Comments by HungryGiraffe (page 5)

Lots of strippers are “normal”. The vast majority leave their stripper “jobs” each day and blend into society just fine. They tend to have an independent and open mindset, and are generally happier than miserable housewives stuck in shitty marriages. Think about the disfunction and psychosis that engenders. I agree with comments about many strip clubs being a toxic environment for strippers, especially because of alcohol, drugs and exposure to abusive people - both male and female. I like strippers because they tend to be pretty, open, non-judgemental, risk takers, and fun. They are entertainers. Like many entertainers their stage persona is different than their off-stage personality. No big deal.

Plus, she’s a bit old at 44, has an unusually big forehead, and has fake boobs. That’s a deal killing combo for me.

I’ve seen her videos and I’m not impressed. Plus,

Been away for awhile. When did Juice disappear the time? We’ve seen this movie before.

What Call.Me.Israel said! Too much spare time on their hands, Probably true for me too. Generally, I think the multiple alias members see themselves as “TUSCL entertainers”. Personally, the aliases don’t bother me. Good to see folks laughing and having fun. Too much serious shit happening in the world. TUSCL is a great place to relax, and relieve boredom. Love the fact people are FREE to use this forum in multiple ways. The diversity of thought and sense of community is awesome!

What’s wrong with falling in love with a stripper? They are real humans ya know. After doing their “job”, they like to enjoy life just like us PLs. Some “rules” are meant to be broken. Maybe some part of her passion was sincere. Maybe she’s looking for a solid, caring guy IRL. Maybe that guy is you.

Bama’s 2nd string true frosh QB played like a Heisman champion! Very smart kid.

I’m impressed by the simplicity and low transaction costs of Ripple. Great for supply chain management. Has big bank support, including American Express.

Bama

Dancers respond positively to "confident" male custies. Confidence ranks right up there among evaluation factors with spending, appearance and smell.

Per selected reviews of PL, Billy Joel appears there sometimes.

I've been to both. Strongly prefer PL, given the attractive multicultural dancer roster, the standard lubed BBHJ service, plus other handsy stuff. Haven't landed FS ITC at PL, but OTC is available after developing a relationship. I understand full menu is provided at BPT. I personally think it's a dump and the dancers are mostly fugly.

An OTC meetup doesn't always have to be proceeded by ITC play time and a long vetting period. The reigning OTC philosophy amongst OTC vets is "Just Ask!" Most OTC for me happens after first meeting. I met a smoking hot dancer at a non-LD club. Bought the perfect body, aspiring model a drink. Talked for 30 mins at the bar. Mentioned SD-SB relationships, and turns out she had some experience. Exchanged digits. We got to know each other via text, sexting some very racy pics and vids. Met up a couple weeks later for dinner and overnight OTC. Afterwards, had some misunderstanding about the financial arrangement, but quickly resolved that. Unfortunately the miscue soured the relationship, and we were one and done. Sex was meh anyway, but modeling pics and vids were awesome. Miss that pretty lady! If you see someone you'd like to OTC with, just ask. Strippers are constantly asked for OTC. If they like you, and the financial arrangement is reasonable, most will say yes. No begging or "pledging" required.

My favorite RI club is Desire in Providence. Offers topless and nude lap dances and high mileage VIP, both in mostly private rooms.

Very cool! Thanks for sharing.

Some of the best lessons in life come from the "School of Hard Knocks". With that said, I say go for it. "Just ask" for the pussy. If she says "No", don't beg for it. Just move on. Plenty of strippers out there that will really "love" you and appreciate who you are. BTW, just so you know, there's likely a BF banging her for free and taking a cut of her earnings.

My first club was Thee Doll House in North Myrtle Beach, SC about 6 years ago. Had passed the club a number of times while in town for a conference. Decided to stop in on last evening in town. Arrived around 7pm and was just about only patron. Enjoyed the company of a gowned Italian-Native American stunner. Didn't know anything about lap dances, VIP or OTC. Quickly found out and have been hooked on our hobby ever since.

I like Samantha best.

Nice!

Very cool!

^^^ LOL! Been there with getting on a strpper's shit list. Move on!

bk2016, I can relate. Sounds like $800 will pinch the budget. Suggest you slide over to NJ or LIC and find a club where the honeys will do OTC for $200-400 for a couple hours. In NJ there are a few spots where ITC FS is readily available.

In general, I've learned to be cautious whenever a third person starts to get involved in one of my OTC relationships. If OTC girl depends on a ride, then either a GF or BF will be in the mix ... watching the clock. Trust your gut!

I'm not into guns, but precautions are necessary in the OTC game. I've experienced the grab and dash, and bat-shit crazy type. In response, I've slowed my roll with OTC, taking more time to get to know a playmate. Working out a lot better for me.

The key words she used to describe her future husband is that he had an "open mind". I enjoy the strip club industry and forums like this where I connect with other open-minded people. I also think people who want to move away from their past have a responsibility to keep mum about things they aren't proud of. Got the impression the writer wanted it both ways - being able to freely write about her past sex work, but not have to deal with the flack and opinions of others.