stage, and wait for Bambi to return. And wait. And wait. About 7:25 I text her:
Me: You still here?
Bambi: They won’t let me work over. What are you doing tonight? Do you maybe want me to come over later?
Me: Come see me. So if you're not working over you don't need the $50 I gave you
Bambi: I tipped the dj and Housemom. Was gonna use it for staying over. I want to come over when you want me to.
Me: Can we talk [I wanted a conversation face to face about what was happening)
Bambi: I'm heading out. Are you gonna b home later?
This made no sense. Bambi lives far from the club and not in the direction of my house. Where was she going rather than staying with me?
Needless to say, Bambi did not come to my house. I'm surprised at how easily she hustled me out of $50.
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Well, I would just discount the $50 off her next VIP session because you know you’re gonna see her again.
You got off easy...
I used to expect my ATF to keep dates but she'd break about half of them, and half the time never even tell me. That's par for the course with dancers.
From a biological perspective, that's not true.
It sounds like she had an otc setup already - and you were going to be her second otc of the night. She got your $50 for her payout - and she was off to make more $$$ otc nearby. She then was going to stop over - enjoy some lasagna - and otc...
I sometimes can be convinced to front house fees and early departure fees too for girls who I've had history with (generally $40-50 is my limit) and who say that they'd like to leave the club with me for our normal price. While it works out most of the time, every so often I get burned. C'est la vie. It's a relatively cheap way to learn that a girl who I fucked before has become unreliable and that my spending would be better directed elsewhere.
It happens. $50 is a low teaching-moment fee.
If a girl who has earned a lot of money from me in the past for good performance wants to con me for a lousy $50, then may she go with God, but she won't be going anywhere with me again. I don't see the teaching moment in that because I will likely do it again - most times without a serious problem.
Based on what you shared it seems like she was asking you if she could come over but you wanted to "talk" instead.
You didn't answer her question. I would have said yes I'd like you to come over what time will you be there ? Since you didn't answer she may have assumed that OTC with you was not in the cards that nite and she blew you off figuring that you wouldn't mind giving her $50 for at least offering you OTC - or maybe thinking she would be extra friendly ITC next time she sees you - yes that is stripper logic.
As far as her "heading out" maybe she was going to grab a bite or a drink or maybe had another OTC date. Who knows??
The point is that her question on whether or not to she could "come over" was never answered.
Only the stripper gods know the real answer as to why she went awol, but if she was willing to run a scam on you for $50 I suspect she has other bigger fish to fry and isn't too concerned about riding your bone any time soon. If you do get back on that horse remind her that you will be withholding $50 - if she balks you are definitely being played. cut off all ties immediately if that plays out. Delete her phone # in her presence and forget her name. There are too many others to have fun with who are Just as good as Bambi
Also, As noted previously, IF you only lost $50 to a ROB you got off pretty cheap. Count your blessings
Number two...your known to fuck strippers weekly for $500...your known to club at the highest scale of Club in Michigan....your known for flying to Europe and doing FKK clubs....so punting off $50 should feel like fifty cents to you....I regularly punt off staxs of $100 likes it's $1....what gives ?
Don't want to come in that close to the shift change.
Best to be ready for OTC when you do go in.
She was affectionate? Does that mean a front room makeout session, really opening up to you? If not, then nothing else is even considered.
SJG