Making a deal for extras
reignfire
South Carolina
I've never had to ask a dancer for extras before; they're usually given to me without me asking for them. I've now been asking for extras for the past few years but not a lot, only a few times and with a few dancers...none for nipple sucking. I've never had to as to suck a dancer's nipples; dancers used to shove them in my mouth during dances but that hasn't happened in a while. I'm thinking about asking a few dancers about letting me letting me suck on their nipples during their regular dances. One particular dancer I have in mind because she has the best-looking natural D-cup breasts I've seen in years. I've done a few dances with her but none since last year. She always either grinded on me for a little bit or she would put my face directly between her tits without any chance of her nipples near my mouth. I asked her sometime last year about it; she said she didn't like strangers sucking her nipples, not even me after spending a few hundred. I suspect that she may allow it (and possibly more) if it was in the Champagne Room but I'm not going to find out. I just want to see if she would be willing to work out a deal with me in the couch room and if so, how much. What do you think would be a reasonable deal?
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On the other hand, nipple sucking doesn't seem like much of an extra to me.
And you're probably paying too much if you view this as an extra. Extras means your dick comes out of your pants.
If she's not ok with my offer, that's fine.
You need to always take care when negotiating for extras because in many nanny states it is a worse offense soliciting a dancer.woman for paid sexual favors than the actual sale. In other words you can go to jail for just asking.
I personally think willing seller willing buyer does no harm to anyone but now they are setting traps. I have seen signs in clubs stating soliciting a dancer for sex is a "felony" (in so many words)
So I only ask her rules and wait for her to make the first move.
As for extras, instead of asking a stripper what she'll allow, I tell her what I'd like to happen. If there's reason to worry about soliciting, I'm not in that club. And I never show anyone how much money I have. Even if it works sometimes, it's just a lame way to roll.
If she's not ok with my offer, that's fine."
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+1. And there are a lot of ways in which that goofy game could backfire. At best you've positioned yourself as a semi-charity case with little likelihood of repeating anytime soon. At worst, she'll sniff out that you're running a game. Either way, you risk a sub-par performance and increase the likelihood that she will fail to deliver altogether.
I've always found the simplest approach to be to know your market and to make a fair offer. Either she accepts it or she doesn't. Sure I might be able to squeeze her for an extra $20 or even $40, especially if she is desperate that night, but I think that "penny conscious, pound foolish" really applies in that situation.