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7 years ago
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SubramanCar key and wallet dating your sister
Yeah, I should mention this girl has made the critical mistake of allowing her BF to sometimes look through her phone. I will never understand this ... Anyway, that's why she's got the 2nd phone. I told her that rather than having to manage a 2nd phone, on android you can get a 2nd line (like sideline), and then there are apps that will hide other apps, so that even if he gets her phone, he won't be able to find Sideline or any of the texts or calls that have come through it. But she has an iPhone so I don't know what to suggest to her.
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7 years ago
I use a for-fee lookup site, that often catches mobile phone numbers and sometimes even google voice and other 2nd line type phones, to:
1. Check on myself, to make sure my Ho Line hasn't been connected to the real me
2. Check on my real-life dates, for any funny business
3. Check on OTC girls, for any funny business
Mostly, no alarm bells are raised, but a couple of times I have decided to call off an OTC. I specifically remember looking up a girl who my buddy was going to go OTC with, the service found her real name, we looked up her facebook, and it was alarming enough that he called that one off. It's a quick and cheap double-check.
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7 years ago
^^^ and if you WERE a butt man, you might rate her lower. Being a butt man is not the same thing as liking caricature-like fake butts
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7 years ago
I'm sure things vary by market. In this area, BP was the domain of the bottom-trawlers: low quality customers seeking low-end providers. You could find diamonds in the rough, as joc mentions, since everyone has to start somewhere, but typically you avoided backpage if you weren't a bottom-shelf customer.
However, a few years ago, the local dominant sex industry site was closed, and with nothing to fill the vacuum, everyone moved to backpage. So as a customer, I had to go to BP to find quality providers, and find some way to separate them from the low-end providers. There are some new local sites that are mostly taking back over, although it remains the case that there are more quality providers on BP than there used to be 5 years ago
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7 years ago
She looks like a cartoon, which is incredibly unattractive to me. Cute face but I would not look twice at her at the club. Good news for you guys, I won't be monopolizing her for 4 hours :) :)
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7 years ago
I do the vast majority of my SCing in no-nudity no-extras clubs, and this has been my M.O. for about 10 years now... but I have to admit, this is more of a "turning lemons into lemonade" thing than anything else. Those no-nudity clubs are my only options, since the nude clubs are usually such poor choices here. Everyone once in a while I take a trip back to a nude club and, man, I fucking love it that she's nude. The fact that there's no alcohol sends me scurrying back to my non-nude clubs, but dang I like the nude
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7 years ago
s88, you're nothing if not consistent, as far as making things crazy complicated for yourself, and then getting confused at the result :)
-->" Is that what killed it?"
I think what ultimately killed it is:
- The general excrucating complexity of talking to you had to have her already very wary, you already prying into whether she's single, etc.
- The lack of clarity on whether, if she put this time aside for you, you might simply meet her a5 panera and then decline and go home -- that is, total lack of clarity on any details at all, especially whether she'll be paid -- is enough to by itself to call it off
- Then, you call her without permission. WAAAAAAY the fuck over the line, that by itself should merit an instant and permanent decline, as well as her warning her friends (if she has any) not to deal with you.
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7 years ago
Thanks for posting ... BBBJ has risks even for the receiver, even if they're relatively low. My general rule is, I don't partake in BBBJ from strippers, but the exceptions prove the rule, and I do occasionally indulge with ATFs.
There's a well-known guy on a local forum who has been eating stripper pussy and asshole (yes!) for decades, and clams he's never gotten anything. Lower risk doesn't mean no risk, but lots of guys have had long runs without catching anything. On the other hand, guys have reported catching something, and I do respect the balls it takes to post about it here
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7 years ago
londonguy: I realize there are lots of English accents, but I don't know which is which. Broadly speaking, I divide them into:
The set of accents that make you sound like a villain in a Bond movie: hot hot hot... even though, obviously, anyone with that accent is smarter than me
The set of accents that make you sound like you could be an extra on Peaky Blinders or Green Street Hooligans: only mild boner inflaters, but just love listening to them
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7 years ago
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flagoonerEverything written by this member is a fact.
LOL don't tip the door girl
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7 years ago
English and Scottish accents: max boner makers
French, Irish: mild boner inflaters
Most central/south American accents: mild boner deflaters
middle eastern accent: massive goat fucking boner killer
most eastern European accents: boner killer
African & Jamaican accents: I've never heard either in the club, and they're neutral as far as my boner goes, but I can listen to them all day
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7 years ago
While I don't want to hear sex stories about her and her other OTC customers, I DO absolutely love to hear stories about guys who do stupid things, insult the girls accidently, forget their money, or anything else the girls want to vent about. Totally get a kick out of it.
