About a month ago I was at a club, and most of the strippers didn't appeal to me - except for this one attractive one who spent most of her time in one guy's lap. I eventually stopped her when she was walking around and bought a few floor and VIP dances. The dances were good, although she went back to him when we were done. She did indicate verbally that she wanted me to remember her though.
I made a mental note of the night she works, and came back a few weeks later. She recognized me, kind of hung around me a bit during the slower part of the night, prying me to buy a drink (yeah OK whatever) and I got a few more VIPs. The dances got a smidge better, a little more eye-to-eye contact and firmer tittyface action. But I was also diving my attention with another dancer, and left without making anything of it...
So on my third club visit, she comes right up to me and asks "Hey where were you yesterday? I was texting you" - Which was my opportunity to explain that I'd never given her my number, but "Now you have spilled the beans that you communicate with customers".
That led into a conversation whereupon she admitted she works some nights at another club "only to have dates with customers in the champagne room". Then while with her, an ex-dancer/promoter was visiting the club, and she came up to us. They gabbed, the promoter was cultivating a list of girls for private parties, and my companion said "Oh yeah I'd love to do some privates". So of course I got to follow up on her perspective on that, and she explained that "Yeah I'll will see some guys on the side if they seem safe. I like to have dinner with them first to check them out. No sex though, just foreplay."
I'm discussing these things like it's something I hadn't thought of before, and she's educating me... I asked her if the rules get relaxed without the club oversight, and she said she said of course.
So I bought a few more dances with her, tipped her an extra $12 "just for talking with me and discussing things". Again the dances got a little bit better - more crotch to crotch rhythm, she would clamp on my thigh more, and put both feet on the chair at times, "...which is against club rules, but I just don't listen well..." (I thanked her for taking good care of her customers, haha).
But then she saw "a regular" in the club and needed to excuse herself, spending the next few hours going from one guy to another for dances and conversations... Gee, I wasn't her new found friend anymore... Well no big deal, I don't need to chase a stripper, and I know I can come back and continue my inquiries during the slow part of her shift.
Clearly "regulars" are important to this one, and if I follow through with an OTC experience she is likely to mentally reclassify me. And from TUSCL intel, I'd presume she only considers vaginal sex to be "sex" .. and probably does a LOT of "stuff" in private.
In summary ... I get the impression much of the famed OTC hunt is essentially coming back to a club several times, and letting an experienced dancer get to know you. Anyone that's been dancing for several years likely has parameters that she applies to the customers - and if you're a responsible, paying customer she recognizes, the OTC-eligible girls in a club are going to begin dropping hints.
