Might be closer to my first OTC experience

Lurker_X
North Carolina
About a month ago I was at a club, and most of the strippers didn't appeal to me - except for this one attractive one who spent most of her time in one guy's lap. I eventually stopped her when she was walking around and bought a few floor and VIP dances. The dances were good, although she went back to him when we were done. She did indicate verbally that she wanted me to remember her though.

I made a mental note of the night she works, and came back a few weeks later. She recognized me, kind of hung around me a bit during the slower part of the night, prying me to buy a drink (yeah OK whatever) and I got a few more VIPs. The dances got a smidge better, a little more eye-to-eye contact and firmer tittyface action. But I was also diving my attention with another dancer, and left without making anything of it...

So on my third club visit, she comes right up to me and asks "Hey where were you yesterday? I was texting you" - Which was my opportunity to explain that I'd never given her my number, but "Now you have spilled the beans that you communicate with customers".

That led into a conversation whereupon she admitted she works some nights at another club "only to have dates with customers in the champagne room". Then while with her, an ex-dancer/promoter was visiting the club, and she came up to us. They gabbed, the promoter was cultivating a list of girls for private parties, and my companion said "Oh yeah I'd love to do some privates". So of course I got to follow up on her perspective on that, and she explained that "Yeah I'll will see some guys on the side if they seem safe. I like to have dinner with them first to check them out. No sex though, just foreplay."

I'm discussing these things like it's something I hadn't thought of before, and she's educating me... I asked her if the rules get relaxed without the club oversight, and she said she said of course.

So I bought a few more dances with her, tipped her an extra $12 "just for talking with me and discussing things". Again the dances got a little bit better - more crotch to crotch rhythm, she would clamp on my thigh more, and put both feet on the chair at times, "...which is against club rules, but I just don't listen well..." (I thanked her for taking good care of her customers, haha).

But then she saw "a regular" in the club and needed to excuse herself, spending the next few hours going from one guy to another for dances and conversations... Gee, I wasn't her new found friend anymore... Well no big deal, I don't need to chase a stripper, and I know I can come back and continue my inquiries during the slow part of her shift.

Clearly "regulars" are important to this one, and if I follow through with an OTC experience she is likely to mentally reclassify me. And from TUSCL intel, I'd presume she only considers vaginal sex to be "sex" .. and probably does a LOT of "stuff" in private.

In summary ... I get the impression much of the famed OTC hunt is essentially coming back to a club several times, and letting an experienced dancer get to know you. Anyone that's been dancing for several years likely has parameters that she applies to the customers - and if you're a responsible, paying customer she recognizes, the OTC-eligible girls in a club are going to begin dropping hints.

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Cashman1234
7 years ago
You know what you are doing, and it's starting to work nicely. With many dancers (who do otc) everything is negotiable. If the dancer is comfortable with you otc - and she needs money - then things can move beyond what is mentioned in the club.
HungryGiraffe
7 years ago
An OTC meetup doesn't always have to be proceeded by ITC play time and a long vetting period. The reigning OTC philosophy amongst OTC vets is "Just Ask!" Most OTC for me happens after first meeting.

I met a smoking hot dancer at a non-LD club. Bought the perfect body, aspiring model a drink. Talked for 30 mins at the bar. Mentioned SD-SB relationships, and turns out she had some experience. Exchanged digits. We got to know each other via text, sexting some very racy pics and vids. Met up a couple weeks later for dinner and overnight OTC. Afterwards, had some misunderstanding about the financial arrangement, but quickly resolved that. Unfortunately the miscue soured the relationship, and we were one and done. Sex was meh anyway, but modeling pics and vids were awesome. Miss that pretty lady!

If you see someone you'd like to OTC with, just ask. Strippers are constantly asked for OTC. If they like you, and the financial arrangement is reasonable, most will say yes. No begging or "pledging" required.
jackslash
7 years ago
Regulars are a stripper's bread and butter, and so a regular will get better treatment. A number of dancers have told me they don't do OTC, but changed their mind after getting to know me in the club.
Lurker_X
7 years ago
Just my own hunch, but I think pacing factors into things... I like to not be a horndog right out of the gate, if I sound anxious or impatient then she could sense she has a hook in me, and the price could be higher. But I certainly agree that guys who spends months cultivating an ITC "relationship" in the attempt to "pop the question" merely train the stripper to view you as someone she can keep ITC. Sort of like being friend-zoned in real life.

I will check in with this chick again by month end... everyone has either rent or a mortgage to pay. Suggest to her that daytime meetings are good for me (I can work from home some days and I have some unused vacation). She will probably like that, as most guys would prefer to meet in the evenings after work hours.
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