Holding hands again

I like it. Also I was recently in a club where private dances were done upstairs and didn't want my girl breaking a leg in those 6 inch platforms .

I like it, there's just something about having a girl pull you by the hand as she leads you to the LD.

I also like you are waiting for the next song to start before entering the booth and the dancer either sits in your lap or stands in front of you and grinds or let's you feel her up.

95% of the time, love it. Sometimes, you get those uber-jaded girls for whom it just feels like it's part of her routine (maybe so she doesn't have to turn around and look at you lol!). But usually, it's a cute little part of the overall dance ritual

It don't matter to me one way or another.

I like it and it's a club rule that they do it.

It's a nice touch if you're really into the girl. Kind of like leading a lamb to slaughter, lol.

Due to my history of it happening, I think some girls do it to announce to the other dancers at the club that the customer is "theirs" at times. Kind of like laying claim to you.

I'm kind of a sucker for it actually. But it's not a big deal for me either way.

I never really minded. I did see a dancer proudly lead her custie into VIP with a belt around his neck. Like a dog on a collar....smh

I think it's really hokey. I'd just tell her I can follow her without being dragged. Actually, I can't remember the last time I was at a club where this was done.

Actually, i think that would be pretty sexy if the dancer was holding my wife's hand leading us back to the VIP area for a dance. I don't think I've seen any of them do that with us. I'll have to mention that to Mrs Seaboard and if the dancer doesn't do it next time she can initiate the contact.

@mikey- are you serious? Lolol

Occasionally when she is leading me to the Lapdance area with her hand, the anticipation builds up, like it's gonna be a good Lapdance or something.

I'm all about the GFE, so first holding hands, then hugs, then groping, then kissing, then using her hands, then using her mouth, then FS, and if she's a DS, then I'm going to do the same for her and it's all uncovered. It all starts with holding hands.

@Ranukam... yes!

I like it. I also like it when a dancer takes me by the arm to escort me to the lap dance area. I even recommend to dancers that they do either. My theory is that dancers would do well to show a customer more attention once the customer agrees to spend money on the dancer.

Nowadays, I take it as part of the ritual/staking the claim and generally just go with it. But still, on occasion, there'll be that one particular dancer that gets my 13-year-old inner geek going: "A pretty girl's holding my hand! She's holding my hand! She's holding my hand!" Wow, thinking about it, I'm surprised I don't LDK on the spot.

The girls I dance with do it all the time... I did not think anything of it until I encountered one girl who did not do it and that was when I finally thought of it.

I am indifferent about it personally. I will say however that one of my FAVS doesn't hold hands but instead walks with me side by side with her arms wrapped around me arm and her head resting on my shoulder like she is my girlfriend. I enjoy it personally and I have noticed her walk back with many customers and she doesn't do it with anyone else while I am there so that is nice but I can't imagine being to upset if she did as this is part of the game.

I like it too, but it's only happened a few times

I like it too. It makes me feel like she is willing to make it a better experience and hang out a little after. Those who don't seem more likely to just grab and go with your money right after the dance

Holding my hand on the way in....... holding a soggy wad of napkins and a used wrapper on the way out.............

it depends how its done. I don't like being led/pulled around, so if she's dragging me I usually just kinda let go. If we're walking together and she reaches down and grabs my hand, I kinda like it.

I like it.

I don’t mind it too much but it’s often kinda awkward in the club – as Chandler and Dolfan mentioned; often times I feel like I’m been pulled by the hand by the dancer in front of me as if I was a kid being taken to kindergarten.

I think some dancers may do it b/c they genuinely want to treat you well – and others just to give the semblance of treating you special and all that’s really on their mind is getting paid/tipped-extra for their “kindness and attention”.

More often than not I pull away b/c I’m usually being led around like a supermarket shopping cart.

OTOH – being pulled by my penis for w/e reason I don’t mind as much :)

At my favorite club, VIP is up a flight of stairs. After an hour of amorous sex my ATF was holding my hand coming downstairs when her heel caught on a step and she fell forward. My left hand swept in front of her and caught her with my hand cupping her right breast. The bouncer at the foot of the stairs didn't know whether to laugh or admonish her.

Chandler - You weren't paying very good attention on Saturday when my dancer led me right past you holding me by the hand.

Oops! lol

Ya, I don't like it. So I put my hand on their waist instead.

I don't mind it.

Shadowcat, thought see was leading you by the dick ... or is my eyesight that bad? lol!

JS posted: "I'm all about the GFE, so first holding hands, then hugs, then groping, then kissing, then using her hands, then using her mouth, then FS, and if she's a DS, then I'm going to do the same for her and it's all uncovered. It all starts with holding hands."

In my humble opinion that was a perfect response. Kudos.

Several dancers do it. It's ok with me. I Thought at one time another reason is to make sure you get back to the dance room and don't get stopped by other dancers.

There was a 80'ish rich guy I saw that the girls had to practicaly hold up on the way to VIP

I am shocked -- shocked, I tell you! -- to see that JS69 has managed to connect this thread with his Dream Stripper :)

I dig being led by the hand -- or any handy body part -- to the pleasure zone. Many strippers do this at my favorite clubs. It's a nice personal touch even if it's an act. I also like it when a dancer sits topless on my lap or gives a little preview grind while we're waiting for the next song to start. Don't strippers realize how annoying it is when they start dancing halfway through a song? They win a lot of good will from me -- and more dances in the long run -- by waiting a minute or two until a song starts.

One of my regulars does this with an added twist...about half way to the couch she pulls my hand up against her ass. It's a great lap dance appetizer!

I kinda like it. I like it when hot women in scary tall shoes take the lead.

I can remember a couple of times when a dancer put my hands on her ass while leading me to the Lapdance area. In both instances the lapdances were high mileage.

I like it, but it often seems more forced by the dancer than anything. FWIW, I've never been anywhere it was ever required.

It's a very confusing process for me. Let me explain:

I hate being waited on and have grown up to rely on myself so I am DIY sort of guy (would build my own house and grow my own food if I it wasn't so time consuming). So I hate using waitresses at clubs, hate people trying to get things for me, hate the bathroom attendant squirting soap and handing me a towel. I'm an adult, I can do for myself. Of course, the feeling of holding hands is always nice but then I feel like I'm needy and I hate that. So I just hold loosely if she holds my hand to the lap dance chairs and if she lets go, I just let it go. At least they have nice soft hands. All very confusing for me personally.

mrs seaboard told me that the majority of the dancers have held her hand when we've gone back to the VIP room. i guess i've never noticed since i've always been bringing up the rear. i will have to pay closer attention next time.