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6 years ago
There is no such link on my chrome browser on my windows desktop. Nor is Last Comment a link on my android phone, with either Dolphin or Firefox as mobile browsers. I'm the only one this doesn't work for? WTF
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6 years ago
Well, since so many guys (including me) use ATF to just mean "one of my favorites of my current favorites", I've been using ATATF (all time ATF) for a coupla years now. Plus, it pisses off the guys who demand compliance to the "you're only allowed one ATF", which is a nice side benefit lol
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6 years ago
I may be mis-remembering, but in the past, from the top level forum page, I thought there was a link that would take me directly to the last post, which I think is what you're asking for. Or, I could be high and dreaming it, but in any case, such a feature would be great. It's not so much about arguments, but any long thread is a drag to scroll through if you just need to see the last few posts
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6 years ago
We knew you'd be back. They always come back. No one can stay away from this honey right cha
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6 years ago
I have traveled with my ATATF, each time it was outrageously fun. I can definitely imagine how things can go sideways with a stripper you don't know well, but if you already know you're at least vaguely compatible, it'll be great. Vegas is an especially fun place with strippers
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6 years ago
RIP Vince
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6 years ago
It definitely happens. Just like with PLs, the psychological effects are well out of proportion to the actual loss -- no one likes being made into a sucker or victim. I can wipe my ass with the $15 that the last girl tried to short me, but the mere fact that she tried had long-lasting impact in how I interact with strippers, when I pay, etc. The strippers have the added pressure that they're not getting ripped off for their play money, but money they need to support themselves. So regardless of how often it happens that the girls get ripped off, expect it to have out-of-proportion impact to how they think and act
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6 years ago
My CFs have always just tried to come in on the days I'm going in, if I can't make it on a day they're scheduled. I've never had to pay more for that, and think that's a terrible precedent that might bite you in the ass. For me, at least, buying her lunch is something I always do anyway -- in the club if the club has a kitchen, outside the club if it doesn't. Note that while we PLs think "come spend an hour with me before your shift and I'll buy you a fancy lunch" is a huge magnanimous gesture, at least some girls look at that as more like a benefit to you, since you get the pleasure of an hour of their company for just the $25 (or whatever) their lunch and a drink costs.
All of this is a long way to say: your best bet is to be a good enough customer (whatever that means to her) that she'll just come in to see you, because 1. you're a good customer and she is guaranteed a decent payday, and 2. in the back of her mind she's nervous that you might find someone you like better
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6 years ago
-->"What about saying "I normally hang out with (insert CF name) but she isn't working this week.""
What is it you're trying to communicate with her? That you already have a CF so she shouldn't get her hopes up?
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6 years ago
When I'm CF hunting, I usually don't tell them I'm in the CF market... it's easy to over-think this, but I do think some more seasoned girls sometimes think you're trying to manipulate them, and even the less-seasoned ones, if you don't end up CFing them, tend to think in retrospect that you tried to manipulate them. I'm not entirely sure this isn't overthinking, because there have been times I've just outright said I'm CF hunting, and didn't notice any obvious difference in treatment, positive or negative.
I do tend to otherwise send signals that I'm a high-value customer though, and worth her time investing in. Why yes, I AM a regular, thankyouforasking, I come in as often as weekly when I find a great stripper
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6 years ago
rockstar: Siren was still around when we adopted PL as a badge of honor in ass-c, so at the very least, she knows it got picked up and stayed around for years. But you're right, it would be really interesting to know whether she's aware that it appears the term is a semi-permanent feature of the sex industry landscape now
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6 years ago
Yep, it was an ass-c'ism. I only hazily remember it, but it was hysterical. If I remember right, Siren (a stripper at Chez Paree, probably) accidentally posted it to a.s.s-c instead of PMing it to another girl. We adopted that term immediately
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6 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
The higher end clubs here have showers. At least a couple of them have a bidet. I am thankful for both.
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6 years ago
I *always* say that I'm his parole officer
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6 years ago
Ya, 8s are hot -- at any social gathering most of us would be at, an 8 would always be the hottest girl in the room. So I silently changed her to a 7 in my head
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6 years ago
In the department of "easy for me to say, since I rarely go to extras clubs", my policy is: I don't kiss at extras clubs. I realize it would be much more difficult to follow this policy if we had decent extras clubs with pretty girls around.
In the non-extras clubs I go to, I'll happily kiss any stripper I'm attracted enough to spring for a VIP on, if she's willing
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6 years ago
Funny the waitress picked it up... maybe thinkng it's a coaster or something?
ya, good lesson, keep absolute track of the phone. I feel the phone is a non-negotiable safety device, plus the way my kids will reach me if they need me in an emergency, etc., so not an option not to have it with me. But I do keep close track of it... although that doesn't mean I won't lose track someday. I do have insurance, all my data is backed up, and the memory and card are encrypted, so though I do my best to make sure it will never happen, it's a $100 mistake
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6 years ago
Like sshrfrsky, in the first years I SCed, the thought of eating at the club was positively nauseating. The change happened when I switched to higher end clubs, and carefully watched as the manager, bouncers, strippers, and even the cooks came out at all ate from the buffet. I figured if they were diddling with the food, *someone* would have noticed. I tried the buffet and it was surprisingly good considering it was a strip club buffet. And the food was downright good when I ordered off the menu.
Now, of course, not only do I eat at the club regularly, but for those of us who like to hang out with the stripper for a long time, it's the #1 best value in the club... I can easily get an hour of hanging-out time for the cost of splitting a $15 chicken club. Plus it keeps the girls from getting so drunk, since I will be plying them with drinks
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6 years ago
You will regret that decision the day you need to move from Mumbai to Bangalore, and you try to do it yourself, and along the way, you lose three of your best goats. Your best goats, justme.
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6 years ago
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6 years ago
My guess is that he's somewhere between 40 and potato
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6 years ago
-->"Bacon-wrapped scallops was my choice that day, as I recall."
I eat in my fave strip clubs all the time, but seafood is a level of strip club culinary machismo I have not reached
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6 years ago
-->"A masseur would probably bank with all of the horny straight women out there who aren't getting the attention that they want at home. I'm surprised that there aren't more of them out in the field working that angle."
There's a male masseur who has been advertising in the FBSM classifieds in this area for at least 15 years, for female clients only. A bunch of FBSM and escort providers have written him nice reviews, so he seems to be a minor hit at least among female sex providers. From conversations with him, I definitely get the sense that business is not exactly booming, and I don't know if he has another job as well, but hey, he's still around giving women full body sensual massages
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6 years ago
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Jascoimr.wonderful to single moms and college age girls...
Uprightcitizen: finish that thought. And make it sexy -- I'm already unzipped
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6 years ago
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Jascoimr.wonderful to single moms and college age girls...
I'm liking the purple top-banner too