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7 years ago
I've been married for 10 years. My wife looks good but doesnt have nearly the sex drive that i do. We have sex an appropriate amount of time, but i can tell she is doing it to go through the motions because she knows how much i need it. I feel guilty as all hell that i hit up SC's but i am not able to control the desire of extras with a hot little spinner with a gfe experience which is something i cant get at home. This is probably a unique perspective because i figure married guys either arent into their wives anymore, or dont feel guilty. But the short answer in why i go if im married to an attractive woman is i miss the gf experience and want me some strange.
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7 years ago
I have been mongering in the SC scene for a couple years now and have never worked up enough nerve to ask for or go through with OTC. Eventually i will take the plunge but it will be on a business trip where my chances of anonymity are much higher.
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7 years ago
This is my neck of the woods and I've been to almost every single one of the NY, PA,NJ ones and here is my take: If you are judging them from an extras standpoint you can immediately take off the list the Manhattan ones ( The lido Room, Private Eyes, Scores). As far as the other ones, Johnny A's should be at the top of the list if you are judging from an extras standpoint followed distantly by the others.
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7 years ago
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LDJunkieEnjoying lap dances for 15 years and counting...
@Subraman never thought about it that way. Always figured i had a keen sense of smell and couldnt smell anything so it wasnt there. The solution of keeping a spair change of clothes: What do you do when you get home and your SO asks why you changed clothes from when you left the house? In my mind id rather slink in with same clothes and pray she doesnt smell it than to come in with a completely different set of clothing on and have to answer those questions.
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7 years ago
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LDJunkieEnjoying lap dances for 15 years and counting...
Weird. I haven't been mongering for so long (4 years) but have had my fair share of experiences and NOT ONCE have i noticed a smell, makeup etc.
I DO douse myself with TONS of purell after but that's for germs not smell. Once my jimmy stops burning from all the purell i then look for period blood on my clothes but that's just because of that scene in superbad that created that fear.
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7 years ago
IMO the only real sure thing extras place in the philly area is Purple Orchid. If you are willing to lower your standards (wont find higher than an 8 in Purple Orchid and many sub 4's) AND are fine with aa girls ( i am) then just go to Purple Orchid.
Penthouse has the hottest girls but extras are non existent their crappy communal LD room.
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7 years ago
@SanJoseGuy Ive only been SCing for 4 years now so I dont claim to be the foremost expert on horndoggedness BUT in 4 years i think ive only seen an out in the open front room make-out session 1 time and it was in a club that was 90% brothel and 10% SC and by the looks and miles on the dancer he was deep tonguing hes probably regretting not using a dental dam . This could be a product of WHERE i SC (generally the tame Northeast clubs) though so maybe stuff is different on the west coast.
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7 years ago
She could just come from a cervical acid rinse and i still wouldnt trust it.
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7 years ago
Ive never been but i hear The mansion or Pleasure Island in Newburgh is a good bet in terms of Hudson Valley. As a whole NY is a wasteland when it comes to quality extras and stripping. Northern NJ you can go to Satin Dolls in Lodi (ymmv from girl to girl) or Breathless. Southern CT, as I said in a different discussion's comment, only place worth stopping in is Pleasant Moments in Bport which at times depending on your standards can be hard to find anything above a 6-7.
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7 years ago
Not wanting to spend a ton but still looking for prime A American beef doesnt go together. Putting your monetary restrictions aside: NJ has a nice amount of places with classic NJ white girls. If you are already driving to North Jersey, I would just head the other way to Providence. It is further from you BUT plenty of american types at Foxy Lady, Desire and Scores. In NYC area, the only club somewhat worth the trip would be scores in Woodside but even that place has been Latina and also slightly downhill of late.
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7 years ago
From your 2 reviews it seems like Pleasant Moments would be a good fit. Just drive to Bport and you will find what you are looking for. If SOMEHOW (would be a first) you strikeout in PM, wave a dollar out the window on Main street and you will be inundated with pussy.
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7 years ago
Because it pretty much does revolve around us. So for the rurally inclined allow me to offer some clarification: NEW YORK NEW JERSEY CONNECTICUT.... FYI just ask google where the tristate is and you will have your answer. For directions on how to ask google, ask google.
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7 years ago
Lmao I gotta work on my sarcasm perception. On my way to "the block" already. O well! Looks like trash. Gas it is....
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7 years ago
Thanks. Been looking at reviews on clubs on the block and most recent ones were saying mileage is minimal now there...
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8 years ago
TWENTYFIVE - Intimidate? I think you are taking liberties with your assumptions. Not wanting to tell her to fuck off, specifically when she has the right to reasonable assumption that I want company.. you now being that i AM in a strip club....dont get that twisted with intimidation. Its about not trying to be a total asshat. Obviously if she is pushy and rude I would be blunt. But thats not what the discussion is about.
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8 years ago
Problem is many times they dont just ask for a dance. They first sit near you to chat thinking she will eventually get you into a dance. How do you explain to her she is wasting your time before she even brings up the dance topic?
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8 years ago
THANKS FELLAS!!! Little Mulaney appreciates it.
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8 years ago
Shai, thanks for the informed comments. For some reason escorts don't do it for me as much as strippers with big mileage. Could be because with an escort im thinking about all the guys shes been with but with a stripper i somehow delude myself into thinking shes only giving ME the extras lol. But enough about my delusional mental state :)
Can you tell me how accessible the extras are if I go to the full service clubs what can I expect? Is everyone offering extras or just some. Are the quality of the girls still good or pretty run down?
Also, about the escorts being legal: are prostitution stings totally unheard of in Canada (unlike the US where they are a dime a dozen)? Because I thought I read prostitution is legal for the girl to offer but illegal for a client to accept.
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8 years ago
Lol im looking for them extra fiends. I gather Detroit is pretty solid too its def on my itinerary.
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8 years ago
Im with you (although im under 30) my ultimate would be an 18 year old. Not sure what that says about me other than "i think 18 year olds have a better shot at having a perfect body than a 22 year old". Good call
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8 years ago
1) How frequently (if at all) do you offer OTC?
2) I see a lot of dancers cozying up to older guys. Is it GENERALLY harder to cozy up to an old guy then a younger (assuming both arent slobs)?
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8 years ago
About a year ago I had the same sense of euphoria when I found out I was going to Providence for work. I found out the hard way most places there are a negative for extra curricular. As Ski and Tire mentioned above: Best bets are Desires and Cadillac. In either of those places you are bound to find a solid 6 or higher that is willing to pay closer attention to your "spectator". Might take a drop of leg work but sure as hell beats the terrible SC scenes in every other Northeast city.
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8 years ago
I tried Playhouse. Midday there weren't any girls above a 5. For those interested: I ended up going to Purple Orchid and found a petite AA dancer who fulfilled my requirements (posted review). Thanks for all the responses.
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9 years ago
Was it your normal stripper experience?
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9 years ago
Thanks for the info. I've been to a few upscale white clubs in the area but like you guys mentioned there were no extras on the menu. I've been scouring the reviews in the area up and down but hard to get a good consensus from the reviews on what is the right go to for the off menu specials.