Comments by whodey (page 18)

I'm all for caution and that's why I never have sex without a condom except with someone that I have been in a long term relationship with. That's why I haven't had sex without a condom since my last serious relationship ended 3 years ago. But this is taking it too far. Hell, I won't even stop getting bbbj over the concerns of hiv since the odds are low enough that I am willing to take that risk. I can see why some fs sex workers would go for this since they likely have sex with more strangers than I do since I only go for extras 2 or 3 times per month. I could also see a guy that does bbfs with sex workers or random strangers wanting to go this route since their chance of exposure is higher. Personally I'll just stick with bbbjs and covered fs like I always have.

A nice upbeat and flirty attitude is what I usually look for but that is no guarantee of a good time. I pay more attention to how they behave on the floor/at the bar than I do to how they are on stage. To me the stage show just let's me see if they are attractive or not and doesn't seem to have much correlation to how they are during a private dance. Like Rick said just avoid the ones that look like they are mad at the world and don't want to be there because their mood rarely improves during a dance.

Funonthaside depending on the jurisdiction the customers that are caught doing extras are generally charged with soliciting prostitution or some type of lewd conduct charge. As long as you aren't caught in a sexual act the customer usually doesn't have to worry about being charged.

If there are vice cops in all strip clubs at all times and I am the only customer in the club does that mean one of dancers is a vice cop? Or does it mean I am a vice cop?

RiskA law enforcement and club management finding out aren't the only risk with talking about extras. Hell law enforcement cares more about which clubs do extras that which individual dancers do them because if they are looking to stop prostitution they want to shut down the entire club not just bust individual dancers. The biggest risk is that if customer A posts a review about how Barbie offered a bj for $100 or sex for $200 and then customer B goes to the club expecting the same thing for the same price. Barbie may not want to do those same things with customer B or may want to charge him more to do them. This can cause customer B to become argumentative or even violent towards Barbie which no one wants to happen. You also have to worry about the dancer's significant other reading about how she fucked a guy in vip when she has repeatedly told him she doesn't do that at work. This can also lead to violence or can be something that their baby daddy can use against them in a custody battle. In the end, if it is a club where extras are not a secret it isn't hard to find out for yourself what is available and with who while you are at the club. I have no problem with reviews helping customers figure out which clubs offer extras or the prices that are typically charged for those services, but I think giving that info about specific dancers goes too far. After all the girls are free to set their limits and prices on an individual by individual basis without having to explain why they did more with someone else or charged someone else less.

Most of the better areas that are extras friendly like Florida, Texas and City of Inustry have already been mentioned. I had heard good things about wxtras being available in Minneapolis and Denver but from the sounds of it in this discussion it isn't a good deal for the girl financially. I mostly club in the Midwest and extras aren't super common in most of the region. Detroit is definitely the epitome of extras for the Midwest. Louisville has a pretty good selection of extras friendly clubs but it isn't nearly as universal among clubs or even among specific dancers at the club as Detroit is. Lexington has a a limited amount of extras but not nearly as much as it used to. Cincinnati, Columbus, Dayton and Indianapolis are virtually no go as far as extras in the club, but take-out can be had if you build a trusting relationship. Most of northeastern Ohio, especially Akron, are fairly open on extras but the talent level is pretty low. West Virginia is hit or miss on extras with them mainly being available in the smaller clubs in the smaller towns. Pennsylvania used to have some extras but I haven't club there since around 2018 so I don't know it that has changed. The east side of St Louis has extras that are almost as widely available as Detroit but can be a little iffy when it comes to safety. In blahs defense I don't think she was trying to call you fat or insult you in any way. It is just that in some places they seem to only hire rail thin dancers and anyone thicker than a broomstick with curves that aren't made of silicone aren't hired for the clubs. Personally I tend to avoid those places.

Yep he left the scene so they had to use camera footage from nearby to find out there was another vehicle involved.

Most of the clubs I go to that serve alcohol require both customers and dancers to be 21 to get in. A couple of the ones without alcohol allow 18 and up for both customers and dancers. I can see not allowing workers who are under 21 in a club with alcohol sales, but I don't see a reason for it in clubs without alcohol. It would be very easy for a club with alcohol to get in trouble with the liquor board for an underage dancer getting caught with alcohol that was either sold directly to them or given to them by a customer or another dancer.

Looks like a major player from UGA, and potential top NFL draft pick, is facing charges from this wreck. https://sports.yahoo.com/arrest-warrant-issued-for-potential-top-nfl-draft-pick-jalen-carter-for-alleged-role-in-fatal-january-car-crash-151218614.html Turns out Jalen Carter was racing the staffer who was driving the suv that crashed and then fled the scene before cops showed up. He left one teammate and the staffer dead and two other teammates injured in the wrecked SUV while he fled to protect himself, what a great role model for some NFL team to add to their organization.

Considering I wasn't even a year old yet when M.A.S.H. ended and wasn't born when JR got shot this thread doesn't make me feel old. In fact reading comments on TUSCL makes me feel a lot younger than I do most other times.

Muddy's tip jar for dancers and view counts on discussions, articles, reviews and even clubs would be nice. Maybe a way for users to choose which forums show up in the discussions main page would be nice. That way we could view the forums we want to see all together while ignoring the TJ or Politics forums if we aren't interested in them. I would say a board like the club specific ones for an entire city or state would be nice to be able to discuss things like comparing clubs, recent crackdowns by law enforcement, etc would be nice but it may be more work for @founder than it is worth in the end.

