So I kind of got screwed ...but in a good way
jaredlucas
Arizona
Over the holidays I arranged an OTC date with a long time lady friend. We were to meet in a bar have a few drinks and then head to my place for some adult fun.
About an hour before our date start time my friend texts me that she has a friend in town and would I mind if she joined us for drinks? Of course I said yes.
They show up at the bar and her friend is easy on the eyes. Not my type, but still attractive enough that I'm putting on the charm. After a couple drinks the girls were getting affectionate - with other right at the bar! They we're exchanging light kisses and I also noticed some lingering touches. I'm sure others around us were starting to notice. As this continued I started feeling left out so I broke the ice by saying let's grab one more drink and head out. As I said that my friend asks me if her friend could join us for some fun?
Mmm ... Let me think ... the possibility of a threesome with two attractive twenty somethings. Duh! We have had a few thresomes over the years but they were with civvies my lady friend would pick up while we were out clubbing. So of course I said Yes let's go !
Got to my place and the girls got comfortable. I made some drinks and off the bedroom we went
It was clear to me that they were in heat for each other and it was fun to watch. After a while I stood at the edge of the bed and presented my little buddy for a great double BJ and things went very well from there. It was a full on PSE. Nothing off the menu. Awesome time.
As we were getting dressed my date says to me I hope you don't mind bringing my friend but she is running tight and can use a little extra money. Dumbshit that I am ... I had assumed that the " impromptu" friend had just come along for the fun. Don't get me wrong. It was great time but I wasn't prepared to essentially pay double for my OTC date
I ended up "tipping" my OTC date a c note on top of our normal arrangement and told her to split the total money with her friend however she feels Is appropriate. She seemed a little surprised by my " low tip " and asked if I minded tipping 1 more? ( this happened while the friend was in the bathroom )
I caved and gave her the extra c note, but didn't feel good about it. Actually put a damper on an otherwise great evening
Although I received an excellent value and a great memory I caved in to extortion to avoid the possibility of ruining a good thing that has been going on for a few years.
Going forward I told my OTC date to clear it up front with Me next she has a pre planned threesome in mind. She apologized and said ok. So that's behind us.
On the flip side We ( just the of us) are heading out NYE to ring in the new year on a freebie. All is well that ends well.
Anyone else ever get hit with "extra fun" fee surprise? Still a bit irritated by this but won't happen again. How would you handle it ?
About an hour before our date start time my friend texts me that she has a friend in town and would I mind if she joined us for drinks? Of course I said yes.
They show up at the bar and her friend is easy on the eyes. Not my type, but still attractive enough that I'm putting on the charm. After a couple drinks the girls were getting affectionate - with other right at the bar! They we're exchanging light kisses and I also noticed some lingering touches. I'm sure others around us were starting to notice. As this continued I started feeling left out so I broke the ice by saying let's grab one more drink and head out. As I said that my friend asks me if her friend could join us for some fun?
Mmm ... Let me think ... the possibility of a threesome with two attractive twenty somethings. Duh! We have had a few thresomes over the years but they were with civvies my lady friend would pick up while we were out clubbing. So of course I said Yes let's go !
Got to my place and the girls got comfortable. I made some drinks and off the bedroom we went
It was clear to me that they were in heat for each other and it was fun to watch. After a while I stood at the edge of the bed and presented my little buddy for a great double BJ and things went very well from there. It was a full on PSE. Nothing off the menu. Awesome time.
As we were getting dressed my date says to me I hope you don't mind bringing my friend but she is running tight and can use a little extra money. Dumbshit that I am ... I had assumed that the " impromptu" friend had just come along for the fun. Don't get me wrong. It was great time but I wasn't prepared to essentially pay double for my OTC date
I ended up "tipping" my OTC date a c note on top of our normal arrangement and told her to split the total money with her friend however she feels Is appropriate. She seemed a little surprised by my " low tip " and asked if I minded tipping 1 more? ( this happened while the friend was in the bathroom )
I caved and gave her the extra c note, but didn't feel good about it. Actually put a damper on an otherwise great evening
Although I received an excellent value and a great memory I caved in to extortion to avoid the possibility of ruining a good thing that has been going on for a few years.
Going forward I told my OTC date to clear it up front with Me next she has a pre planned threesome in mind. She apologized and said ok. So that's behind us.
On the flip side We ( just the of us) are heading out NYE to ring in the new year on a freebie. All is well that ends well.
Anyone else ever get hit with "extra fun" fee surprise? Still a bit irritated by this but won't happen again. How would you handle it ?
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It’s also possible that the friend did come along just for fun (not likely tho), and your girl ripped her off. I’ve heard of girls asking new girls to go out w them, getting them drunk, and kinda pimping them out.
sums it all up. don't complain.
I guess you just got woke, welcome to the club.
While talking to dancers, I have heard stories about guys who agree to lap dances and then at the end say they didn't know it was something they had to pay for, since money wasn't discussed up front.
What I would do: When there is a stripper within 50 yards and someone asks me if I would like something or if something is OK, I would ask about any associated costs.
I haven't seen it sorted out on People's Court, but I find it to be good practice for both sides to clarify how much is expected to be spent.
Remember, fun > $$
Hopefully you had the good sense to as for some rimjob fun! ;)
To test water I replied I'd love to, but the holidays and a bad run at the casino last nite have me a little tight so I can't offer anything other than drinks and dinner - she says don't worry I just want your "Cock inside me again". She is coming over for dinner and jacuzzi fun this evening. Wow what a country. Ha ha.
Joke's on you when after she leaves, the flat screen and dishwasher have gone missing!
I better buy a lottery ticket next.
If my luck holds out Maybe I will be retired tomorrow.
In general, I approach this kind of thing one of two ways (doesn't have to be a friend, it could be any number of things that weren't planned, like her staying overnight):
- I ask her explicitly (in this case: "I'd love for your friend to play, but what are the expectations as far as tip? I can't double it" or whatever)
- I don't ask her anything and play along... and realize there's a risk that at the end, there will be a bit of an awkward negotiation, although with me holding all the cards since services will have been rendered. Though I also realize that, since I do NOT want her feeling badly or ripped off, *if* this is a CF who I value, I may end up just having to pay more than I'd wanted -- my feeling is, I'll just man up and deal with whatever the situation demands, part of the gamble of not negotiating up front.
You already realize your mistake ... it's a crazy rookie mistake to not do either of the two things above, and just assume you're going to get a 2nd girl for free. You wouldn't have had to change your actions at all, but just your mindset to my 2nd option above, and the whole thing would have been 100% win for you. Your problem with the situation is 100% all in your head, the surprise, which is something that probably should not happen at this point in a PLs career :)
BTW, with a proven ATF, I very often take the 2nd option ... just let it play out, and deal.
Really? That happens to all of us all the time! :)
ENJOY while it lasts.
On the previous occasions where my girl sswayed girls home after a nite on the town I would usually tip her another c note. One time it was 2 c notes when she arranged a foursome - this time the money was for the other girl which caught me off guard. Not a big deal. Would have likely said yes anyway.
Going forward I will clarify expectations so I don't have naggung thoughts on what should be just an awesome memory