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10 years ago
You're not going to catch anything from a handjob, even if she uses her saliva as lubricant it is extremely unlikely you could catch anything.
Yes you can give yourself a handjob, but trust me, but there are some dancers out there that give incredible handjobs.
I was never a huge fan of HJ's (but I would never turn one down) but I was at my regular SC the other day and got some lap dances from an Asian with a smokin body with nicely done C cup fake tits.
After the first couple songs she unzipped me while she was on top of me and gave me a phenomenal HJ, way better than anything I could do myself. She gave me a HJ while in the LD booth (and I could see the rest of the club from where I was sitting). The booth was pretty dark so it would be tough for anyone to see what was going on plus she was doing a good job hiding what she was doing.
Now I know why some of you guys love going to AAMPs.
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10 years ago
I agree with whodey, I'll take a girl with good looking fake tits over small tits any day of the week.
My ranking as far as what feels best:
1. Natural and squishy B or C cup
2. Decently done fake tits c - DD cup
3. Firm natural tits (c or bigger).
As far as what looks best:
1. Well done fake tits (nothing bigger than DD but a C or D cup look best as long as the girl isn't too skinny. In the club I go to, i would say that about 15% of the dancers I have seen have fake tits, and I have gotten dances from the majority of them and they have all looked and felt pretty good.
2. Natural
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10 years ago
I do my think she's too big, as long as a girl that size has decent sized tits to the. I can handle it. I'd definitely take a girl with her body type over a girl is skinny as a stick (such as Taylor swift).
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10 years ago
I did it once and it was a great experience. I probably wouldn't do it again cause it was so expensive but it is definitely something that I wanted to experience once.
Every time they danced on stage they danced together (the only dancers that were on stage at the same time). They both had pretty so liar bodies: both blonde with great asses and nice fake tits (their tits actually looked almost the same except ones her slightly smaller, my guess is they had the same surgeon).
The first time I approached them they tried to get me to go VIP with both, but I ended up just getting LD's separately from each one.
The next visit I saw them I went to VIP with one of them and enjoyed it very much.
Third visit I took them both to VIP at the same time. It was pretty cool actually, I was talking with one of them at the bar and she asked if I wanted to go VIP with either her or both of them. I said both and as we were walking to the VIP she grabbed the other dancer (who was sitting at the bar talking with a customer) and we headed to VIP.
They didn't disappoint, while they did play around with each other a little, I was the center of attention. I did t get FS or a BJ but I enjoyed titty fucking both of them and getting a hand job.
Definitely a great experience to have one dancer grinding on each leg. Or better yet, nothing like sucking on one dancers tits while you're squeezing the other dancers tits.
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10 years ago
Yes, my ATF bought me a drink once. We had spent a couple hours taking and then went to the VIP for an hour. After we were done in VIP I was about to leave (I had to get up early and the club closed in an hour). She offered to buy me a drink, I couldn't turn it down so I stayed for another twenty minutes and she bought herself and me a drink.
There was one other time that we were sitting at the bar and she had to go to the bathroom. She needed another drink so she left a twenty and said to by a drink for her and me with her money and then she went to the dressing room. I ended up paying for it with my money.
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10 years ago
My ATF has never come out and said I can do anything I want but she hasn't turned down the few requests I've made so far. And a couple of the things I've wanted she did without me having to ask.
really there's only two things I want to do that I have asked her yet but I am considering asking her soon:
1. Shower with her (I'm not sure how willing she would be to do this, I imagine most women view this as a more intimate act reserved only for boyfriends. I have showered by myself at her place and her downstairs shower is incredibly small, but I would imagine she might have a bigger on in an upstairs bathroom.)
2. Buy some oil and a shower curtain liner to put on the ground and then give each other massages (or at least me give her one) before covering ourselves in oil and fucking.
I'm definitely a boob guy, and I don't know what it is but it's even more enjoyable to rub/squeeze tits when they are either soapy or covered in oil. The best is standing behind a girl and reaching around to fondle them.
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10 years ago
Definitely all the time.
Have you ever seen a girl somewhere out in public and you could just tell she is a stripper somewhere?
One time I saw a good looking woman (not a 10 but a solid 8 with a good body) at a Walmart. She wasn't dressed like a stripper but I could just tell she either was or used to be one by the way she walked and she just had that look. Plus her perfume smelled like a strippers perfume. I wanted to go up to her and asked her where she danced lol.
Then another time I was waiting in line at a tire store. A cute girl (girl next door look) wS paying for her tires and paid with twenty's. It was several hundred dollars and it's just kind of unusual to see anyone pay that much in cash these days, especially in twentys and not hundreds.