These are the top 5 network shows that I have rewatched over the past couple of years: West Wing ER 24 CSI Sopranos Others I would recommend would be: House of Cards Game of Thrones (maybe skip the last season) Breaking Bad Criminal Minds Lost (absolutely skip the last season) Blacklist

I've never seen a club that doesn't allow cigars if they allow cigarettes. It seems to be either completely no smoking or you can smoke whatever is legal. Most clubs only bad smoking if the city/county/state they are in bans it by law. I only remember one club years ago that banned it without being required to and that was just because the old guy that ran the club had severe breathing problems and smoke made it worse. I've never been a smoker but grew up in a house where both parents smoked and the smell has driven me nuts ever since I got out of their house when I went to college. Until then I guess I was just used to it as a kid. Ever since then I prefer to go to non-smoking businesses if possible. If I can't find a non-smoking option in the area I am in I can usually deal with it, but there have been clubs that the smoke smell was so bad I had to leave right after I got there. If a business wants to allow smoking, and the law in the area allows it, that is their choice to make. It is also my choice to not do any business in a place that allows it. I really wish places that allow it would at least spend the money to put a decent ventilation/filtration system in place to minimize the smell and health effects, it would likely pay for itself after a while by increasing the number of non-smoking customers.

I don't want anything, even a name tag, covering up any more of the dancer than necessary. Maybe they should all just get their name airbrushed onto their g-string? By the time that comes off I don't care what her name is.

It's scary to think what type of woman would agree to do any sort of sex act for $10. It became a lot expensionsive in this case since they are both out on bail/bond for other charges and I assume getting arrested again would cause them to forfeit that bail.

Like you said you opened the door by agreeing to the smaller amounts, but that isn't always a bad strategy. Like you said you pivoted the conversation towards an OTC arrangement to give her the chance to earn what she needs which is what I would do. I have given in to those types of requests before as a way to build towards an OTC opportunity down the line. Personally I try to stick to amounts that I would be willing to give as a tip for a good conversation or as the tip for a good vip session without extras. Generally somewhere around $100-200 depending on the girl and the costs in that area but each person needs to set a limit they are comfortable with in these situations. Once I reach my limit I have to decide if she is going to agree to an otc arrangement or not. If she is, great! If not, time to cut bait and move on to the next one.

Is it likely to get you prosecuted for sexual assault? No. Does cumming in your pants while a stripper is grinding on you without making sure she is OK with it make you an asshole? Yes, at least give her a little warning beforehand so she can choose whether she wants your cum all over her ass or not. Is it likely to get you kicked out of the club? Maybe, depends on the approved mileage limits for the club. Should you expect the dancer to keep grinding on you after you leave a wet spot on your crotch? Hell no, that is something that most dancers would find disgusting. Is it fair to expect her to keep giving you an air dance for the rest of the time you had paid for? Maybe, but at the very least you need to give her time to go get cleaned up from the mess you made on her. I honestly can't see asking her to keep dancing for me after something like that personally, but I guess I can somewhat see an argument that could be made for it.

The new design, like all previous designs of TUSCL, was done by @founder so I doubt he is getting fired Champphilly. He is basically a one man show building and running this site as a side hustle in addition to his regular job. Cut the man some slack and enjoy all the greatness he has given us over the past few decades.

Clubrev to find the map feature simply go to the menu and click on "strip club map". Seems simple enough to me.

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Dickydoo2 since the maps seem to require geolocation services to be turned on I doubt it would work from a computer unless that computer has some type of GPS type capabilities to provide your location. If you are trying to use the map feature to search an area you are not in at the time it is still possible, just not as easy as it was before. Just pull up the map (which will load to your current location) and then move the map to whatever location you want and double tap. It will bring up a map of all of the strip clubs in that location. Not as simple as pulling up a city from the list and choosing the map, but at least it is a work around for now.

I'm not sure I would call it "skill and charm" per se. I am not an overly charming person and I don't have a high level of skill with the ladies but I do fine in a strip club. I would say it is more about just being a decent person who treats the dancers decently. If you do that and have the cash you will be fine. However, I wouldn't go so far as to say "any man" could swap places with me and use the same cash to get the same results either. There are a lot of assholes out there who don't know how to act like a reasonable person and don't know how to treat others, especially strippers, with some respect and common decency. I'm sure those type of guys don't get the same type of service I do unless they pay a lot more for the ladies to overlook their behavior.

The search feature doesn't show any results for heaving so possibly.

Maybe the sort by last comment issue is a browser based issue. I am using Chrome on an Android phone and once I changed it to sort by last comment when the new site launched it has stayed that way the whole time. I haven't had to change it back since then.

"when your customers are mostly older retired gentlemen, don't change anything to your existing successful website." I would actually argue that you need to take the opposite approach in that situation. If your customers are mostly older retirees you need to do something different to attract newer and younger customers. Otherwise your customer base is going to shrink year after year as your customers either run out of extra retirement savings to spend on strip clubs, have declining health or literally die off. Don't believe me, just look at the problems Harley Davidson has struggled with over the past couple of decades as their average buyer got older and older. They have had to adapt and change to try to bring in a new generation of customers.