BBBJ vs. CBJ: risks and rewards

MrDeuce
Illinois
Clearly a BBBJ is more pleasurable (for the recipient) than a CBJ, but a CBJ is safer and costs less. What's your position on questions such as:
1. Is a BBBJ so superior that a stripper's insistence on a condom is a deal-breaker?
2. Are you so worried about STDs that the risk of a BBBJ is unacceptably high?
3. In a BBBJCIM, do you care whether she spits or swallows?
4. How much more are you willing to pay for BBBJ vs. CBJ?
5. Of all BJs that you've received from strippers, what percentage have been uncovered?

I'll start:
1. A BBBJ is vastly superior, but with a sufficiently hot stripper a CBJ is acceptable, especially if she starts with a couple of lap dances with lots of mutual groping and we're both naked :)
2. I consider the risk of catching an STD from a BBBJ to be minuscule. (Perhaps I'm in denial.)
3. Once it's in her mouth, I don't care too much what she does with it, though spitting can seem like a rejection of my offering.
4. I typically pay about $50 more for a BBBJ.
5. I'm a total nerd about my strip club recordkeeping. My spreadsheet shows me that 21 of my 41 SC blowjobs have been BBBJCIM and another 10 have been BBBJCE (cum elsewhere: tits or hand) so the remaining 10 have been CBJ.

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whodey
10 years ago
1) no, while a bbbj is certainly better it isn't even close to enough. Of a benefit.
2) Anymore I don't consider the risk minimal with anyone who is willing to give or recieve a bbbj from a stranger let alone multiple strangers. Eventually the odds are not in your favor.
3) as long as she doesn't spit it on me i couldn't care less.
4) $0.00 in fact i may pay more if necessary to include a condom.
5) aside from 1 time when i was 19 or 20 and so in awe of what was happening that it blew my mind even quicker than i blew my load i have always insisted on a cover.
shadowcat
10 years ago
I must be living in a different world. I have never had or even been offered a CBJ. If it isn't a BBBJ it isn't a blow job in my opinion. And if you don't cum in her mouth it also is not a blow job. It is merely some foreplay.
MrDeuce
10 years ago
Yes, shadowcat, you live in a world very different from mine! In my part of the Midwest BJs are hard to find and uncovered is not the default. Furthermore, BBBJs are not necessarily CIM.
JohnSmith69
10 years ago
A spreadsheet of your blow job experiences? Seriously? That makes about as much sense as wearing a cover. Just when I think maybe I'm a PL, somebody proves me wrong.
jackslash
10 years ago
I turned down the offer of a CBJ last night, and so you know my stand on that issue.
footballguy
10 years ago
1. Yes, a BBBJ feels much, much better than CBJ.

2. I do worry a little about STD's so I wouldn't get a BBBJ from just any stripper, but if I've been with her a few times, she's hot enough, and seems clean then I'll take the risk.

I also think everyone should include their at range when they answer this. I would bet that once you reach a certain age, you probably don't care as much about STDs. I'm in my early thirties.

3. Doesn't matter.

4. ITC, I've only gotten BJ's from two dancers and both were uncovered. I didn't ask for either one, they did it on their own so I didn't really have to pay any extra, they just said whatever I wanted to rip them was fine.
If I'm in the VIP room with a dancer and she either charges a lot more or doesn't seem clean for a BBBK then I will opt to titty fuck her instead.

5. ITC both dancers that I've gotten BJ's from have been uncovered. (One of these dancers I also see OTC). When I see her OTC sometimes I get BBBJ and sometimes it's covered before or during FS, the CBJ really doesn't do anything for me.

The dancer that I see OTC, it took me a solid two months of going VIP with her regularly before I got a brief BBBJ ITc and another couple weeks till I got FS ITC before eventually going OTC. She's in her 30's and seems clean, so considering that and that it took so long for me to get it, I feel pretty safe with going uncovered. I've even done a little Russian Roulette with her a few times (but not every time).

The other dancer I got a BBBJ from was on only the second visit I had seen her and the first time I went to VIP with her. I didnt really want a BBBJ from her but I really wanted to titty fuck her, so I went to VIP. After a couple minutes she asked if she should take my dick out, of course I wanted her to and after a brief HJ I was stunned when she started giving me a BBBJ. Part of me wanted to tell her I would rather titty fuck her but at that point it was already in her mouth and it felt so good I just went with it.
She was in her 30's as well but she she doesn't drink/do drugs has kids and is well educated. But I'm still a little nervous cause if she gave me (someone who wasn't one of her regulars and didn't ask for a BJ) a BBBJ then does she do this to every guy that goes VIP with her?
rockstar666
10 years ago
I've never had a CBJ and don't intend on starting.
bang69
10 years ago
A good friend of mine is a nurse. She deals with STD cases only. She told me that using condom's is the best way to go. We all need to keep in mind condom's leak & break.
londonguy
10 years ago
I'm with SC. A BJ with a condom isn't a BJ, it's a bit like trying to suck your thumb with a boxing glove on.
rickdugan
10 years ago
It has been years since I've had a CBJ. If I have to wear a condom just to get a blow job, I don't want it.
JamesSD
10 years ago
I had a CBJ from a random party hook up once. Wasn't worth it.

