How Much Millennial Flakiness Do You Guys Tolerate?
Saturday, December 30, 2017 11:14 AM
Hi all,
I have read some of the past posts about texting strippers/CFs, and the associated flakiness and slow response etc. But I'm still not sure myself how much to tolerate, and because of this, in general, when a stripper gives me a number, I have in the past never bothered to call or text. However, my current CF (probably in her early to mid 20s) of 6 months and I have been missing each other often in the club , so we decided to exchange numbers purely for the sake of coordinating days to meet ITC.
First attempt at coordinating - I let her know of a day I planned to go in. She said she was not scheduled to work but would add in that night. This was set up 2 days prior to the night, and confirmed by text enthusiastically by her. Then at 5PM of the planned night, she texts that something has come up and she can't go in. At least it was an apologetically written text. Since I had planned to go in anyway, I did, and had fun dances with other dancers.
Question is what do I do with this, either:
1) the 51 year old in me sees this as a weak, last minute cancellation/flake and wants to consider demoting her off the CF position.....and picking a new CF.... While I suppose something better than working truly may have come up, it still seems flaky to me to cancel a set plan.
2) Should I see this as typical millennial flakiness that may happen more often than not, and give her a break? T her credit, she did text me to notify, and at least it was a few hours prior, and was apologetic. Some millennials might have just not showed up, with no text or call at all.... Perhaps I should just let it slide, and just go back to meeting up with her ITC when we both happen to be there, without trying to coordinate.....
3) or something in between? I have seen some guys comment that they "make it known" to the stripper that if she flakes, his money IS going to be spent on others.... how exactly do you do that?!
Regardless, I think I'm going to go back to avoiding texting as a general principle!!
thanks for any thoughts!
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