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10 years ago
Some strip clubs have dress codes, but in general you have the right idea. Avoid jeans, but plenty of guys still wears jeans and a t shirt. I prefer khakis and a soft polo shirt. If you dress nice you will get more attention in general, the dancers will notice and appreciate that you put in some effort to look good. You also may want darker colored pants, they hide stains better if you LDK.
I've seen some guys wear basketball shorts, but it can send the wrong message to dancers. They may view it as you being desperate a LDK or them reaching into your shorts. I guess cargo shorts could be ok but I would wear boxers underneath. Dancers view a guy that doesn't wear underwear or boxers as a little creepy.
You think condoms are expensive? You can get a pack of three Trojans for a couple bucks. I would avoid the sock. If you cum in your pants your shirt might cover it and if not it's usually dark enough that no one really notices.
You could also put a couple paper towels in your pocket if you anticipate a HJ/BJ, some dancers even bring wet wipes into the VIP room with them.
As far as a button up or regular short, it doesn't really matter. Some dancers might i bottom your shirt but I've also had some just lift my shirt up so they could put their tits on my bare chest.
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10 years ago
I like it, there's just something about having a girl pull you by the hand as she leads you to the LD.
I also like you are waiting for the next song to start before entering the booth and the dancer either sits in your lap or stands in front of you and grinds or let's you feel her up.
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10 years ago
If you fold the bill and put it between her tits, she will push her tits together (allowing your hand to cop a feel as she moves away). She will then just let the dollar fall to the floor or put it in her g string. See "nipple feels" in the glossary.
Another option is you can fold the bill in your mouth, then she will either take it with her tits (giving you a Stevie Wonder in the process) or taking it with her mouth while practically kissing you.
Some are more obvious than others that they want you to put the bill in their tits. Some will tell you to do it, some with push their tits together and bring them close to your dollar, and others will do it if you initiate it.
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10 years ago
@AtB keep in mind that it's very tempting to go for the hottest dancer, more often than not they don't give great lap dances. They know they are hot and they know they can make good money bully just being hot and doing the best minimum.
I got a lap dance from a 10 with perfect natural tits and while I did get to squeeze her tits (this is a full two way contact club) she didn't take her thong off during the lap dances (I did three) and I barely got any grind and she wasn't nearly as handsy as the other dancers. Definitely the worst lap dances I have gotten, but she was hot so I don't regret it.
A 7 is usually going to give a better dance than a 9 or 10. I've had some of the best dances from them.
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10 years ago
I go to a full nude club. Some dancers take their things off completely on stage, some will just flash their pussy, and a few keep them on entirely. So if I see a girl on stage that barely takes her top off I know she probably won't allow too much mileage during a lap dance.
Some dates will let you stick the dollar bIll in between their tits (allowing you to get a decent feel) some don't. The club I go to is full two way contact so all the girls let you touch their tits in the LD booths but you can usually tell what dancers might offer extras or which ones will allow more mileage than others.
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10 years ago
Both have their benefits so it depends what you're looking for.
Weekday day shift:
Fewer dancers but also fewer customers like you said. But there is a much better dancer to customer ratio so you will usually get a lot more attention. If you are looking to spend a whole talking with dancers this is a good time to go.
Many regulars tend to go during a day shift. Some people feel the dancers are a little more desperate for customers during the day, so they may give better mileage or offer extras. Personally I haven't noticed a difference at the club I frequent.
Dow side to daytime is the dancer quality may not be as good and not as much of a selection.
Nighttime:
More dancers = equals better selection and hotter dancers in general. Downside is it can take quite a while to get approached since there are so many customers. Plus if you see a 9 or a 10 , odds are she will already be with a different customer.
I personally enjoy early afternoon. I get a good amount of attention but there's still enough customers that I don't feel weird.
Plus daytime there are fewer PL's sitting along the stage, so you will get to interact a lot more with the dancer on stage and therefore have a better feel for whether she is worth getting some lap dances from.
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10 years ago
1. Yes, a BBBJ feels much, much better than CBJ.
2. I do worry a little about STD's so I wouldn't get a BBBJ from just any stripper, but if I've been with her a few times, she's hot enough, and seems clean then I'll take the risk.
I also think everyone should include their at range when they answer this. I would bet that once you reach a certain age, you probably don't care as much about STDs. I'm in my early thirties.