For the guy receiving head, BBBJ is low risk. Never had one from a stripper or prostitute, but I've had plenty from very slutty women, girls I'd never fuck without a rubber, but who I'm happy to be blown by.
bkkruined
10 years ago
1. Is a BBBJ so superior that a stripper's insistence on a condom is a deal-breaker?
I'll take whatever blowjobs I can get, if there free. Whether of not I'll pay for one with a condom had other factors attached.
2. Are you so worried about STDs that the risk of a BBBJ is unacceptably high?
I generally think BJ risks are pretty minimal, and if she's so nasty I'm thinking about a condom for a BJ, I'll pass altogether (Assuming I'm sober enough to think straight).
3. In a BBBJCIM, do you care whether she spits or swallows?
As long as I don't have to clean it up.
4. How much more are you willing to pay for BBBJ vs. CBJ?
In my expirience, if she's giving a BBBJ, she's not going to give a discount for using a condom. If she wants to use a condom, she's going to insist on it, and I'm not going to try and negotiate a higher price for her not to.
5. Of all BJs that you've received from strippers, what percentage have been uncovered?
Honestly, from strippers, never had a BJ. Usually just skipped right into FS (never BB). much of that expirience is with escorts, and I'd say 20%?
seaboardrr
10 years ago
1. Is a BBBJ so superior? yes
2. Are you so worried about STDs that the risk of a BBBJ is unacceptably high? somewhat, BUT i'd be more worried about my wife cutting off my manhood if she didn't approve the BBBJ before hand
3. In a BBBJCIM, do you care whether she spits or swallows? spitting is rude unless she let's it dribble out her mouth and over her tits
4. How much more are you willing to pay for BBBJ vs. CBJ? don't know, never paid for one
5. Of all BJs that you've received from strippers, what percentage have been uncovered? never had one from a stripper
EarlTee
10 years ago
1. Is a BBBJ so superior that a stripper's insistence on a condom is a deal-breaker?
Absolutely.
2. Are you so worried about STDs that the risk of a BBBJ is unacceptably high?
Absolutely not.
3. In a BBBJCIM, do you care whether she spits or swallows?
A little. Swallowing is hotter.
4. How much more are you willing to pay for BBBJ vs. CBJ?
Infinitely more. See #1.
5. Of all BJs that you've received from strippers, what percentage have been uncovered?
Only 100%, but I expect that to increase in the future.
georgmicrodong
10 years ago
1. Is a BBBJ so superior that a stripper's insistence on a condom is a deal-breaker?
No. Superior? Yes, but no so much so that a skilled fellatrix can't cope.

2. Are you so worried about STDs that the risk of a BBBJ is unacceptably high?
Used to be, but I've fallen off the wagon.

3. In a BBBJCIM, do you care whether she spits or swallows?
Not really. Not stopping is much more important than where it goes when I'm through with it and no longer need it.

4. How much more are you willing to pay for BBBJ vs. CBJ?
I'm not sure that's relevant. When I was still requiring a cover, none of the girls who assumed I wanted it bare at first were lowering their price because I insisted on a condom, and nobody ever offered to do it for less once they knew my preference. Also, nobody insisted on *more* when I started forgoing the rubber, and a fair few of the girls who blew me with a rubber also blew me after I stopped.

5. Of all BJs that you've received from strippers, what percentage have been uncovered?
Of all of them? About 10%. In the last five years? 100%.
MrDeuce
10 years ago
JS69: In my defense (?), I also keep spreadsheets for my investments, books I've read, movies I've watched, etc. I'm a total nerd, not just a strip club nerd.
jvTroop
10 years ago
MrDeuce i 2 also spread sheet my cumings and goings
jvTroop
10 years ago
Most strippers I've had to give me a blow job just do it without a rubber
goonster
10 years ago
I don't generally pay for just a blow job. I pay for sex and a blowjob is part of it. I'm not worried about STDs from a bbbj. Sometimes she insists on the cover, a higher price won't change that, but most times the cover doesn't go on until right before I stick my cock in her pussy. 75% of the time it's bbbj.
san_jose_guy
10 years ago
I know that some providers play that paying more game. But I wouldn't go along with it. It will just encourage them to be even more mercenary than they already are.

FS costs more than BJ/HJ, and Anal costs more. But if they try and get more for uncovered or for other GFE issues, they are being excessive and I would not play along with them.

If they want to do it for me, they will do it, and they will do it at the standard price. If they don't want to do it for me, then I really don't want to pay them any money at all.

SJG
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