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13 years ago
Try to meet at some public place first. You could meet her for something as simple as coffee or even lunch/dinner one day, and see where it goes from there.
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13 years ago
From what I've heard, some Hong Kong chicks might be down to do this. Maybe the ones that put on the lesbian shows would be open to this afterwards....
Enjoy it. That place is truly one of a kind in North America, for the most part.
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13 years ago
" UK, Russian, Cuban, Brazlian"
Big fan of all of the above
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13 years ago
If the average cost is about $50-60 as well, that's over $3000 in shoes.
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13 years ago
Some guys are actually into that sort of thing. I don't particularly care for extremely high heels, but I can't lie - a nice pair of heels sure doesn't hurt an already beautiful women's look.
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13 years ago
Agreed with rick - that's the situation in the northeast, particularly around the NYC area. Not to mention, the girls don't make much off that champagne room - about $150-200 is what they'd collect from that $600, if I recall. That's under 10 dances for them, so if you really want the girl to be considering any extras, you'd need to pay her an extra $xxx. ITC extras do happen in these clubs, but only at astronomical rates where you'd be better off with an upscale escort.
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13 years ago
You can safely use generic V for about ~$2 per pill. This has been perfectly effective for me.
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13 years ago
@londonguy - in some cities, it's near impossible to find good mileage. Boston and San Diego are two cases where I've encountered this. Luckily for San Diego, Tijuana Mexico is right nearby. But if you're in Boston, you have to deal with air dances (I don't even bother going to the clubs there).
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13 years ago
I would not bother going to any sort of air dance club. If there's decent grinding and some level of two-way contact going on, that's typically enough to make me happy. As long as that is combined with very high talent. This is luckily possible to find within NYC, but other cities I've visited such as Boston have been terrible.
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13 years ago
No, NYC has been doing this for a long time, but I guess it's only recently that it's being made a bigger deal of.
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13 years ago
That's funny...you know it's true that a lot of cabs seem to feature Flashdancers, Private Eyes, or New York Dolls. But to be quite honest, I'm sure the advertising works.
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13 years ago
I've been in similar situations. Remember that in 99% of cases no matter what the girl says - she doesn't "miss you" and probably doesn't care on a personal level as to whether you're in the club or not (at least not very much). It's all about the money from them, and once they do realize that you aren't going to come in very frequently, they will probably stop texting you as well.
I know of a dancer who has the phone numbers of all her regulars along with what appears to be a dedicated phone just for work. She texts all of them frequently saying that she misses them and wants them to come in, etc. To my surprise, this does round up a very consistent amount of customers for her on the days that she works (only like 3 days a week). At this NYC club, she often takes home in excess of $1k in a night. It helps that she is a beautiful girl and will sometimes go the "extra mile" if you know what I mean, but her business plan is quite good to cultivate regulars. And I'm not surprised if other girls are adopting similar methods. Don't get caught up in this for anything more than it is - business.
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13 years ago
I take a set amount with me and if I'm inclined to spend more rather than using a club ATM I'll just have the bouncer handstamp me and go to the bank right next door. No transaction fee as my card is with that bank, so it's perfect. I give myself some leeway on spending but I do have a hard limit that I've never gone over.
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13 years ago
And yeah, I agree with GoVikings. While you don't want to be some crazy regular from whom she gets so much in the club that she has no purpose of seeing outside (and would rather look at as a simple club customer)...but if you see her more than a handful of times she'll get to you know more. It's worth it sometimes to buy the girl a drink and talk to them a bit in these cases.
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13 years ago
If they say "Yeah, let's definitely do this" I wouldn't think they're trying to say no...but if they say "I'll come talk to you later" then it certainly could amount to a no.
They might also have gotten caught up with other customers, etc.
But I can relate to what you're talking about. I get a lot of 'maybes' from dancers. But I've successfully gotten those "maybes" into yes's in two cases, so I don't always consider it to be a no.
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13 years ago
Would much rather go to Brazil. More expensive yes, but we're talking about some of the sexiest women anywhere.
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13 years ago
For what it's worth, anything you charge to a credit card at Flashdancers will show up as if it's some restaurant.
A lot of people charge strip clubs to business, the same way they can charge going to a bar/restaurant.
I've even heard of escorts being put down as a business expense...but that's pretty sketchy.
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13 years ago
Flashdancers without a doubt.
Especially in the day time and early evening, you'll find that most of the clientele is high-end and right off wall street, etc. They do serve food (sushi included) if you wish to order from upstairs. It's not cheap, but it's good.
The girls won't disappoint either. Most are eastern european but there's usually some latinas/exotic looking women in the mix as well.
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13 years ago
Glad to hear this worked out well, would love to hear more details.
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13 years ago
Funny you mention this as I've had a girl ask me for $1000 recently. I obviously declined. She even suggested she take it as a loan from me and pay me back in two weeks with interest. Still, not worth the risk. I wouldn't feel comfortable giving a "loan" to a dancer - if I'm going to give them a lump sum amount (and I'll never give $1000 at once), I'm going to expect something nice in return. Yes, the girls may not think they are whores but if they are texting customers and asking them for loans and don't have any other options to get that kind of money, they might have to start fucking part-time at least.
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13 years ago
But I do wonder if this is a place you can meet girls who may be up for some action OTC (at least on a selective basis)...
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13 years ago
Please tell me this is real?
...who am I kidding, lol.
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13 years ago
I think georgmicrodong nailed it. See, I don't think anyone is arguing that these aren't legitimate gripes...I am sure every dancer will experience most if not all of that. But to and post that list and do so in that way, well, that shows some obvious frustration with the job.
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13 years ago
Care to share any details of what went down?
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13 years ago
It won't pay off the national debt obviously, but it can still help toward that. I also think that it should be legalized, and not because I wish to use such services (it's already basically possible through escorts), but for the economic reasons as well.
Similar arguments are made for legalizing drugs such as marijuana.