3. Doesn't matter.
4. ITC, I've only gotten BJ's from two dancers and both were uncovered. I didn't ask for either one, they did it on their own so I didn't really have to pay any extra, they just said whatever I wanted to rip them was fine.
If I'm in the VIP room with a dancer and she either charges a lot more or doesn't seem clean for a BBBK then I will opt to titty fuck her instead.
5. ITC both dancers that I've gotten BJ's from have been uncovered. (One of these dancers I also see OTC). When I see her OTC sometimes I get BBBJ and sometimes it's covered before or during FS, the CBJ really doesn't do anything for me.
The dancer that I see OTC, it took me a solid two months of going VIP with her regularly before I got a brief BBBJ ITc and another couple weeks till I got FS ITC before eventually going OTC. She's in her 30's and seems clean, so considering that and that it took so long for me to get it, I feel pretty safe with going uncovered. I've even done a little Russian Roulette with her a few times (but not every time).
The other dancer I got a BBBJ from was on only the second visit I had seen her and the first time I went to VIP with her. I didnt really want a BBBJ from her but I really wanted to titty fuck her, so I went to VIP. After a couple minutes she asked if she should take my dick out, of course I wanted her to and after a brief HJ I was stunned when she started giving me a BBBJ. Part of me wanted to tell her I would rather titty fuck her but at that point it was already in her mouth and it felt so good I just went with it.
She was in her 30's as well but she she doesn't drink/do drugs has kids and is well educated. But I'm still a little nervous cause if she gave me (someone who wasn't one of her regulars and didn't ask for a BJ) a BBBJ then does she do this to every guy that goes VIP with her?
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10 years ago
One of two things either happened...
1. Someone (either under orders from Bellicheck or Brady) was ordered to deflate the footballs after they were inspected by the Ref.
Or
2. It's possible they were under inflated before the Ref inspected them and he either didn't inspect them or just didn't care.
If it's #1, the Patriots deserve to get hammered. They better lose a lot of draft picks. If its #2 it's still pretty bad but not as blatant of an attempt at cheating.
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10 years ago
Eat some watermelon a couple hours before.
Seriously...
http://www.besthealthmag.ca/best-you/relationships/the-3-best-foods-to-boost-sex-drive
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10 years ago
I hate being asked what I do for work, I just give a generic answer. I don't lie and say I do some high paying job, I just think of a typical job and say I do that. I don't wanna talk about work when I'm at the club.
But the question I hate more than anything is when they ask "so what brings you into the club today?" What do you think? I came here cause I wanted to have a couple beers while I looked at some naked girls, get some lap dances, and possobly go to the VIP room. Of course I don't give this answer, I usually just say I want to relax. Does any guy ever go to a SC for any reason other than seek g naked girls (in addition to to anything related to that)? Maybe next time I should just say "actually I came in just cause I really want to watch the game and have some food, then I'm gonna leave." Or better yet "actually I came in just to hear the DJ".
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10 years ago
One of my favorite experiences happened recently. I had recently gotten a couple dances from a hot (but slightly older) blonde with a fantastic body. The dances were great but I declined to go VIP with her cause I was saving my money for my ATF. a couple weeks later I came back and got a few more dances from her. This time I decided to go to the VIP room with her.
This was at an extras friendly club but even though I got good mileage furing the LD, she gave no indication that she would give extras In the club. So we went to the VIP room and it continued as a regular lap dance. I started to thing the little head wasn't going to make an appearance and the. She asked if she should take my dick out, of course I said yes. I was hoping to titty fuck her but got something even better.
She took it out and started giving me a HJ for a minute (without spitting on it to provide lube). This dry HJ didn't feel particularly good, and then she licked it. At first I thought it was just to provide lube but next thing I know she starts giving me a BBBJ.
This surprised the hell out of me, mainly cause I had only gotten dances from her twice and this was my first trip to the VIP with her. She also didn't drink, had kids, and is very smart. So I didn't expect her to be the type to give a covered blow job let alone a BBBJ to someone she hardly knew.
On the other hand this also has me a little freaked out about possible STDs. Even though she appears clean, if she gave me a BBBJ how many other guys does she do this to?
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10 years ago
I've had a dancer masturbate both in the lap dance booth and also while we were in VIP.
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10 years ago
Just cause a dancer gives you her number doesn't mean she offers OTC. Some will give you hints or may even be direct when they give you their number. I went to the VIP room one time with a dancer and right when we were done she said she sometimes gets a hotel room in the area and offered me her phone number.