Agree with JS's first two rules: no clock watching, and most of the time we'll be doing lunch/dinner & drinks at minimum. She doesn't have to act like my girlfriend, I'm often fine if they just act like crazy fun party girls, but she does need to keep a good amount of her attention on me (hopefully Ikeep up my half of the conversation so it's easier)...
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7 years ago
I've flown to Vegas a bunch of times in the past few years, and "guess who's the stripper" is enormously fun at the gate on those flights :)
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7 years ago
I do enjoy a game of "guess who is the stripper". Tip-offs include: very attractive and dressed specifically to play that up and attract attention, suspiciously overdone makeup, tats, and a purse worth thousands of dollars. If you get all of those, there's a good chance she's a stripper
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7 years ago
in FBSM we call it frottage. Agree it likely carries risks, particularly for things like HSV &HPV. Also agree it feels pretty awesome and is an amazing tease. I don't do it with anyone Iwouldn't consider BBFSwith
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7 years ago
Mamisan very wise! I just wish she didn't put peepee in my Coke.
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7 years ago
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Doces300You can run but you will only die tired
I find twerking to be a low-class automatic turn off (oh yeah, and get off my lawn), but I'd say north of 85% of girls do it now, so it's just something I mostly overlook. Unlike shadow, I DO like looking at butthole, but I like it to be presented to me with a certain level of class and decorum (LOLOLOL!!!! Even I realize how retarded that sounds, but it's absolutely true).
Classic stripper sultry dance = look at how sexy everything looks down here. You know you want it. It tastes like peaches.
Twerking = look at all this nastiness! Look at it! I poop from here! I poop from here!
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7 years ago
How busy a club is varies according to seasons, and that can affect the vibe. But beyond that, IME any difference in club vibe based on seasons is likely more in your head... that is, if you are in a better mood because it's nicer out, you might perceive all your interactions in the club more positively
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7 years ago
there's a class of strippers we call "door vultures" on the local forums, those girls are routinely the worst strippers in the club, and specialize in a hard sell on guys the moment they walk into the club, then delivering really poor service with hard upsell, then move on to the next chump. the thing is, i don't think any of us need a rule to detect door vultures, they set my pl meter off most of the time.
beyond that, ski, i personally haven't experienced any correlation between "first girl to approach" and poor service. if she can make it through my gauntlet -- 10+ minutes of great conversation without any selling, then accept my offer of doing a shot, then more conversation, etc. -- then she's qualified. doesn't matter if it's the first girl or the 5th, i dismiss every girl who fails, and give a chance to any who doesn't.
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7 years ago
this term "roll call", you're using it to mean on online list of who is currently dancing? if so, i've seen 3 situations where the list doesn't match who is actually dancing:
- some clubs put down who is scheduled, rather than a current list of who is dancing
- some clubs put down who checked in, but don't update when the girl leaves early. in addition, some clubs let the girls take breaks outside the club, so she might be off the premises for an hour
- there's a club here that does a reasonable job of keeping the list updated, but when the list is light, they pad it with "new dancer 1", "new dancer 2", etc. that's a running joke among the pls
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7 years ago
my experience with the girls who still use email, is:
- it's just something they give you, and they don't email back
- She's a high volume girl who uses email to send out blast-o-gram emails about when she's working, etc.
in short, not a good sign that she'll be personally responsive to me in setting up appointments, etc., but i imagine it's a better way to swap videos
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7 years ago
-->"^had a girl give a wipe down to all said areas on the floor right before a dance"
I've told this story before. I had this stripper with this fucking amazing ass -- breaks-the-curve hot ass -- stick her ass in my face. I couldn't help myself, I just stuck my face in and bronski'ed and kissed anything that got close. She wiggles my face in deeper for a while, then turns around and:
Stripper: "I smell good back there, right?!"
Me: "You smell great! Not all the girls sm--"
Stripper:"The black girls."
Me: "What?" *looking around furtively, even though we're alone in the VIP*
Stripper: "The black girls. They don't even shower. They get here, use baby wipes to clean themselves, and I can still smell them from standing next to them. Then they just go out on the floor."
Me: "Uh, I don't think a couple of white people are allowed to be talking about this."
Her: "No soy guera"
Me: "I don't understand ebonics"
Ha ha! Just kidding about those last two lines, but she WAS latin, and the entire rest of the story happened as stated.
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7 years ago
-->"I get:
1) soft hands"
I get that also. Lord help me, I think that is a genuine ... well, not compliment, exactly. But it IS a genuine observation. All the blue collar guys have rough hands, and any of the white collar guys playing rough sports might have rough hands, too. The girls aren't necessarily complimenting you -- they may well be implying that you have girly hands -- but it IS a genuine observation. I think.
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7 years ago
No time to shower
Bitch hand me the baby wipes
Vaj pits ass so clean
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7 years ago
Past life must have sucked
Reincarnated as a
Couch in champagne room