I don't want to see this girl forever, but I do want to have sex with her. I've been consistent with her ITC both with my visits and money and she knows what she has to do for the amount I'm willing to pay her each time. When I ask her for more and pay her more money, she has been willing and receptive everytime. I think that she'll also eventually see me OTC and have a long sexual relationship with me (at my cost). But the money perverts everything. I know I'm going to get bored of her and there will be nothing more I want from her. I'll resent having to see her and pay her (my consistency is what will get her OTC). I want to know a good way to end an OTC that won't be damaging to her or me.
All stripper relationships are like that? Why do you think we see you as atms? It’s bc we know we don’t really matter to you (even if at the time we do). You are paying for that privilege already. You just tell her you are going to take a break for whatever reason. She might try to nag you, but it’s just for money. Btw, she can end it anytime she wants to also, and for any reason. Don’t think she won’t end it w you if someone else wants to meet her price to be exclusive.
Yeah dude, it's business - she may just be upset she's losing out on income - just be honest and tell her you wanna try other dancers, or w/e your reason is
Da' fuck? It won't be emotionally damaging to her. You're just a PL. She'll get over it in a heartbeat or at latest when she goes how to fuck actually bf?
Are you sure you aren't ask how you can do it without being emotionally damaging to yourself?
I’m sure she has other men that she does this with so she’ll just see it as losing a client and clients are replaceable. If you are that worried about it change up clubs and your number.
As others have said, she may be upset, but the root cause will come down to losing the income. Secondarily she may be concerned about what you may eventually tell other girls about what you did with her.
There is nothing you can do about the first issue except to ride it out. She may even poison the well for you for a while if it is a small club. There is nothing you can really do about it except to play it cool.
But as far as the second issue goes, you can alleviate her concerns by being the Rock of Gibraltar. This means keeping your mouth shut about what you did with any other dancer in the club. This is not always easy as some of these skanks are nosy and will try to get information about other girls in the club. I even had one girl try to get information while she was sucking my dick - needless to say it took a lot of discipline to keep my mouth shut then. ;) But keeping your mouth shut will always pay dividends, not only with girls who you've already taken OTC, but also others who see how you carry it ITC.
But this is all premature. Get in her pants first and then come back and ask the question again. ;)
I just ended a CF because she kept pestering me for drinks and I got tired of her wearing the same damn outfit, yea I know, stupid reasons but hey its a strip club. Its all bull shit and fantasy land.
It lasted for like 4 months but it got old. She got the hint when only spent $20 on her the last 2 visits. We're still cool, meaning we will talk about whatever but its more small talk... so yea dont worry about emotionally damaging her, but at least show a lil respect and ackowledge her and give her a tip on stage.
When it comes time to end it, just be honest and tell her that you are sorry, that it's not her but it's you, and that you hope she doesn't get to upset. That should provide her with at least a good chuckle if not a full fledged belly laugh.
If you've been consistent and generous with her ITC, it seems to me that the only way she's ever going to do OTC with you is if you offer her even more for the OTC than she's getting from you ITC.
In that case, the break up will be easy: "I'm out of money. You bled me dry."
A year or two of couples therapy is what I always recommend. Expensive -- but it helps both of you with the emotional trauma of breaking it off with your prostitute.
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Are you sure you aren't ask how you can do it without being emotionally damaging to yourself?
There is nothing you can do about the first issue except to ride it out. She may even poison the well for you for a while if it is a small club. There is nothing you can really do about it except to play it cool.
But as far as the second issue goes, you can alleviate her concerns by being the Rock of Gibraltar. This means keeping your mouth shut about what you did with any other dancer in the club. This is not always easy as some of these skanks are nosy and will try to get information about other girls in the club. I even had one girl try to get information while she was sucking my dick - needless to say it took a lot of discipline to keep my mouth shut then. ;) But keeping your mouth shut will always pay dividends, not only with girls who you've already taken OTC, but also others who see how you carry it ITC.
But this is all premature. Get in her pants first and then come back and ask the question again. ;)
It lasted for like 4 months but it got old. She got the hint when only spent $20 on her the last 2 visits. We're still cool, meaning we will talk about whatever but its more small talk... so yea dont worry about emotionally damaging her, but at least show a lil respect and ackowledge her and give her a tip on stage.
LOL
In that case, the break up will be easy: "I'm out of money. You bled me dry."
Good one!