Sometimes it just takes a while before a dancer will offer you OTC. I had been seeing my ATF very regularly ITC for a couple months. We communicated through facebook and while I got extras from her, I never got FS from Her. Then on one visit she gave me FS. The next week she messaged me the day that she was supposed to work and said she wasn't gonna be at the club but wanted to know if I wanted to meet up with her at her place.
Bottom line is not every girl that give you her number will be open to OTC. Some might decline it at first but the. Be open to it once they get to know you better.
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10 years ago
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GACAUn-retired: Met my ATF. Married her. Divorcing her.
@JohnSmith that does make sense, I guess with the majority of dancers you are better off asking for extras.
Slightly off topic but in terms of respecting dancers, there was one afternoon where I was sitting at the bar visiting with my ATF. I had been talking with her for about an hour and a half but hadn't gotten any dances from her yet.
She went back to the dressing room to use the bathroom. As she was walking back a group of guys sitting at a table said hi to her and wanted her to sit with them. She said she was busy visiting a customer/friend. Well they got pissed and called her a stuck up butch. Needless to say it it didn't help them at all but it sure made her appreciate me more.
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10 years ago
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GACAUn-retired: Met my ATF. Married her. Divorcing her.
GAGCA, another important part is if there is a dancer you would like some extras from, treat her well. I'm not necessarily talking about tipping well, I'm talking about being respectful to her.
I have never had to ask my ATF for any extras. I did have to put In a few weeks of VIP while only getting a HF/titty fucking. During this time she told me a few times how guys have offered her a lot of money for even just a covered BJ (she mentioned so soneone offered her 5K one time for a covered BJ and she turned it down).
Since that comment I have gotten basically every Ki d of extra there is from her (including FS) without ever having to ask for it.
Obviously she could have just been saying that she didn't accept the money in the past when it was offered to her even if she did and just didn't wanna admit it. But some dancers only will provide extras when they decide they want to and not just when some random guy asks them, they feel better about themself since they feel like they are choosing to do it. Some dancers also will only give extras to their regulars that they feel the most comfortable with.
Also, some may also turn it down when offered money for a specific extra or not explicitly offer extras to avoid getting busted by an I der over cop. If a dancer decides to give you a BJ without you asking for it and then you decide to tip her on your own neither one of you could really get busted for anything since no conversation took place.
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10 years ago
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GACAUn-retired: Met my ATF. Married her. Divorcing her.
You just gotta find the right club. I'm not rich (but I still buy dances/VIP/tip well), I'm not a great looking guy (but I dress well, shave, and make sure I smell good), and I don't have a great personality and I'm kind of shy. But on my first visit to my local club I got a few lap dances from one of the dancers and then went to VIP with her. Before I knew it I was getting a HJ in the VIP room without me asking or her asking for extra money.
A couple weeks later and during the beginning of a lap dance with a different dancer with big tits she asked me if I would like to titty fuck her or get a BJ in VIP.
The first dancer I mentioned went on to become my ATF and a lot more extras became available.
I haven't gone to the VIP with any other dancer but several have mentioned that they offer more in VIP. I have no game but I still manage to get offered extras, so if a PL like myself is can get extras you should be able to as well.
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10 years ago
I had many great experiences in 2014, this forum helped immensely. Some of my ITC highlights:
-going to VIP with two dancers at the same time. They had great chemistry with each other and I was the center of attention. I didnt get anything above a HJ but it was still great. I wont do it again but it was something I wanted to experience once.
-meeting my ATF. I have a great time every time I see her. Obviously the dances and VIP time is great but I enjoy talking with her just as much.
-the first time I got FS with a dancer. It was with my ATF ITC and just the way it was initiated was so hot. I had already been seeing her for a few months and was about to ask her if FS was available. We went to VIP and before I could ask she started grinding on me but kept her dress on (which was a little odd). After a minute I started taking it off and she mentioned how she should keep it on so the cameras would t see what we were doing. I thought that was really odd cause we weren't doing anything we hadn't done every other time. Next thing I know she says if she keeps her dress on it will keep the camera from seri g us having sex and she asked if I had a condom.
-my favorite moment is actually with mY ATF OTC. She always has provided a great GFE (cuddling before/after and lots of kissing). She even topped that recently. We were cuddling and watching TV for a bit before we had sex. After that we watched some more TV and then she starts kissing me and climbs back on top of me for some more. I know it was probably an act but damn, she's a good actress.
I think I might have to elevate my ATF to DS status. She may is absolutely gorgeous with perfect natural tits and a great ass, but it's her personality that that makes her DS worthy.
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10 years ago
And I honestly don't think she regularly offers FS. It took very regular visits over several months before she offered FS.