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10 years ago
GoVikings, feel lucky, the sound of her sucking on that dildo will take a long time for me to forget!
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10 years ago
I've went twice on my birthday, when asked what brings me out tonight I have said its my birthday. First time it was awesome, and did get some moderately more mileage (wasn't normally an extras club, I was a regular and one of the dancers that I had spent ALOT of money on over the years threw me a BJ and wouldn't take a tip since it was my bday. Later on I went back to her place for some OTC action that I didn't end up paying for either. Second time was somewhere else (I was out of town on buisness) and EVERY dancer tried to take me in the back for a special bday present, but at a premium price, and decided that just was not worth it. Thing is, it really depends on the girl and the club, if your a regular, and how well you treat them the rest of the time.
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10 years ago
Option B, then go home with option A afterwards
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10 years ago
In the comedian Drew Carey's book 'Dirty Jokes & Beer, Stories of the Unrefined', he say to never pay more that $20 to a dancer for a lapdance. Good advice
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10 years ago
I've always found that when a dancer asks you for a dance, ask how much the dance is and then ask if there are any extras available. Makes it real easy and to the point when your discussing money, and she knows your serious. Also makes it a good time to negotiate.
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10 years ago
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impalaThe People's Republic of Pennsylvania
Thank you all for your comments and IM's. I was able to finally make contact with Ashley (her civi name) and express to her that she is in all our minds and we all wish her the best. I could tell by her voice that she is in very bad shape. She is a very proud person and she told me not to contact her again, she wants her friends to remember her at her best, not when she was sick. I do know her sister and have talked with her and she is going to keep me updated to what's going on, and I will try to keep you all updated if I can. Again, thank you all.
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10 years ago
My problem is that I a lot of times stop at SC in the afternoon while I am out on the road. Many times a club that is awesome at midnight just sucks at 3 in the afternoon (if it's even open at all).
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10 years ago
Most clubs around here aren't open Sunday's. I have went a few times when I am out on the road, though. Usually pretty mellow on Sunday's.
BTW, Diva, what part of the country you dance anyways?
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10 years ago
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san_jose_guymoney was invented for handing to women, but buying dances is a chump's game
Tell him to do his research to make sure they do offer service. Nothing worse than halfway through a massage realizing its a legit place.
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10 years ago
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BigPoppa99;)Florida-hooking up with Ms. EveHartley, since 2010!
Walked by a Lapdance booth and saw dancer and custie doing lines of coke
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10 years ago
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impalaThe People's Republic of Pennsylvania
She's probable early mid 30's now, and I know she smoked at least 2 packs a shift. Last I knew I don't think she had any kids so at least that's one thing she doesn't have to worry about.
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10 years ago
I guess I must be going to lower end clubs, but those prices would break me really quick. I'm use to the $100 hour rooms (plus tip of coarse which is usually the same as the tip) and those I am absolutely sure I'm getting FS, and for the hour it had better be multiple shots! But, even then, for that amount, I usually try to set up some OTC where there is a lot less stress for her of getting caught and usually a lot more is on the menu.
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10 years ago
Yeah, I agree, that's way too much spent, doesn't matter how good a piece of tail she is. 1 bill most ITC, 2 bills most OTC and I had better get AT LEAST a full hour with multiple shots.
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10 years ago
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shailynnThey never tell you what you need to know.
I was introduced to the hobby by a friend while we were out of town for work. I was pretty young and had never been to a SC before, but it was an instant attraction. Every time we were out of town we would hit a different (or several different) strip clubs. Then the dumb ass had to go and get himself married and he was no longer allowed to hang out we me, his wife would say that I was a bad influence on him (go figure). Today, most of my friends are married, in serious relationships, in jail (story for another time), or just don't want to go. Once in a great while someone rides shotgun, but usually I go alone anymore, just simpler that way.
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10 years ago
So wrong in so many ways
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10 years ago
Plus, real girlfriends can somehow turn into wives, been there, done that, got the t-shirt, she got the t-shirt (and a lot more) in the divorce. This is so much easier and a world cheaper.
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10 years ago
I agree, I prefer GFE. I have heard some people say that it's kinda pathetic to kiss and cuddle when your paying for it, but when you think about it what's really the difference from going on a date (or several usually) with someone you only intend to screw anyways. Really, how much is dinner(s), drinks, maybe a movie or going to a club, or whatever else it takes to get her in the sack, and at least with this you can pick who you want, know pretty much what your gonna get, and when it's done you don't have to worry about dodging her or ignoring annoying phone calls. It's like having a girlfriend without the baggage.
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10 years ago
The "flirts" that want to sit with you, talks to you, touches you, gets you all worked up and when you ask for a private dance says "oh, I don't go back there, I only dance on stage". Also, I hate the ones that promise you all sorts of things in the backroom while you are sitting at the bar with her, then you go back and she won't even take her top off.
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10 years ago
If I was you I would go to the local AFL-CIO office and say that you are being discriminated against because of your ocupation. Those people are ruthless, maybe they can even get the neighbor evicted!
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10 years ago
Better one, this one is from the comedian the late John Fox:
Little boy goes to his dad and asked "where do babies come from", the dad looks at his son and say "the stork", little boy looks back at his dad and replies "you screwed the stork?"
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10 years ago
Up till about 6 months ago I was still using my old fop phone that didn't have a camera on it, never had an issue taking into a SC, then the company made me get an iPhone and usually if it seen I am told to take it to my car.
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10 years ago
Rockstar, you are right to a point, 20 years ago you did see alot more coke, i think it's still (if not more) prevalent, I just think that their just not as open today about it (or any drugs). I think that the enforcement of drug laws and policies today are much higher than they were a couple of decades ago (for even minor violations) and people are just not as open today about it.
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10 years ago
Chandler, I agree, prescription drugs in recent years are also becoming more prevelant.
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10 years ago
I have known quite a few dancers, and most don't regularly use drugs, but do socially. From what I have seen, maybe 1 in 10 are actually addicts. IMO weed is very common, especially in the lower end clubs or those with more of a colored clientele and/or dancers. Crack is also somewhat common in the the lower end clubs, especially with Latinos and colored. X is a little more prevalent in clubs that seem to be more like a dance club with strippers. Coccain seems to be the drug of choice in high end clubs, mostly with white girls that come from upper middle class families. Of coarse, these are only observations that I have made and the lines are very blurry between them, and of coarse alcohol is prevelant in almost all. As far as your question about club toleration, officially they don't, but I have know dancers that smoke weed or do lines with the bouncers, bartenders, managers, etc. so while not officially condoned, it goes on (hell, knew one girl who told me that the club owner was also her dealer, real screwed up situation). Like any part of life, people who feel they have few or no choices in life often fall into using drugs, while others enjoy the "party lifestyle" and that's how they get involved. As far as telling wnether they are using or not, it can be hard, especially for those who recreationally use or have been doing it for a while but not hard (just like the "functional alcoholic", and some it's hard not to tell. Biggest jugestion I can say is if it's your thing, go with it, if it's not, stay clear the best you can so that you don't get dragged in.
Now that I have posted my thoughts, everyone who disagrees with me just remember, this is only MY OPPINION, and there are always exceptions to the rules.