Need a little advice or maybe a reality check
Doces300
You can run but you will only die tired
As you guys know, my CF has begun asking asking for 1k for outside the club which caused me to cancel our last OTC. (She does not know that is why I cancelled). She is a prime hottie, but I can get OTC from less prime girls for four times for the price of one time with her. I will admit, I hate to give this one up as she is different from most strippers I have experienced. She has it much more together and has been verifiably honest with me. I actually "like" this girl. No I am not in love, but really have more feeling for her than usual. She is fun in bed and for conversation well. She is not like the black girl I described In an earlier post but fun.
I was wondering if I should counter her with monthly SB type arrangement, where I give 1k per month wether I make it up that month or if I make it 2 or 3 times or if I can't get there at all. Does that sound reasonable? Have never done an arrangement like that. Or should I cut out on her and stick with the less prime girls. Btw I can afford to give her the 1k per month. What do you guys think?
I was wondering if I should counter her with monthly SB type arrangement, where I give 1k per month wether I make it up that month or if I make it 2 or 3 times or if I can't get there at all. Does that sound reasonable? Have never done an arrangement like that. Or should I cut out on her and stick with the less prime girls. Btw I can afford to give her the 1k per month. What do you guys think?
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You can get good value in these types of arrangements if trust is there. She also makes a predictable reliable income which works for her so they can be great for everyone in my experience.
But I would question if she would even be open to that based on her jacking up her price for one session of OTC. This may be just supply and demand if she has others willing to pay and unless there is some more utility to your relationship vs. others (i.e. like you both enjoy each others company and time).
Give it a go and see what she says
I like the idea of “hey I’ll give you 1k a month if I meet you 1 or 3 times regardless” but you know it’s likely she may be hard to set up an appointment with her after the initial monthly meeting.
Another angle is saying “hey I can fuck 4 girls for that price, it’s simply too much money,” opening up re-negotiations. Yeah, you can afford it, you know that and apparently she knows that too, but just because you CAN afford it doesn’t mean you should be paying that much for it.
I would NOT leave it open, "however many times I make it up there that month", since that leaves her open to being unavailable. I WOULD say "three (or twice, or whatever you think is fair) times a month, every month"; then, if you only make it twice that month, just let it slide... but that's your choice.
There is NOTHING to be lost by not at least trying a counteroffer, and taking advantage of the fact that the term sugarbaby might stroke her ego in very important ways. Just make sure that in the end, if she takes the deal, it's one you're very happy with. 'course, she might really be a coin-operated automaton, in which case, she won't take the deal anyway, and you're no worse off than you were.
I think this girl has GPS and is highballing you. Another thing to remember, these types of arrangements usually have a very short life span.
The arrangement you suggest might work if this girl really is an honest, reliable stripper. But even if she is such a unicorn now, she will probably go the dark side at some point. My DS started out as one of the most honest people I've ever known but the money eventually corrupted her, as I knew it would. Most likely your girl would eventually flake on you, making up all sorts of excuses why she is unavailable. But she will always be there to take your money.
If you must talk her down in price, I'd offer $750 with a promise of a certain number of visits (like at least once a month) if she is available. Like I said that will be a minority view. But my approach is the one that is most likely to get you the pussy.
As someone who has paid for a lot of porn star pussy in the past (but stopped once their prices got stupid), no stripper is worth $1,000 OTC. But Doces sounds like he's gonna do it regardless, so hopefully he'll at least share a good story with us once it's done.
CP
Lol no in fact she wanted to meet that afternoon before going to the club, which would have limited the time more so than ever before.
But each man needs to figure these things out for himself, so I suspect that this girl is about to get 1K richer. As CP said, come back and share once you hit it!
Agree completely. Just to be clear, in my response above, I was suggesting you use the idea of an arrangement as a way to restructure/renegotiate the price, and do so in a way that's more likely to be successful. NOT as a justification for potentially paying $1k per meeting .
My current SB is perfectly ok with p4p and very fun to hang out with. She has almost always been available when I've proposed a date. And, I'm pretty sure, what I've spent on her this past month is more than what the monthly allowance was with the other girl. So, I think the current SB knows that by being a _good_ SB I'll want to see her often enough to make for a predictable steady cash flow.
It's up to you whether to try every desirable stripper you haven't experienced yet or deciding that this one asking the premium is actually worth it. If she is actually worth it, the least you could do is ask for three hours to bring the cost more in line with market and retain a shred of self-respect.
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By fronting her $1k - and not having any leverage to stop her from ditching you in the deal - the odds are against you (at getting any more than 1 session a month.
If you decide to do this - let us know how it goes.
Of course One of them does the bagel run in the morning while you lay back and get another nice BJ
If I was the Doc, I'd just wait until she is having a very bad night and then try to talk her down. And if that doesn't work, then there are always more hot fish in the sea.
Then a few months ago she says she needs extra help and hikes up our arrangement fee. I'm like...are you kidding me? I can get a HOT AF Korean Girl on an escort site for half of what she was hiking up the cost for. I had to just say no thanks.
Now, I'm out cultivating another dancer for OTC arrangement, just hate the noise in the club. I wish her success she is a sweet gal. I just don't know why some people get so god damn greedy, just because. Who does she think she is anyway? Direct TV?
I can't tell you what you should do, but just think of this. Are you the only one she's really seeing? Dollars for donuts your not.
You're back on this bitch case again for the 1k? If I could reach thru the ether and slap you I would. C'mon Man, we're all pulling for you.
Don't get me wrong, I'm sure we've all done the dumb spending we've lived to regret, I guess you might as well get it over with, like was said, and be separated from your cash. Hopefully you'll get it out your system. As Brother Rick said, diminishing returns. Pussy or sex does not get better with price. It's not a Mercedes, C-E-S Class there's an improvement as you go up the price scale. Totally worth it. Not so with strippers.